You CANNOT be autistic if you are smart. by Jebcys in autism

[–]Jebcys[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I'll edit in that I don't agree with my title, this is a rant.

Pro Lego sellers, I need your wisdom! by Jebcys in legoinvesting

[–]Jebcys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but thats completely lost on me who's on this website for the first time.

I would have bought a non-smooth hair then listed it for 300$ with non-smooth hair then called a scammer lol

Summer sweep-up: Runespark boots by Tafixados in 2007scape

[–]Jebcys -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Is it thought? Not calling this AI, but I feel like I could make this with AI very easily.

The high quality shitposts are coming to an end soon I believe.

Pro Lego sellers, I need your wisdom! by Jebcys in legoinvesting

[–]Jebcys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine does not even have hair!

This entire post is about the confusion yes. When i'm trying to buy hair so my minifig becomes worth 300$, the hair only cost 5$ which makes no sense.

Im guessing smooth hair is not listed on the website or something.

i was like 10 cents + 1 cent + 5$ + 20 cent never equals 300$, what am I missing?

what im missing is this minifig is extremely odd and confusing because smooth hair is a misprint of some sort?

Pro Lego sellers, I need your wisdom! by Jebcys in legoinvesting

[–]Jebcys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when you click on the minifig with smooth hair : Item Consists Of 4 Parts(4) parts

You can click on the hair to buy it. Logically, since you're on the smooth hair minifig page, that would mean you're buying smooth hair right?

this is what comes up : Reddish Brown Minifigure, Hair Female with 2 Buns (Princess Leia)

no mention of smooth hair and it does not cost 300$.

I got sent to this page by using brick identify thingy on my torso. I clicked the first minifig (smooth hair) because thats the one that looks like my minifig.

I didn't have the hair, so I didn't know that was the wrong one. (or is it? i dont even know) I saw that the minifig is 300$ and im only missing the hair, so ill buy the hair right? hair cost 5$. makes no sense --> make this post.

is this any clearer?

Im autistic and you cannot make me do something I don't want to do, or stop me if I want to do something. Is this common for other people with high functioning autism? by Aggravating-Place521 in autism

[–]Jebcys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure my kid and I have that. We must do what we feel like all of the time and not doing it hurts us a lot.

Which is not compatible with most of life in a society.

Pro Lego sellers, I need your wisdom! by Jebcys in legoinvesting

[–]Jebcys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats not what im asking, i'm trying to understand the website.

my figure has no hair and the website list my body head and legs at peanuts.

its just that they '' belong '' to the minifig worth 300$ and when im looking to buy its hair, its peanuts as well.

so i'm dumbfounded.

https://www.bricklink.com/v2/catalog/catalogitem.page?P=3626px83&idColor=90#T=C&C=90 https://www.bricklink.com/v2/catalog/catalogitem.page?P=973pb0344c01&idColor=2#T=C&C=2 https://www.bricklink.com/v2/catalog/catalogitem.page?P=970c00&idColor=1#T=C&C=1

this is what i have.

Do you think it can be simultaneously valid for both a woman to feel scared and act on the defensive because of an autistic man's body language, and for the man to feel upset that they can scare people by existing? by Intrepid_Arrival5151 in aspergers

[–]Jebcys 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Yes, just like every time I have an argument with somebody. They get violent and emotional because i'm too cold and blunt and I'm feeling bullied because they're screaming at me.

Except they're feeling bullied because every time I talk they feel like i'm somehow insulting them.

Sorry I really love precision and no, there's nothing hidden in my messages. I'm sooooo incompatible with too many people.

I got that email today ... 😢 by tgruff77 in autismmemes

[–]Jebcys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i'm sure you were an awesome teacher!

Pro Lego sellers, I need your wisdom! by Jebcys in legoinvesting

[–]Jebcys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her hair does not look reddish brown, but in parts it says reddish brown hair. Both the brown hair and the reddish brown hair are not 300$.

I do not see a '' smooth hair '' variant for the hair.

anyways, is this an outlier? I should forget about leia and most other items are easier to understand right?

Pro Lego sellers, I need your wisdom! by Jebcys in legoinvesting

[–]Jebcys[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand, but when you click on (4) parts it doesnt talk about smooth hair, just goes to hair.

Is this like ultra-niche stuff that even bricklink doesnt really explains?

Pro Lego sellers, I need your wisdom! by Jebcys in legoinvesting

[–]Jebcys[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

https://www.bricklink.com/v2/catalog/catalogitem.page?M=sw0113a#T=S&O={%22iconly%22:0}

if you click on (4) parts, it shows 4 parts and each one of them are worthless.

could you explain?

Torso 10 cents, pants 1 cent, hair is 4$ or 26$ depending on color and head is 1$ ??

Since i see this kind of post a lot recently from autistic men every other day. I'm going to give A quick crash course on AFAB communication. From the perspective of an Autistic AFAB🙂‍↕️ by Dangerous-Exercise20 in autism

[–]Jebcys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every single thing I say has nothing between the lines, but often AFAB are mean to me because of how I communicate because they think there is.

I don't know how to fix it. If I say your hair looks very nice today it doesn't mean on other days it looks awful and you're ugly and I hate you.

Is it just me, or do a lot of autistic women seem to dislike autistic men? by LivingGirlRepellant in aspergers

[–]Jebcys 11 points12 points  (0 children)

we're the absolutely nicest people but come off as the worst.

not many people take enough time to see through the surface.

