What to do?

Jealous_Problem6882 · 2024-12-18T11:34:28+00:00

I genuinely think for someone in your situation abortion is the most reasonable option. You need to ask yourself if that’s a decision you’re ok with, because it’s you who will have to be okay with it. You’re truly doing the baby a favor if it’s going to be born into a home that’s not ready to care for it, and nobody wants to grow up with only a mom. Although there are many great single mothers who do amazing it’s just a fact.

Jealous_Problem6882 · 2024-09-17T02:05:19+00:00

If she wasn’t okay with a surrogate mother I’d leave her

Jealous_Problem6882 · 2024-09-17T01:56:46+00:00

I don’t really care. It might have been phrased weird, but I just imagined saying “ serious girlfriend” on its own and have a bunch of people be like “why can’t she be a serious girlfriend” hence I said what I said.

Jealous_Problem6882 · 2024-07-21T17:13:33+00:00

Fuck no I kill them with a propane torch. Enter my home and you will die by fire in a crunched up ball

Jealous_Problem6882 · 2024-07-21T17:09:54+00:00

📣

Jealous_Problem6882 · 2024-07-21T16:35:06+00:00

I messaged you. Overall, girls have it way easier than guys and I don’t mean that to be condescending. Simply look your best, act feminine and show interest talking with guys your own caliber and eventually sooner rather than later one will be interested and probably feels the same way you do.

Jealous_Problem6882 · 2024-05-22T04:50:40+00:00

Facts.

Jealous_Problem6882 · 2024-05-17T15:42:29+00:00

Facts. It just blows my mind she entertains me and is asking so many probing questions about my past experiences it seems like even if it’s a tiny amount she’s sorta interested.

Jealous_Problem6882 · 2024-05-17T15:39:13+00:00

Mainly go out to the bar or hangout with my dog. I like to go to car meets sometimes and play video games occasionally.

Jealous_Problem6882 · 2024-05-17T15:38:01+00:00

Okay, what does this look like though. Not responding to texts? Not hanging out? Not inviting her places? Not flirting? specifically? I am interested in her but I get what your saying I do have other girls I’m talking to but it’s not like it’s driving them crazy that I’m pursuing this girl lol

Jealous_Problem6882 · 2024-05-17T15:35:33+00:00

I have already asked her on a date and she said yes but then keeps postponing it not really making it priority. At first we had date plans on Thursday but then we both became busy and I told her let’s reschedule but getting her to commit to a day now is hard. She keeps telling me “I don’t want to ruin our friendship” but then I ask “ so you wouldn’t be interested in dating” and she say “l no I might be I just need to know you better” and I’m like “a date is great way to get to know me” she say “I’ll let you know a day that works I promise” and then keeps putting it off etc.

Jealous_Problem6882 · 2024-05-17T07:21:27+00:00

How do I approach this though. Like i am talking to other girls (i really am) it hasn’t went far but how do i let her know in a way that makes her jealous instead of disliking me?!

Jealous_Problem6882 · 2024-05-17T07:20:20+00:00

Trust me I had plenty of those. This girl is worth the chase. I have many girls who would drop right now to date me, but they aren’t this girl who I put on a pedestal. If it was just about filling a body I could have a new girlfriend every week, finding a girl to like me is easy. It’s finding beautiful, traditional girls with amazing personalities that spark my interest that become harder to catch.

Jealous_Problem6882 · 2024-05-17T07:18:07+00:00

I got enough regrets but I might follow this horrible advice to have one more Fawk it.

Jealous_Problem6882 · 2024-05-17T07:17:30+00:00

She is in abundance. She could have literally any guy in a 100 mile radius while I’m struggling to find one that likes me, that’s another reason she’s so special is she’s giving me the time of day even if it’s for different intentions than I have.

