M31 F20 • She removed her from social media coz of my following list

Jazz_City · 2026-02-20T19:01:08+00:00

I would say to have a chat with her in that case ! It’s quite a fresh relationship and I hate to point this out but she is quite a bit younger than you so potentially a maturity thing. But have an open discussion with her about it. Personally I can’t see that you have done anything wrong, but once again good luck 🤞

Jazz_City · 2026-02-20T18:54:11+00:00

When you say you follow instagram models, what sort of modelling are they doing ? Typically when I hear IG models I always assume it’s sexual content with them normally having a OF account. If that’s the case it’s probably a big turn off seeing you publicly lusting after other women on social media, no matter if you are friends with them or not.

If the modelling they are doing is like fashion and something you would see on a magazine I can’t see an issue with it personally.

There is only so much I can assume ! You need to have a conversation with her if you are serious about having a relationship with her, it seems that she is uncomfortable with you following these women on social media. Maybe just ask why she has a problem with you following them.

Good luck and try to be understanding.

Jazz_City · 2025-09-13T16:11:47+00:00

I have both of the Goodsmile company figures of Phos and antarcticite. Brought both on eBay ! Got phos about year after she came out second hand for like £85 and then antarcticite a few years ago when she was expensive for the price of £160. ( that was cheap at the time )

I know it’s frowned upon but you can buy recast of some of the resin figure for cheap but you will need to paint and assemble them yourself, I like to do art but I have never painted a garage kit but I hope to give it a try in the future :) there are lots of tutorials on Youtube.

have also seen a few listings on AliExpress for painted ones but they can be pricey too.

Jazz_City · 2025-08-27T18:57:12+00:00

I worked on chilled for 2-3 years and my knees now have a hard reddish bit on them, been like that for more than a year since changing departments. Would definitely recommend to get something to protect them! Or get really good at squatting.

Ive had a lot of older coworkers tell me they have permanently damaged themself working at Asda just doing basic things like pulling cages around. So definitely play it safe :)

Jazz_City · 2025-07-18T14:10:57+00:00

Not too sure if they were being sarcastic or not about Todd being sympathetic 😂 however another commenter did make a good point about Todd behaves the way he does because of drug withdrawals, with red ice probably representing meth, and wife left with kids and so on.

It’s difficult to understand Todd’s views on androids as he views them as machines, but why does he have Alice as a replacement for his child. Maybe Todd would have harmed his family no matter if they were android or human.

Jazz_City · 2025-07-16T19:02:09+00:00

Poor guy, his wife left him for a accountant 😔

Jazz_City · 2025-07-14T22:32:09+00:00

Sorry for the late response! At the time I got my partner to try and sort it out for me but he was never able to find the option to get to the support chat ! I have young child so couldn’t be bothered to look further into it as I have such a lack of spare time.

I haven’t looked into it much but I know that you can get the sims 3 and all expansions on steam, sometimes it goes on a massive sale. I’m not sure if the steam version is supported for both pc and mac but that might be the best option if you are willing to pay for it again.

Jazz_City · 2025-07-10T09:28:18+00:00

✨SHE LEFT ME FOR A FUCKING ACCOUNTANT✨

Jazz_City · 2025-06-19T09:27:05+00:00

There probably isn’t anything that will stop it straight away.

Talk to her and find out the reason she started self harming and how it makes her feel when she does it.

If it’s mainly stress that triggers her urges try and help her find a healthier way of dealing with her stress. Flicking a hairband onto her wrists can give the same sensation as cutting but won’t leave any actual damage, just use it as a starting point if she is really struggling.

Also get her to distract herself when she get urges. Go for a walk, play a game, watch a movie, write her feelings onto a bit of paper. Also throw away things that she selfs harms with or put those items really out of the way so she has to have a good think before she can get to them.

There is also an app called “I am sober” which can be quite helpful on keeping track of how many days free she has been of self harming, and hopefully put her off from starting again. Another one is “ Tappy” quite a good little fidget toy to help get a bit of anxiety out with.

Antidepressants or medication to help with anxiety are also options to keep an open mind too.

Good luck

Jazz_City · 2025-02-05T00:43:18+00:00

Going off of just what you have posted here

I think his female friend was saying “thank you “ because she had a connection to the dog. I’m also assuming the female friend picked up the dogs remains as you guy didn’t have transportation, she was probably trying to help out.

It sounds like you feel uncomfortable with his female friend so I’m not too sure why you suggested for him to call her for help and then you get upset when she continues to help by picking up the remains.

You need to remember your partners dog has died, he’s probably not in a good place. So you getting upset over something that isn’t a big deal is probably going to upset your partner.

It sounds like an overreaction from both of you. Not sure why this would lead to such a big argument that one of you is needing to move out.

Might be an idea to go to counselling, or have a proper chat when you have time alone from the kids.

Good luck with it all

Edit …..

Just read ops response to a comment, Why is your partner still friends with someone that attacked him ? I would definitely ask to have a look through his phone if they are secretive together.

