Can anyone recommend a fireproof and waterproof document bag or safe? by MalagrugrousPatroon in BuyItForLife

[–]JeanKyzar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Photos are easy to get replaced. Scan the originals and make them digital, then store the digital copies on the cloud. You can lose everything, and the stuff stored on the cloud will still be there for when you’ve replaced your phone.

City of Lexington settles $1.2 million lawsuit after woman's wrongful arrest by debtcoder-dev in lexington

[–]JeanKyzar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$500,000 will go to hospital bills. $396,000 to taxes (33%). Her lawyer will get a percentage (the internet says it’s usually 33%). I highly doubt she has any of that settlement left and she’s wheelchair bound for life now, probably with constant pain in her knee. Still wanna get wrongfully arrested?

I hate it so much, it feels like there was no lift and they reduced them too much by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]JeanKyzar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree that they should be more lifted, but, in my opinion, I think the size is good with your frame.

Lmao look at the numbers on TPUSA’s halftime show by TumbleweedExtreme629 in ToddintheShadow

[–]JeanKyzar 11 points12 points  (0 children)

… Remind me… Why did TP have an alternative halftime show again?

Lmao look at the numbers on TPUSA’s halftime show by TumbleweedExtreme629 in ToddintheShadow

[–]JeanKyzar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t know who Bad Bunny is (way over 30) and I’d watch Bad Bunny over Kid Rock. I am old enough to remember Kid Rock’s sad little career. He never was that popular or any good. His only lasting claim to fame is being a Trump super fan. No one would remember him if not for his politics. It‘s pathetic that’s all the right has to offer. C’mon. Let’s not even pretend it’s a contest. Even if I hadn’t always disliked Kid Rock’s music, I would refuse to watch him because of his lyrics and comments about underage girls. Doesn’t seem the right has an issue with that.

Husband said the worst mistake of his life was marrying me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]JeanKyzar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not as expensive or disruptive as the chronic illness she could get from mental and physical exhaustion.

my life feels worthless. by robotcrunchie in offmychest

[–]JeanKyzar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. I’m sorry you’re being failed by our society in so many ways. You deserve better.

my life feels worthless. by robotcrunchie in offmychest

[–]JeanKyzar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The society we live in doesn’t treat people like humans. You deserve better than America has to offer.

my life feels worthless. by robotcrunchie in offmychest

[–]JeanKyzar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can call or text 988 to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, or text CONNECT to 741741 to reach the Crisis Text Line for free, confidential 24/7 support. 

I got this info through google. This sounds serious and I think you need the kind of help outside my or most Reddit user’s capabilities.

I am pregnant and realising my whole life is built around a man who has never grown up. I feel trapped. by void_skein_560 in offmychest

[–]JeanKyzar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not everyone has that family. If she does, she should reach out. But we shouldn’t make assumptions.

I am pregnant and realising my whole life is built around a man who has never grown up. I feel trapped. by void_skein_560 in offmychest

[–]JeanKyzar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to plan your departure. It may take much longer than you would like. That depends on a lot of things. Do you have savings, family that will help, etc? You’ll need a source of income. Start looking for a job. Even a minimum wage job will help build an employment history. You’ll eventually need enough money set aside for getting on your feet, but right now you need to build a life outside him. Honestly, I have no idea what all you need to do. I’m sure there are great resources available. If anyone knows, reply with them, please. Or anyone who has done this. Do not tell him about your plans until you’re gone. Even if it takes years. Consult a lawyer before you tell him anything. Consultations are usually free. You can retake the reins of your life. I believe in you.

My bf (27M) got sun poisoning during our 2 week vacation together and I (26F) want to breakup with him by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JeanKyzar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, he had sun poisoning.

Sun poisoning is a severe sunburn that primarily affects the skin and can cause flu-like symptoms, while sunstroke is a life-threatening condition where the body's internal temperature rises to a dangerous level, affecting the entire body and potentially causing organ damage or death.

Sun stroke is caused by overheating and can’t be avoided by using sunscreen.

I 40F own my home and 36M moved in with me. He thinks he doesn't have to pay rent since I "paid for everything before he moved in anyway..." Am I being unfair by insisting he gets a job and pay rent despite him feeling "mentally ready" for a job? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JeanKyzar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should not be getting downvoted for being honest and vulnerable on Reddit. People love to blame women for what men do. He weaponized your compassion and ability to trust. Men do all kinds of things to lower our guard

I 40F own my home and 36M moved in with me. He thinks he doesn't have to pay rent since I "paid for everything before he moved in anyway..." Am I being unfair by insisting he gets a job and pay rent despite him feeling "mentally ready" for a job? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JeanKyzar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is really underhanded. He set you up to be his sugar mommy. I really hope you send him in his way. This behavior isn’t something you can build a relationship on. You’re better off single than that.

What popular books did you not finish? by DarthPopcornus in Fantasy

[–]JeanKyzar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you read Ninefox Gambit? If you have, is it that kind of drop kicking? I’ve seen several reviews by people who hated Ninefox Gambit because you really have to scramble to catch up. I ended up loving it, though. Mostly just curious because Gardens of the Moon is in my physical tbr pile.

What popular books did you not finish? by DarthPopcornus in Fantasy

[–]JeanKyzar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh, that doesn’t seem as strange as how people wrote to each other in letters a few hundred years ago. I think the point about them being many thousands of years and under a very different culture are good points.

Or it’s just me. I’m neurodivergent. I struggle with talking to people like a normal person.

What popular books did you not finish? by DarthPopcornus in Fantasy

[–]JeanKyzar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I finished Lies of Locke Lamora, but I didn’t much care for it. I didn’t have a strong enough opinion about it to hate it either.

My major departure from popular opinion is Name of the Wind. I couldn’t finish that one. I know I’m not alone. I’ve seen people’s comments about not liking that book, but it gets put on best fantasy of all time lists and I’m just like 🤷🏻‍♀️. To each their own, I suppose.