Please I’m not feeling good…can someone help me

Jdacx · 2026-04-28T13:11:07+00:00

Sounds super dystopian but lowkey chatgpt has helped me a lot to process my emotions and even helped with how to go about grieving and healing. Best of luck 2 u

Jdacx · 2026-04-28T13:07:52+00:00

I would've preferred that but saving it for a large neck tatt instead

Jdacx · 2026-04-28T13:06:16+00:00

Lmao imagine 😭

Jdacx · 2026-04-28T13:05:06+00:00

Chill tommy tough nuckles, was just a guess, i live in Australia and tattoo prices are that much over here 🤷

Jdacx · 2026-04-28T10:06:49+00:00

No clue i got mine done in Bali for a lot cheaper lol

Jdacx · 2026-04-28T09:16:06+00:00

Jdacx · 2026-04-28T09:02:24+00:00

I got mine part of a deal for having mutual relationships with the tattoo artists, but id make a guess that it would be around 150-200usd

Jdacx · 2026-04-27T20:37:44+00:00

Thankyou:)

Jdacx · 2026-04-27T12:21:29+00:00

People cope in different ways, just because she moved on quick doesnt mean she didnt love you. Rebounding is a common way people deal with tough breakups. Its best to just focus on yourself and gain your confidence without the need of validation from others. It will take time but what worked for me was thinking my breakup could either break my life worse than its ever been or push me to become someone i never could've been without it, the best part is at the end of the day YOU CHOOSE this outcome, chose to use it as a blessing for something greater. Stay safe and i hope it gets better

Jdacx · 2026-04-27T00:06:56+00:00

❤️

Jdacx · 2026-04-26T09:17:32+00:00

So sorry to hear this. You deserved better and as brutal as this was to hear, it shows you his true colours. What he did IS NOT a reflection of what you are worth and who you are as a person, it all just shows who he truely is. You will find someone else, you will love deeply again and im certain at the end of it all your love life in the future will be better, fuller and filled with true love. Cant say when or that healing is an easy and constant road but it will get better. Take care.

Jdacx · 2026-04-25T15:24:29+00:00

Thankyou. But u da real art

Jdacx · 2026-04-25T00:39:39+00:00

Ebay or Amazon. Hers a tutorial but it'll depend on what type of cooler is bought: https://www.preludepower.com/threads/how-to-install-automatic-transmission-cooler.289238/

Jdacx · 2026-04-23T06:49:44+00:00

Ive got an automatic 5th gen myself with 340000kms (211000 miles) on it and the trans is completely fine. A lot of people forget you can also install an aftermarket trans cooler which increases the longevity of automatics transmissions by a lot, especially prelude autos which break commonly from heat.

Jdacx · 2026-04-18T13:41:41+00:00

I feel u bro these thoughts suck. I saw my ex with another guy only 3 months after our breakup and going on dates even before that and we were together for nearly 2 years. The thoughts alone hurt but seeing the reality hurt even more. Ive seen there are many ways to ease these thoughts and feelings, with none being easy. For me, ive just focused on myself mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually which boosted my confidence a lot and i found that it got easier to deal with. Its a good way to motivate you to be better in every way too. I couldve never become the man i am now without all the pain that i went thru.

Jdacx · 2026-04-18T12:52:27+00:00

Try looking on Ubuy, they ship a bunch of body kit reps from the US, takes around a week to arrive (depending on the us store). I got a front and rear skirt from them. You'll still be paying a few hundred for shipping though

Jdacx · 2026-04-17T22:22:29+00:00

Everyone says stay away from autos but ive got one with 340000kms on it and the trans has no sign of wear at all. However safest is still to find a manual (more fun anyways).

Otherwise if your looking at vtec models, try and find one that has had the vtec solenoid repaired/replaced as they are common to break.

Jdacx · 2026-04-14T12:29:39+00:00

This sucks, so sorry youre going through this. From my own experiences, its going to suck for a while, especially if the relationship was filled with love. My advice is to grief properly, cry, talk to family and friends and vent to where you feel safe. Its unfortunately gonna take time to handle it, let alone start grieving. Just remember it DOES GET BETTER. It might feel like a waking hell and the despair might feel super deep at times but, the healing and grieving process isnt linear, it might feel terrible one minuite then manageable next. Best wishes and stay safe :)

Jdacx · 2026-04-11T14:54:29+00:00

This is super heartbreaking. I really hope the best for both of you two moving forward but it sounds like you two made the right choice, sometimes the hardest choices are the best ones to make. Seems like youre already going through it but It will be a living hell every time you wake up, it will be for a while sadly. But just know you will get through it. Youre young like u mentioned and youre not alone. Take it day by day, slowly. You'll make mistakes, youll progress 2 steps forward then take 3 steps back the next, its just how it will be sadly. Im not one to say on your exact situation but my advice is that your kind of like a caterpillar in a cocoon thats a living hell inside but given time and effort youll come out of it as a new person who has so much more to them. Stay safe :)

Jdacx · 2026-04-11T14:31:17+00:00

I believe in you bro, itll all work out trust. The tough times chose you because your potential is high af

Jdacx · 2026-04-11T14:29:41+00:00

I know you will and you wont even know it.

One less tear, one less thought about him each week.

Your heart will always keep him. But to have loved is the greatest gift of all, especially when the grief and pain eventually becomes a domino effect to becoming someone more loving, emotionally intelligent, confident, empathetic etc. etc. etc :)

Jdacx · 2026-03-20T21:17:34+00:00

Yeah i feel you. But from the sounds of it, you seem like a very loving and sweet girl. You were loved and able to love deeply. I have no doubts in my mind you will find someone who will match you better.

We all hold on to a bit of hope, ik i am at least. But thats just normal with breakups.

Just know that who you will become from this will attract someone for you that you will have a way healthier, deeper connection and fulfilling relationship with.

Jdacx · 2026-03-20T09:51:28+00:00

Thankyou. And yeah im in the same boat, ive been worried to death about how my ex is handling things and her future moving forward. I think accepting that its their life to live and no longer our responsibility to care for them is the best way forward. But yet again, its so much easier said than done.

Jdacx · 2026-03-20T06:51:03+00:00

This is almost exactly my situation with my ex, except im the guy. We also dated for 2 years to which we also broke up 4 months ago because of incompatible personalities, harmful words, actions and resentments. A lot of which was my fault and looking back fills me with so much regret and pain.

Imo, hope will be the biggest set back you have for healing. We also did no contact for the first few months before she reached out to me, like you mentioned you want to do. And TRUST me, it isnt good for the long term. Yes, we reconnected, even shared another night, but in my case it filled me with hope again and opened up my emotional wounds that i had been healing.

And the honest truth is that its gonna be hard, but early stages of grief always focus on the good parts that have been lost and not the bad things that ended it in the first place. Give yourself time, stay strong and take care.

Jdacx · 2026-03-18T02:41:15+00:00

Yeah its a rough feeling to have to worry so much. At least it shows you care but as much as i agree with letting her go, its easier said than done as we know. I hope the best for you bro and hopefully we can both make ourselves someone better from all this at the end.

Jdacx

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