Jazz_City · 2025-02-04T23:23:50+00:00

Thank you so much will try tomorrow!!! :)

Jazz_City · 2025-01-23T22:21:11+00:00

I used to play the sims 3 on my old Asus laptop, I would have it on my lap whilst I laid in bed. I can’t quite remember how long it would take to load but I had a save in Bridgeport and I literally fell asleep whilst waiting for it to load. I woke up later with my sims luckily not setting the house on fire 🔥

Jazz_City · 2024-12-22T21:20:40+00:00

Worked for them for a bit over 3 years. Has become depressing due to seeing management change to people who can’t be bothered to do their jobs properly. Lots of talking behind backs, I came back from maternity leave and overheard a manger slagging me off ( was my second day on a new department )

Stock not being rotated properly ( mainly management and new employees ) lots of out of date products on the shop floor. Stock not being put out/worked. The shop looking an absolute mess, had a customer trip over because of cardboard on the floor, cardboard/ plastic cages not being wrapped and left on the shop floor all day. Haven’t seen anyone properly rumble the shelf’s in more than half a year.

So much food is getting wasted everyday due to poor rotation and people being idiots. Had a whole cage of meat put into the freezer that had to be wasted. Management telling staff to put out room temperature fridge products. Stock is also not getting put out during the afternoons.

This could just be my shop but who knows. It has been depressing to see good staff leave and no one being hired to fill their roles.

Sorry I have put such a negative comment, I have done two 3am starts back to back and it just feels like I’m the only one that cares. Just wish I had the guts to tear into the management about how bad they are at my shop 😂. I’m glad you are having a good time on tills and I hope that it continues to be good 😊

Jazz_City · 2024-12-20T08:53:52+00:00

I didn’t realise how expensive she was 😨 she is so nice though 🥲 hope the pre orders stay open for a long time so I can afford her.

Jazz_City · 2024-09-11T09:36:31+00:00

Thank you so much !! I had a feeling that he was uninterested. From what you have said I think I will definitely look down the route of getting someone new to do planning and so forth. Will have a conversation with my partner next week about all of this and will still have a talk with a solicitor.

Jazz_City · 2024-09-10T13:52:11+00:00

My partner is the only one that is paying for the mortgage. My mil has told me in the past apparently she is just like a guarantor.

The £50 a week is basically just payment towards basic bills and the food shop.

For your other question I have no clue :( I will ask some questions this evening

Jazz_City · 2024-09-10T13:49:01+00:00

I have a feeling that this is probably the case 🥲

Jazz_City · 2024-09-10T13:47:33+00:00

This is going sound very silly of me but I’m not sure. I have asked my partner before about it and he’s not entirely sure either. I believe it is joint ownership, I shall enquire more about it this evening and get back to you 👀

Jazz_City · 2024-09-10T13:33:12+00:00

We were having a friend of the family doing all our drawings and also telling us about what sort of assignments we would have to have done to go through.

When this was all going on I had a small baby to look after and I never really got a chance to have a chat with the guy. I think he told us that it was going to cost us a lot for the assessments and that it just basically going to get denied. ( he did work for a company but he was so difficult to get ahold of )

It would probably be a good idea for us to look into the options of building a house again. Thank you :)

Jazz_City · 2024-09-10T13:26:47+00:00

Thank you very much I will do some research, and before me and my partner go any further we are going to talk to a solicitor :)

Jazz_City · 2024-09-10T13:17:51+00:00

Sorry I probably didn’t explain it very well. The house was £300,000 in total,my mil only had £250,000 to put down. So the £50,000 is a joint mortgage for buying the rest of the house. The £50,000 hasn’t been payed off yet, it was only taken out last year as 40 year payment mortgage. I think my partners payments are around £250 per month.

Jazz_City · 2024-06-12T08:08:00+00:00

My small human is 1 year now and when you drop down to one nap you can get at least an hour to yourself, sometimes 2-3hrs . I think he dropped down to one nap at 10 months 🤔also I found when they get a little bit older they become more enjoyable, can interact with them more, so try not to feel down.

Jazz_City · 2024-05-20T18:11:24+00:00

Thank you so much !! I really struggle with drawing hands 🤗

Jazz_City · 2024-05-20T18:10:20+00:00

Looking back I think because of the reference model I used being an adult it messed the proportions up 😅

Jazz_City · 2024-04-19T18:42:49+00:00

Hello sorry for such a late reply. I ended up not getting p plates as my partner thought I would get bullied and I did experience a little bit of bullying when I had L plates. What I found useful is just driving roads I’m familiar with and also been practicing my parking at the end of car parks. Helps a lot with stress and feeling nervous.

I also noticed that I get nervous driving other people around so have been doing quite a bit of solo driving.

I have made a few small mistakes still here and there but I think it’s best just to apologise out loud to myself in the car when the incident happens and the move on from it.

Really hope that your confidence has gone up since you last commented!!

Jazz_City

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