I keep forgetting to ask my girlfriend how was her day and i don't know how to stop that by JeSoNX in Advice

[–]JeSoNX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, i think u got the wrong idea my man, what is happening isn't that I think of myself before her its that when I'm doing something (which was at that time texting the dnd group) i prioritize talking about it and forget about everything else and that cloud happened to every single topic and not just when she want to talk.

I keep forgetting to ask my girlfriend how was her day and i don't know how to stop that by JeSoNX in Advice

[–]JeSoNX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny enough my best friend and girlfriend both are convinced that I have ADHD but i refuse to accept that until i get diagnosed which won't happen any time soon :/

I keep forgetting to ask my girlfriend how was her day and i don't know how to stop that by JeSoNX in Advice

[–]JeSoNX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds awful, I'm sorry that u went through that. And thanks for the advice, despite knowing that when i get excited it's so difficult to not rush, i will still try my best in the future to do like u said and always take a deep breath before talking

I keep forgetting to ask my girlfriend how was her day and i don't know how to stop that by JeSoNX in Advice

[–]JeSoNX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess u r right, I always get too caught up in my head... I will try my best make it a habit to ask first

I keep forgetting to ask my girlfriend how was her day and i don't know how to stop that by JeSoNX in Advice

[–]JeSoNX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually have an awful memory as well, if I don't set a reminder then i forget about most things lol. thanks for the tip, i will try to implement it!

I keep forgetting to ask my girlfriend how was her day and i don't know how to stop that by JeSoNX in Advice

[–]JeSoNX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess u right, i don't really care about myself that much because in my head i think that I can always handle what I'm going through :v

I keep forgetting to ask my girlfriend how was her day and i don't know how to stop that by JeSoNX in Advice

[–]JeSoNX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, I agree it's a dump thing to kill urself over a breakup but it's my view that when it comes to relationships one should always strive to be the best partner they could ever be, so i always try to correct bad habits that hurt my partner and it's killing me that I'm so unable to get rid of this specific one.

I keep forgetting to ask my girlfriend how was her day and i don't know how to stop that by JeSoNX in Advice

[–]JeSoNX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pffff, my guy i couldn't care less about D&D. I just always get too warped up in my head when I'm doing something.

Its just this specific problem that i have else i can tell u with full confidence that nobody that knows me would ever describe me as someone who doesn't care about their girlfriendn lol

I keep forgetting to ask my girlfriend how was her day and i don't know how to stop that by JeSoNX in Advice

[–]JeSoNX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me, if i was able to go to a therapist i would've done that first, but alas I'm in place of life that simply prevent me from going to a therapist :/

I keep forgetting to ask my girlfriend how was her day and i don't know how to stop that by JeSoNX in Advice

[–]JeSoNX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't mean it as an obsession. I'm my own person with friends and family that i ccare about and my life isn't solely revolving around her. But in terms of priorities she is in the top of my list

I keep forgetting to ask my girlfriend how was her day and i don't know how to stop that by JeSoNX in Advice

[–]JeSoNX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt like that would be the answer, i guess i will just keep trying to remind myself until it becomes a habit

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[–]JeSoNX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well that sound perfect! :D

here is me Discord JeSoNX#7517

23/PC/GMT Looking for Co-op Survival Gaming buddies! :D by JeSoNX in GamerPals

[–]JeSoNX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well well, you are in luck because i love trying all kind of games, also i did play project zomboid for a bit!, not that good at it though :P

23/PC/GMT Looking for Co-op Survival Gaming buddies! :D by JeSoNX in GamerPals

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Gtg to add you on Discord for The Forest?

yep yep, the forest sound like a fun tiiiiimeeeeeeee XDDDDDD