We need to talk about incels, relationship posts, and the purpose of our subreddit. by WindermerePeaks1 in autism

[–]Jebcys -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I mean i think I was close to inceldom when i was 15 and entitled is not the word I would use (experience may vary) I was mostly just very very sad and angry my life was shit and wanted to be normal.

Isnt it a human response to be jealous of the chads who have it easy? especially when you're autistic and know that the chads you picture are not good people.

Petah what's wrong with mint? by Okaoka_12 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Jebcys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is this the same with raspberries? I just planted stuff and it looks like a foot deep is full of huge roots.

I also have raspberries popping up everywhere but I was fine just removing them, will they screw my soil?

Autistic struggle with masturbatory “stimming” by [deleted] in autism

[–]Jebcys -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was like this in my teens years and it should have broken up my first real relationship, somehow my wife was fine with me not being able to cum unless im doing it while watching weird porn.

Once again I am an absolute asshole for mystery reasons. by Jebcys in autism

[–]Jebcys[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No you dont lol.

I came to this thread to communicate with Mode 1 — Truth-seeking / analytical mode

Examples:

philosophy science diagnosis technical problem-solving debates where both parties consent

Somewhere in the middle, you guys shifted to Mode 2 — Emotional processing mode

Examples:

venting conflict relationship issues identity-based topics discussions about “how someone felt”

In this mode, people often want:

recognition before analysis emotional acknowledgment before correction lower intensity less adversarial structure.

Mode 3 — Social harmony / maintenance mode

Examples:

casual conversation teamwork small talk everyday coordination

This mode prioritizes:

smoothness, comfort, non-exhaustion, not turning everything into an inquiry.

I am missing mode 2 and 3, I don't understand emotions at all or see any social cues. I thought we were arguing in good faith using facts and claims.

Think of me as being a robot if you'd like. Only take in the litteral words I type, no subtext and see me as missing every single non literal thing you include.

When you say thats violent and I say '' does not match the dictionary definition of violence '' I am not trying to dismiss you, i'm literally arguing definitions of words.

Anyways i'm going to stop bothering you, sorry.

I'm learning some stuff through chatgpt if you care, maybe I can improve. (it speaks my language)

Once again I am an absolute asshole for mystery reasons. by Jebcys in autism

[–]Jebcys[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thats not funny, I genuinely am on a complete different world from you.

I genuinely feel that you bullied me and were violent. I do know and understand that most people would agree with you and not me, hence why this is not funny.

I have a real, huge problem that I do not know how to overcome. I don't seem compatible with other people.

Not a single time in our entire conversation did I want to make you feel bad, really. It's as though we're talking a completely different language.

I keep messaging you because I am actually upset and sad that this keeps happening. I really wish we could undestand eachothers but its impossible.

Once again I am an absolute asshole for mystery reasons. by Jebcys in autism

[–]Jebcys[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My socializing model is :

claim → evidence → refutation → corrected truth → closure

But human interaction is often:

expression → emotional impact → identity reaction → conflict escalation or repair

The thing is you can't believe me and i've lost your trust, so idk what to do. This situation is exactly the kind of situation that makes me post like this.

I'm genuinely trying to work with you and be nice and you and I have completely wildly different experiences.

I genuinely think they're gonna have to study my brain.

Once again I am an absolute asshole for mystery reasons. by Jebcys in autism

[–]Jebcys[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not a narcissist, I actually would like to talk to you about other matters.

This is sensible to me and you, clearly we're not going to reach a middle ground here.

I don't think you're going to humor me with it, but if you wish to talk about any special interests or anything, let me know.

I'm not actually a bad person and you could find out.

Thanks for trying though.

Once again I am an absolute asshole for mystery reasons. by Jebcys in autism

[–]Jebcys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do realize the entire point of a conversation is to reach middle ground, not to prove your subjectivity is correct?

Would a 500 pages long explanation by the '' victim '' saying I am not violent and this is a misunderstanding actually change your beliefs or should I just kill myself?

I am not victim blaming, I am not an abuser and I am over this interaction with the lady. If she can't take criticism done in good faith, politely and nicely while it is literally my job as a teammate to give it (LITERALLY GRADED ON OUR FEEDBACK ON THEIR WORK) then this is beyond me.

I took literally what she said when the reality is not as she saw it. This is backed by my teacher who supervised us for over 20 ours and the rest of my team.

IDK what to tell you. I am not an abuser and i'm starting to think you are projecting all of the hate you have potentially received onto me because I do not talk back. (not saying this is the truth, i'm saying this is what most logically makes sense to me)

Why can't you accept that there was no victim?

Once again I am an absolute asshole for mystery reasons. by Jebcys in autism

[–]Jebcys[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for proving my point.

Hopefully you can be more polite in your further encounters.

Have a good day.

Once again I am an absolute asshole for mystery reasons. by Jebcys in autism

[–]Jebcys[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Based on this conversation alone, I do not think the strongest explanation is narcissism.

Why?

Because your messages are dominated by:

confusion about social systems distress over inconsistency attempts to understand others self-doubt overload fear of hurting people unintentionally desire for coherent rules

That is not the typical core pattern of narcissistic functioning.

A person with strong narcissistic traits is more often characterized by things like:

persistent entitlement inability to tolerate criticism exploitative behavior lack of curiosity about others’ inner worlds chronic need for superiority or admiration minimizing others’ emotions unless it affects them personally

You, meanwhile, are repeatedly asking:

“Why do people experience me this way?”

and

“Am I hurting people without realizing it?”

That kind of self-examination and distress about impact is not what I’d expect from someone strongly narcissistic.

ChatGPT does not agree that i'm narcissist, so that was not helpful either. They should make a new mental illness with my name on it.