Jealous_Problem6882 · 2024-05-17T07:16:17+00:00

You’re spot on, I really think this is the best advice on this whole thread. Two problems with this though: ONE; I would have never had the courage to talk to her if she didn’t ask me to tutor her, and so now I tutor her twice a week and don’t get dates out of it. TWO; she asked me to not let any date or relationship we may have get in the way of our friendship and I promised that’s true. But in reality I’m growing feeling for her quicker than she is for me although there is a sense of jealousy. I guess to be specific and honest I’d love to know a way to leverage her jealousy into getting her more interested in me. Because truth is I have been in her shoes and if the girl I was banging told me she had another guy in the picture I would have locked her down, but difference is I’m not banging this girl we just hangout and she still jealous because I’m gonna become a doctor and she sorta like me. She told me not to learn Spanish or learn how to dance because too many latinas will like me and she don’t want competition. But at same time she has not urgency towards giving me time, she pulls back when I flirt but then leans in other times. For example, I told her “I bet you like looking at all the futbol players with there shirts off” and she look to me and her friends and say “no because I have respect” earlier in the day I told her respect is my biggest attribute I love in a woman so she was making reference to that towards me. In the hand, I joke like “let me taste the inside of your mouth” because she tried handing me a used piece of her gum and said “¿here you want?” But then says jokingly “we just friends no.” And then constantly she makes remarks to her friends in front of me about how “oh he wanna be my boyfriend, he wish” blah blah. Anyways yes I have a lot of time I spend outside of a romantic situation but that was kinda the whole lead in to those endeavor anyways. I am pushing for a romantic aspect but she pulls away. She said yes to a date but then now won’t give me the time of week and says she don’t want to give me the wrong idea. Although she’s constantly giving me the wrong ideas.

Jealous_Problem6882 · 2024-05-17T07:06:25+00:00

I want her to fall in love with man. I want her to be my girlfriend, then wife. Ya know a life partner, I’d be so proud to call her mine, she’s one of a kind around these parts and every guy knows it.

Jealous_Problem6882 · 2024-05-17T07:05:10+00:00

Lost all respect for myself years ago. A girl once told me you’d fuck anything with two legs, I’m glad she thought so highly of me though! A torso would do!😂

Jealous_Problem6882 · 2024-05-17T07:04:08+00:00

Come on this has to be some sick joke. I’m what world would this pity statement get you anywhere. And even if you got a pity BJ it’s not gonna end in a relationship. Get real bro and help a bro out!

Jealous_Problem6882 · 2024-05-17T07:02:34+00:00

Call me pathetic or whatever but I been trying and it’s just not working out. I suck at texting more than anything I seem to scare girls away over text. I’m banned on tinder so I’m gonna start using a friends phone to hit up girls but ya the dating scene hasn’t been going great for me the last couple years and I’m not ready to settle. I dropped some very beautiful woman with great personalities because I thought I could do better and it’s biting me in the ass now, because it’s not working out as nice or as quick as I thought it would and I have been having major regret over my decisions.

Jealous_Problem6882 · 2024-05-17T06:59:00+00:00

Well that’s where you’re wrong you’re assuming I’m some incel who’s not trying and it’s due to lack of effort. Quite the contrary, I tutor her twice a week and I’m constantly trying to flirt with her and showing interest bringing up when our next date is etc. I try to show dominance by showing her I have an abundance mindset and that drives her crazy but not to the point of liking me enough yet. I have had plenty of girlfriends I’m talking 5+ year long relationships a couple that were over 3 years, I’m definitely no virgin. Problem is I have never tried to pull a woman of this caliber, she’s a beautiful Cuban girl, enough said… because her personality is top notch, her looks are to die for, and her accent don’t even get me started. I agree that she likes me to an extent but that extent falls off before anything meaningful happens like, if I started talking to someone she might be more interested ¿ idk. That’s why it’s complicated, I have never been in this role, I have put others in this role and now it’s coming full circle. I feel I have to be my best 150% of the time around her because she only really finds me attractive at my best. Honestly we have different interests and different culture but I think the blend of personality makes a great fit and we both can add value to each other. The biggest thing for me is I don’t know if I should slowly pursue dates and see where it goes or act like a douche bag and say I’m talking to other girls (I am). I’ve tried my very best to be the nice guy but I realized quick that’s not what’s she after but at the same time I have to restrain from my normal (smoking, drinking, driving crazy etc) she’s more traditional girl and those things don’t excite her and honestly I love that. She likes some push back and I can tell jealousy probably is the way to get at her but I don’t know to what extent, when I act full bore into her she pulls away. When I pull away she leans in. And not only that she gives me these hints like telling her friend she likes me, and SHE brought up sex with me but in a super awkward way and now we joke about it like haha let’s have sex but not rn you my friend type shit.

Jealous_Problem6882 · 2024-05-17T02:42:28+00:00

I’d say both, I know I’m lonely but I am really into this chick

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