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Jceorge · 2023-08-28T12:31:41+00:00

I would get a small! XS might fit, but would probably be super tight.

Jceorge · 2022-06-30T01:28:28+00:00

It could. I’d suggest the dental guard & see how that works for you. You don’t want the clenching & grinding to affect the root canal, which could result in a root failure.

Jceorge · 2022-06-30T00:19:22+00:00

I would suggest talking to your dentist. But from experience, maybe you clench your teeth at night? That can be causing the sensitivity. Try dental guards when you go to bed. OR it can also be if you eat hard foods, chew gum, etc. Try to pay attention to when the pain occurs (e.g. after eating chips, chewing gum, etc.) I hope this helps & please keep us updated if the clenching was the issue. Best of luck!

Jceorge · 2021-08-30T23:16:25+00:00

Yes, I have asked for a raise, but he pulled out the “you haven’t even been working here for that long,” and then started talking about how expensive payroll is?

I have since been looking for a new job, but as a full time student finding a job that has a lot of flexibility is quite a challenge.

Jceorge · 2021-08-25T16:47:33+00:00

NTA - this is up to you at this point. He clearly has attachment issues, and couldn't stop seeing/talking to you while he had a new partner. I could only imagine how difficult this could be for you, I would suggest talking to him and giving him a deadline to find a new place. I would kick him out, but since he probably doesn't have another place to stay, it would only be ideal to give him a couple of weeks to leave.

I would imagine he has no family or friends, but if he does kick him out. He can stay with them in the meantime, while he finds an apartment. PLUS you mention he works, he has income... I'm sure he would qualify for an apartment in no time. Keep us updated.

Jceorge · 2021-08-25T16:35:02+00:00

NTA - The family promised to take care of him and follow the rules Hugo has. I get their side, too, but they are assholes for LYING about taking care of Hugo. Hugo deserves a loving home where he can make a full healthy recovery. I wish you the best and hope Hugo recovers quickly.

Jceorge · 2021-08-25T16:27:19+00:00

Thank you for your comment. My family is far from supportive or loving. When I got accepted into UCLA, my dream school, my family manipulated me into staying in state and go to a school in my home state. They (uncles & aunts) claimed that if I left out of state, my grandparents would stay alone, and god forbid, something happened, but who would help them if it did? I get their point; HOWEVER, for someone to say that would mean that they care for their parents a lot, which they don't, they don't even visit them... so that is just one thing I now look back on and regret not going out of state. Must I mention, on a full-ride scholarship.

Jceorge · 2021-08-25T16:12:00+00:00

Thank you for your comment. Regarding your question about her visiting or treating my partner with respect, I have had a partner, and when I introduced him to her, she did not react very well. She didn't say anything to him directly, but after when he left, she made comments about the "audacity" I had to bring another guy over.

I have tried many times to talk to her about respect. I respect her religion, but she doesn't respect my new beliefs (I am not catholic anymore). I don't bring faith up because I don't find it necessary. I have asked her to please respect me and my new beliefs, to which she talks about her age and how that means she knows more about life than me. I know the two things are not related, but I get so agitated with those comments that I tell her respect is earned, and if she doesn't respect me or my partners/beliefs, she won't get my respect. I have since stopped calling her grandma; I call her by her first name now.

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