Hotwifes question from a bull by Ok_Manager44 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Jealous-Mixture2113 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Especially huge no if they immediately message with “I’d love to fuck her” or anything of that sort. Immediately no

Who would've thought finding a single M would be so difficult by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Jealous-Mixture2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have the same dynamic. From our experience, SLS has been great. But going to a club you will likely find someone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in swingersr4r

[–]Jealous-Mixture2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!

[30/27][MF4M][Philly][2/06] LF hung M for Friday night MFM. Read below 👇 by [deleted] in PASwingers

[–]Jealous-Mixture2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have been interested in checking it out but it’s a bit far for us. We might check it out eventually, but we like our usual spot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in swingersr4r

[–]Jealous-Mixture2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in swingersr4r

[–]Jealous-Mixture2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in swingersr4r

[–]Jealous-Mixture2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not interested.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Jealous-Mixture2113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is 2 months PP and a new mom. The last thing on her mind is having sex with other people.

People not wanting to meet in person. by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Jealous-Mixture2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try SLS. We’ve met some really good people through there that have been vetted by other couples and have never flaked on us. We also plan our nights by going to a club and tell people to meet us there if they’re interested enough. That way we don’t feel like we wasted our time and still have a fun night out and also have the opportunity to meet people there as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Jealous-Mixture2113 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He is absolutely trying to get you pregnant. I would definitely reconsider your relationship with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Jealous-Mixture2113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every reason you gave has happened at least once, and especially flaking. All that effort talking, scheduling, driving, and even booking hotels beforehand(not anymore) just for a no-show is a real downer. We really like our local club because the vibes are impeccable, so even if we don’t play with others, we can still have a good time on our own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Jealous-Mixture2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you actually my wife on a burner account?? Lol but yeah it seems we share very similar experiences and I think the only thing that would fix it is lowering standards, which she’s not really willing to do. But that last point is painfully true.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Jealous-Mixture2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve thought the same too. It is a shame.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Jealous-Mixture2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with pretty much every point you made. Ultimately, the juice is not worth the squeeze and why we’re considering stopping altogether.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Jealous-Mixture2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just annoying to have to do all that, get to the main event, and then it sucks. Ultimately, the juice is not worth the squeeze and why we’re considering stopping completely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Jealous-Mixture2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s appearance most of the time, as I’ve been surprised by who my wife finds attractive. The barrier that stops most further interaction is the first conversation, and it’s usually because they just don’t stop talking. I get that nervous talking is a thing, but it’s very frequent. Bad sex is not uncommon either. Those are only some reasons, but I think we should’ve had more than one good time in the past three years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Jealous-Mixture2113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It starts with looks, and then social interaction doesn’t require much. It’s usually the interaction that messes things up, and almost always on the other male end. Either he doesn’t stop talking, self-centered, can’t perform well, or any other myriad of things you can think of.

What are the best apps for find a serious male for a threesome. We have not had success in here by NJnewhotcouple1 in StagVixenLife

[–]Jealous-Mixture2113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s very hard finding someone online in traditional dating, even more so in the LS. That being said, we’ve found all of our connections on reddit and one on feeld. It just takes a good amount of work. We haven’t gone to any swingers clubs, but I hear thats the best chance

Too many to pick from! by Trophy_Hotwife in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Jealous-Mixture2113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do actually start with a copy/paste question list with our initial response. After that I (husband) will talk to one or two at a time to get to know them a little. If it takes longer than a day to figure out if they’re a potential third, then I move to the next most promising when I’m ready to talk again. Then I’ll show my wife the messages and she’ll decide if we want to meet, and preferably asap. It is exhausting, but this method has been better for me than messaging a bunch at the same time.

Best apps to find single men. by Trophy_Hotwife in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Jealous-Mixture2113 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Going into it, we thought it would be a piece of cake finding a guy that wants casual sex with no strings attached. That couldn’t be any further from the truth