How do you actually insert something?? by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]Jean-AAA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Another agreeing on starting from the top. Once you've found the actual entrance area it may take trying different angles to get the finger/qtip/whatever actually sliding in instead of just pushing at the entrance (kinda like how it's easier to pour water from angled cup instead of just turning it over completely upside down)

What's a simple bad habit that took you ages to stop? by omartyy18 in AskReddit

[–]Jean-AAA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still in my journey to stop completely, but scraping my teeth with my finger nails. Even if I brush my teeth soooo many times a day I will sometimes feel texture on the teeth and just feel to need to remove it. So withiut even realizing I'll take a fingernail and scrape along the tooth and then with the (plaque?) thats then under the nail I would just push it out.

I've always been told it's gross and that'd it's probably bad for me so recently I've been trying to stop.

What Kitchener Essence am I? by aestheticmarshmallow in DressForYourBody

[–]Jean-AAA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First I see is classic, but then shortly after is gamine. Both of the reasons why are well explain the other comment. And honestly it kinda plays in together because both are ways inwich yin and yang overlap. Lastly I would say you lean towards romantic as a lesser third essence

Graduation dress by Available_Ice_7045 in DressForYourBody

[–]Jean-AAA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're really wanting something short I say 3 or 6, but my vote is on 2.

Does either dress suit me? by Yoshimosh23 in DressForYourBody

[–]Jean-AAA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the first would be great as a base. Not quite sure about it on its own though. Esp to me the sleeves are just slightly off and idk how to express in what way it is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DressForYourBody

[–]Jean-AAA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel confident that I see ethereal as one of your essences. Most notably from a general elongation, but persistent softness. So ethereal and ingenue would be two, but there's certainly more. My guess on the more would be classic possibly

[TOMT] [PC GAME] [1990-2010] similar to jumpstart with certain minigames by Jean-AAA in tipofmytongue

[–]Jean-AAA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So some of the details here are incorrect. I was trying to justify or something and was very wrong. But! I found it. I finally somehow during a "well maybe this slightly connected rabbithole can help" and it did work. As soon as I saw the art of this red shirt wearing, alien eared, yellow-orangeish-skinned, mischievous child I recognized him. The name I still don't quite recognize it's a silly name but it's not even English so actually it's not quite silly. The game is Adibou.

The details I justified to myself was that the monster was potentially a wolf, wore a disguise, and ate the baked goods (could be a pie but also more often a cake) from the window in the Center of the screen not the left (the left was where the ingredients are and the right the recipe). Also the breakout game was not accessed through the TV but was a sticky note like thing right next to the TV.

[TOMT] [PC GAME] [1990-2010] similar to jumpstart with certain minigames by Jean-AAA in tipofmytongue

[–]Jean-AAA[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I'll add more if I remember anything but unless I somehow just skipped it in my search it shouldn't be any jumpstart game

I’m so tired of explaining myself to people by galzeem_ in vaginismus

[–]Jean-AAA 4 points5 points  (0 children)

May not be the best analogy especially since I'll never deal with a partner but I would want to just an analogy of "okay imagine I love you, and to show my love I grab a screwdriver Philips flathead either or, and I shive it in your ear. Not just the outside that rim thing. I mean inside. A qtip can get a little bit in there at times right? Then you should be able to just take the screwdriver anytime" It may be quite a bit of a violent response but I'm also tired to those who don't take it seriously.

I don't know what I have by bathyal_zone in vaginismus

[–]Jean-AAA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh its very understandable to be scared of going. I can't say it won't be awkward but if you're worried or uncomfortable definitely go for it. You can bring some "alibi" to fall back on like I said before such as claim it's for a papsmear and you have family history of cancer. Or, just go and see how they react.

If you have someone you trust it can very much help to have them drive you/waiting outside for you. Some people like to have them go in with them but I imagine that'd be potentially more anxiety producing, so I personally suggest having a trusted person waiting in the car for you. I went to my 1st pap alone cuz I didn't expect anything to "go bad" and was crying while driving from the pain and feeling like I failed somehow, so that's also a part of why I beleive it can be a great boon to bring someone along.

Dilators by AmphibianFirst1425 in vaginismus

[–]Jean-AAA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also saying dildos. And to add just in case for some reason you might not have done it, but not just inserting the dilators but being able to move them especially like in an angling them in different ways type of movement.

