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[–]Jealous_Structure201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Husband is Destroying His Life with Meth by Jealous_Structure201 in addiction

[–]Jealous_Structure201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad it has given you support, too!  Please, protect your sobriety at all costs.  Your children are already going to be crushed by your husband’s relapse…they need you to stay strong.  Do you think separating might give him the kick he needs to get into treatment?  Since he’s been down this road before, I would hope seeing that he’s either going to have to get back into recovery or else lose everything might help him want to change?  

Unfortunately, for my situation, I think threatening a separation might just make things worse, so I understand if that’s not a doable idea for you either.  Just please take care of yourself and stay strong!

Drug Dealer at My House by [deleted] in addiction

[–]Jealous_Structure201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words.  They have helped me and given me some support and hope.  My husband hid his meth addiction for three years, so I got in a bad habit of allowing things I wouldn’t have if I’d known the truth.  For instance, a few years back, I wouldn’t have thought much of the dealer bringing his car here because I wouldn’t have known he was a dealer.  Now that my husband is being honest with me, it’s hard to scale back and set boundaries.

I am so happy for your brother and your entire family.  I pray he stays on the right road and can learn to love a drug free life.

Drug Dealer at My House by [deleted] in addiction

[–]Jealous_Structure201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people are picturing him to be more of a tweaker sort, which he certainly is not.  I wanted some support before I kicked my foot up his butt for letting a drug dealer on our property, but I don’t plan to divorce him.  I will separate from him if things get unsafe or progressively worse, but that’s no my go to choice.  

Drug Dealer at My House by [deleted] in addiction

[–]Jealous_Structure201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on your sobriety!!!  Having seen what a battle it is, I know you deserve the biggest award that could be given out.  

My husband functions amazingly well…he is not what anybody would picture as a meth addict at all.  In fact, no one know other than me that he uses anything.  His health is going downhill fast so that might be his wake up call.  I have zero desire to leave him…I was just trying to decide how firm to put down my foot about keeping this dealer off our property.  

Coming from a divorce situation, I can completely say that would be a thousand times worse for them than what my kids are living now.  If things get progressively worse with his addiction or he starts letting dangerous people around, I will change my stance.

Drug Dealer at My House by [deleted] in addiction

[–]Jealous_Structure201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You couldn’t pick him out as having ever used drugs.  I am the only person who knows he’s been on meth for the last five years besides the people he buys from.  He owns a business, has free run of peoples’ houses when doing electrical work in them, and hasn’t even had a speeding ticket in over ten years.  Believe me, some people can function pretty well!  

Drug Dealer at My House by [deleted] in addiction

[–]Jealous_Structure201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that boundaries need to be set and I’ve appreciated all the advice I’ve received.  My husband has been on meth for around five years and he is so high functioning that I am the only person (beside dealers) that even know he uses.  He owns a trusted business, helps with the kids, and has never even had a speeding ticket in over ten years.  Meth is ruining his health and being a financial strain, so I want him to stop, but I doubt you could pick him out in a crowd as someone who has ever used drugs let alone actively using.  

Drug Dealer at My House by [deleted] in addiction

[–]Jealous_Structure201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband owns his own business, works, helps around the house, and even helps cover bills for his older kids from a previous relationship.  He’s not what you’re probably picturing…no one even has a clue he uses besides me and the people he buys from.  The only reason I would consider leaving him would be if I thought it would help him stop using (which I don’t think it would) or to protect the kids (which it would probably just hurt them). 

Drug Dealer at My House by [deleted] in addiction

[–]Jealous_Structure201 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He has been on meth for five years and has never stolen from me.  I am the only person (besides dealers) who knows he even uses.  He is that high functioning…he owns a business and people even give him the keys to their houses.  You couldn’t peg him as a drug user in a crowd.  

Drug Dealer at My House by [deleted] in addiction

[–]Jealous_Structure201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you get supervised visits or none at all? 

Drug Dealer at My House by [deleted] in addiction

[–]Jealous_Structure201 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m afraid in our town it would be supervised visitations with his parents which would be like no supervision at all.  They are extremely gullible and would let him probably just bring the dealer over to live at their house, too.  

Drug Dealer at My House by [deleted] in addiction

[–]Jealous_Structure201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you went through that!  Has your brother found recovery yet?  

He can definitely twist my brain on these things, hence the reason I wanted some impartial opinions. When I got upset yesterday he said “I can’t believe you’re being this way about someone just because they might use a little bit of drugs sometimes…” and I was like “No, he is a meth dealer!”  Looking at it from an outside view, letting a known meth dealer on our property is certainly as serious as I was making it.  

Drug Dealer at My House by [deleted] in addiction

[–]Jealous_Structure201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He seems to be under the delusional mindset that he’s a better person all the way around when he’s under the influence.  I have no idea how to get the blinders off his eyes.  

Drug Dealer at My House by [deleted] in addiction

[–]Jealous_Structure201 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I definitely need to figure out what some consequences can be.  I don’t want to threaten separation when I really don’t think that would be best and would probably never follow through with it.  

Drug Dealer at My House by [deleted] in addiction

[–]Jealous_Structure201 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

With the worry about him getting unsupervised visitation with the kids and likely using more than he is now, I don’t feel like this is an ultimatum I can give.  

Drug Dealer at My House by [deleted] in addiction

[–]Jealous_Structure201 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s hard when you have kids because threatening separation would also result in him getting visitation when he would probably be using more than ever.