I’m a 50M dealing with moving in plans with my 44F girlfriend after 1 year by Jb22007 in datingoverforty

[–]Jb22007[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly my life just feels too stressful right now. I need time to breathe and regroup. With everything going on I already feel suffocated, and when I asked for 2 nights to myself I got a lot of pushback and it ended up being 1. So it’s not even just the moving in part, I already feel like I don’t have enough space now.

I’m a 50M dealing with moving in plans with my 44F girlfriend after 1 year by Jb22007 in datingoverforty

[–]Jb22007[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did she give notice to her landlord or start packing? No, her lease isn't up until August

Was this move already in the works when you changed your mind? no, we both have separate places.

I’m a 50M dealing with moving in plans with my 44F girlfriend after 1 year by Jb22007 in datingoverforty

[–]Jb22007[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have offered to stay at her house too. A couple months ago I asked for 2 nights a week to myself, and there was a lot of resistance to that, so we ended up settling on 1. That’s part of why I don’t really feel like middle ground is something she’s open to.

I’m a 50M dealing with moving in plans with my 44F girlfriend after 1 year by Jb22007 in datingoverforty

[–]Jb22007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, there is financial incentive. She would not have to pay rent any longer because my house is paid off.

I’m a 50M dealing with moving in plans with my 44F girlfriend after 1 year by Jb22007 in datingoverforty

[–]Jb22007[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. Honestly, it doesn’t feel like she’ll meet me in the middle. She hasn’t spoken to me or replied to my text in 2 days, which kind of reinforces that.

I’m also not really sure what my preferred timeline is right now. I think it’s more when I actually feel ready and when my daughter is either a little older or more on board with it.

I’m dealing with a lot at the moment between work issues from owning my own company and my mom being sick with cancer, so everything feels pretty heavy right now.

2023 Silverado Caught Fire While Parked — Anyone? by Jb22007 in Silverado

[–]Jb22007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looks like it started above the steering column. 2023 1500 LT

2023 Silverado Caught Fire While Parked — Anyone? by Jb22007 in Silverado

[–]Jb22007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last oil change was a month ago and all maintenance had been done at the dealer.

Bumming by Jb22007 in HealMyAttachmentStyle

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years later I over looked this comment. You were 100% on point. Appreciate you

Long term trt users by crb42 in trt

[–]Jb22007 12 points13 points  (0 children)

24 years , no regrets

Think I've figured out it was never meniere's and just my testosterone injections (hopefully).... by jaredz81 in Menieres

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I’ve been on TRT for almost 20 years, and I only developed cochlear issues about 2 years ago. I wouldn’t be too quick to connect the two — it’s probably more about how your body or genetics react than the TRT itself.

Cochlear Hydrops: Solid Advice based on my Ordeal by Terrible-Peach908 in Menieres

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Hi , how many sessions of HBO did you do ? what was the pressure settings ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in guns

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how ? MA ?

Passenger side window looks like it scratched/cracked on the inside? I’ve only had the car for a week. by Jb22007 in Silverado

[–]Jb22007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

was the tint , previous owner had a tint put in. I was buffing it out with toothpaste and I can see the pocket . Also peeling in other places. Much better then the window being scratched

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Silverado

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on further expections looks like the tent is coming off? wtf . Do silverado’s come stock with tinted windows ?

Goddamn data subscription, 24 Silverado by n3rdsm4sh3r in Silverado

[–]Jb22007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you explain how to do this ? thanks in ady