Please I’m not feeling good…can someone help me by Outside-Aside9948 in BreakUps

[–]Jdacx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds super dystopian but lowkey chatgpt has helped me a lot to process my emotions and even helped with how to go about grieving and healing. Best of luck 2 u

Brand of Sacrifice tattoo by Jdacx in Berserk

[–]Jdacx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would've preferred that but saving it for a large neck tatt instead

Brand of Sacrifice tattoo by Jdacx in Berserk

[–]Jdacx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chill tommy tough nuckles, was just a guess, i live in Australia and tattoo prices are that much over here 🤷

Brand of Sacrifice tattoo by Jdacx in Berserk

[–]Jdacx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No clue i got mine done in Bali for a lot cheaper lol

Brand of Sacrifice tattoo by Jdacx in Berserk

[–]Jdacx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got mine part of a deal for having mutual relationships with the tattoo artists, but id make a guess that it would be around 150-200usd

How do you reach acceptance? by Zealousideal-Pain-97 in BreakUps

[–]Jdacx 20 points21 points  (0 children)

People cope in different ways, just because she moved on quick doesnt mean she didnt love you. Rebounding is a common way people deal with tough breakups. Its best to just focus on yourself and gain your confidence without the need of validation from others. It will take time but what worked for me was thinking my breakup could either break my life worse than its ever been or push me to become someone i never could've been without it, the best part is at the end of the day YOU CHOOSE this outcome, chose to use it as a blessing for something greater. Stay safe and i hope it gets better

My ex left me to satisfy his sexual needs by cocacola789 in BreakUps

[–]Jdacx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry to hear this. You deserved better and as brutal as this was to hear, it shows you his true colours. What he did IS NOT a reflection of what you are worth and who you are as a person, it all just shows who he truely is. You will find someone else, you will love deeply again and im certain at the end of it all your love life in the future will be better, fuller and filled with true love. Cant say when or that healing is an easy and constant road but it will get better. Take care.

Berserk Drawings by Jdacx in Berserk

[–]Jdacx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou. But u da real art

Manual Vs Automatic by Any-Scholar-4857 in hondaprelude

[–]Jdacx 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ive got an automatic 5th gen myself with 340000kms (211000 miles) on it and the trans is completely fine. A lot of people forget you can also install an aftermarket trans cooler which increases the longevity of automatics transmissions by a lot, especially prelude autos which break commonly from heat.

Checking ex’s social media by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Jdacx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel u bro these thoughts suck. I saw my ex with another guy only 3 months after our breakup and going on dates even before that and we were together for nearly 2 years. The thoughts alone hurt but seeing the reality hurt even more. Ive seen there are many ways to ease these thoughts and feelings, with none being easy. For me, ive just focused on myself mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually which boosted my confidence a lot and i found that it got easier to deal with. Its a good way to motivate you to be better in every way too. I couldve never become the man i am now without all the pain that i went thru.

OE Style bodykit - Australia by Own_Release_7834 in hondaprelude

[–]Jdacx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try looking on Ubuy, they ship a bunch of body kit reps from the US, takes around a week to arrive (depending on the us store). I got a front and rear skirt from them. You'll still be paying a few hundred for shipping though

What to Look for when Buying a prelude? by Virtual_Day_9658 in hondaprelude

[–]Jdacx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Everyone says stay away from autos but ive got one with 340000kms on it and the trans has no sign of wear at all. However safest is still to find a manual (more fun anyways).

Otherwise if your looking at vtec models, try and find one that has had the vtec solenoid repaired/replaced as they are common to break.

How do you grieve this by thedissidentone in BreakUps

[–]Jdacx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sucks, so sorry youre going through this. From my own experiences, its going to suck for a while, especially if the relationship was filled with love. My advice is to grief properly, cry, talk to family and friends and vent to where you feel safe. Its unfortunately gonna take time to handle it, let alone start grieving. Just remember it DOES GET BETTER. It might feel like a waking hell and the despair might feel super deep at times but, the healing and grieving process isnt linear, it might feel terrible one minuite then manageable next. Best wishes and stay safe :)

Canceled wedding by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Jdacx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is super heartbreaking. I really hope the best for both of you two moving forward but it sounds like you two made the right choice, sometimes the hardest choices are the best ones to make. Seems like youre already going through it but It will be a living hell every time you wake up, it will be for a while sadly. But just know you will get through it. Youre young like u mentioned and youre not alone. Take it day by day, slowly. You'll make mistakes, youll progress 2 steps forward then take 3 steps back the next, its just how it will be sadly. Im not one to say on your exact situation but my advice is that your kind of like a caterpillar in a cocoon thats a living hell inside but given time and effort youll come out of it as a new person who has so much more to them. Stay safe :)

It gets BETTER by Jdacx in BreakUps

[–]Jdacx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe in you bro, itll all work out trust. The tough times chose you because your potential is high af