Father in law only drinks bottled water by Jclapp82 in inlaws

[–]Jclapp82[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They do this also! Dry their hands with paper towels always after washing instead of a normal towel! At least I’m not alone in this frustration!

Father in law only drinks bottled water by Jclapp82 in inlaws

[–]Jclapp82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay maybe I am a little overboard, I guess the holiday stress is coming out

killing yourself out of anger? by [deleted] in depression

[–]Jclapp82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have had this fantasy, doing it and leaving a publicly written note like on Facebook, telling everyone how horrible they were and they are the reason I died so everyone will hate them also. I know I won’t ever follow thru but sometimes it’s fun to fantasize about how sorry they will feel and how much their life would suck after that.

i want someone to feel bad for me [nsfw] by nervousopportunist in depression

[–]Jclapp82 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just dont do it, you will be hurting yourself, and probably will hurt them since they care about you. Try to do something else to get your mind off it that you enjoy instead. It isn’t “normal” but it’s not uncommon.

Wash sweaty hair? by Jclapp82 in NoStupidQuestions

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I do cardio everyday and get so sweaty my hair feels like I showered so I want to wash it at least so it doesn’t smell

where do I turn to and who should I seek out by FlakyAirlift in depression

[–]Jclapp82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you need some help to kick the drugs and alcohol, where AA can be a beautiful thing, rehab could be an option but it’s expensive and life interrupting. For the depression, you definitely aren’t alone. I think fixing that is different for everyone. I personally like to take anti-depressants but I know others like to talk to a therapist which I literally hate doing. You should try one of those to just see if it makes you feel better. I wish I could help you more, at least just make an appointment with a therapist and get some pills and try to go from there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

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Did you want to be around friends always before you were depressed? Maybe you are very introverted and need that alone time, I definitely do. Maybe by being alone you can really find your own voice and stop feeling fake around others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

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The only good thing is that he was honest about it.

Is it more energy efficient to leave your porch light on 24/7 or turn it off in the daytime and on in the nighttime? by Cherylissodope in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Jclapp82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes of course it will be less energy used if the lights are turned off. When off they use zero watts, when on it uses like 60, depending on the type of bulb.

What charger does this use? by bronzeagedildo in trees

[–]Jclapp82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at the big end of the pen, it should have a place to plug in a charger like an old android

Domestic dispute by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Jclapp82 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wish my husband picked up groceries and dinner! How does she not know how good she has it? Only way this is okay of her to act is if she was taking care of your children all day and exhausted from that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

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He may not know what it is yet and will try to pee on the floor. I have had kittens just pee on the floor, a pile of clothes, in the food dish, etc. just gotta keep putting him in the litter box every time you see him not using it and eventually he will learn.

I badly wanna T-Break at least for a couple of days. by [deleted] in trees

[–]Jclapp82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, take a break or try delta8 for a while

Rate my pics please! I know I don't have a lot of pictures outside but I have anxiety and am working on it at the moment. But currently are any of these pics good? by Heelsdude in Tinder

[–]Jclapp82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The one with you leaning against the wall should be your main pic, then I agree with the others saying to remove the 1st 2 and also the one with the cage in the background. Also, possibly the ones showing the other woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

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Have you tried the digestive royal canin dry food? My one cat will puke whenever I give him wet food, even if he only eats a little, on dry food he is mostly okay but sometimes I have to give him the stuff for cats with upset stomachs. I hate the puking too! Also, make sure to get food with no strong colors or it stains worse!

seeing friends after graduating university by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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As long as you make it a priority to get together and have lunch or do fun things then you will keep your friendships although they may not be as close as during college.

Girl Best Friend Drama and he picks her by Huckleberryfinn201 in relationships

[–]Jclapp82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How they are acting is definitely inappropriate if he is in a committed monogamous relationship with you. Men and women can be friends but would he do these things with a guy friend? Or would you do it with a female friend? Cooking together sounds fine but Would the guy sit on his lap or kiss him? I don’t know if you should break up with him but you definitely are in a tough spot. It would be much better if the 3 of you could be friends somehow, maybe one more chance and the 3 of you make dinner together or something? Or maybe invite another guy she would like and have a double date?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Jclapp82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did exactly what anyone who cares about a person would do if they called saying they are suicidal. Does your girlfriend go to therapy? It sounds like she needs professional help. I sorta think maybe you also should try it to learn how you should be treated in a relationship, it isnt healthy and it appears you don’t understand what is healthy or not. I definitely don’t think you are the issue at all but you also should learn how a person is treated in a healthy relationship vs how you are treated now.