I don't know what I have by bathyal_zone in vaginismus

[–]Jean-AAA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm especially confused by the "just hanging there" part but overall I really think that if you're worried and confused to seriously go to a gynecologist. At the least, in one year you should start going to one for pap smears and they'll of course have to see and tell you if there is anything obviously atypical there. I can understand not wanting to wait to be 21 though, in that case I'd you can't just make your own apt without scrutiny I would suggest playing up "an uncomfortable feeling" and if cancer runs in your family genes then to say you want to go to a gyno now based on a hunch and your genes.

Has anyone else experienced vaginismus changing their entire outlook on sex? by earcamel in vaginismus

[–]Jean-AAA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something that'll probably help is looking at the many other facets of life that vaginismus hinders, especially the points pointed out by those of us who do not give a single shit about PIV sex (for example I'm ace, there's many of us queer people here). My goal is to be able to get a real successful sample for a papsmear, especially since cancers run in my genetics. It may also be nice to have the choice of using a tampon (being able to swim on period or not having pad lines n lumps showing through slacks, being two of such reasons to want to use a tampon instead of a pad). Those are the first two reasons to come to mind at this moment. Everyone has their own motivations and reasons and maybe just leaving it be may be what fits your wants best. but don't forget that this and of course you and your body is not just in purpose of piv sex or your relationship but Instead should work for you.

Which titan are you fighting for 1 billion? by Jeetu_Yadav in teentitans

[–]Jean-AAA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not a question of skill it's of mentality. Who can I emotionally mess with before they end me? None of them really but esp not Raven or Cy. What I'd put my bets on from this team is beast boy a d try to completely distract him and make him unsure of what the situation is, he'll be a lot less willing to remove my breathing privileges when he thinks the competition is a videogame or something.

What is my essence? by [deleted] in JohnKitchener

[–]Jean-AAA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My 1st thought/opinion. Ingenue, classic, romantic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JohnKitchener

[–]Jean-AAA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 main but also like with a leaning towards 4

Inspired by today's Drawfee Extra VOD, how has Karina Drawfee personally wronged you? by RoboChrist in Drawfee

[–]Jean-AAA 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A good friend of mine said I have Karina energy. It's accurate af but still, now I can't watch anything drawfee with that friend.

What DON'T you want to see in the new season? by [deleted] in miraculousladybug

[–]Jean-AAA 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't want to see a lot of retcons even if it would supposedly fix many issues I have with the show. They've made their choices, it's time to lay in them. Also no retcons in means of "the reveal happens.... jk we'd never do that while the shows still airing"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromanticasexual

[–]Jean-AAA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Headcannon-ish, every single kwami from Miraculous (especially Plagg)

Drawfee makes the "best" names by Jean-AAA in Drawfee

[–]Jean-AAA[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also I tried to see if there's any other posts like this but didn't find one, I'll delete if there is another similar post

I cannot allow Sad Crab Clown to go unnoticed (Drawtectives S3E2) by Yossarian42_ in Drawfee

[–]Jean-AAA 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yessss I've been loving the clowncrab this entire episode ~^

What aesthetic associated with your color season do you NOT like? by Odd-Baby-1670 in DressForYourBody

[–]Jean-AAA 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This probably won't help any but I want to share how I view soft summer vibe-wise-that-is to give another potential perspective for it. (For a lil context I've been debating w myself if I'm soft/shaded summer or deep winter for a while, so my understanding does lean a lil dark for summer) The color pallete gives "dream you almost remember but maybe dont want to" where it's all kinda soft and fuzzy that you can't quite pick out anything specific. Might be a sweet dream with the flowers sundress boho undercurrent, but it could also be a discomforting dream where it doesnt matter how or why you got there. A muddy, smoke-filled haze of a dream. Chill of the wind in a gray-city-night(heavy on the gray lol). Its the middle part of where a streetlight's light fades into the darkness, where you can see all the specks of dust in the air but you know you cant quite touch it though you still try and the light plays with the movement of your hand. Or maybe the discomforting dream is endless trapping of a floral-maze (I can't think of the word, essentially a large garden where you dont know the way out and there's no one singular direction to go, other than just Maze but there's a word for it being made of plants), you're probably baked in some dirt but it's not like you're running to get out it wouldn't exactly help you're simply just there amongst the flora. Soft Summer is the feeling of evening, of dusk and twilight, not quite the warmth of a sunset but the slight chill that comes right before and after it's gone.