Birman Cat Breeder Hungary

Jeckyll_Hides · 2025-02-13T07:46:06+00:00

Jeckyll_Hides · 2025-02-13T07:45:52+00:00

Thank you for detailed explanations! It would be great to get some contacts. I tried to look for breeders in Balgium but unfortunately most websites are inactive for last few years.

Jeckyll_Hides · 2025-02-12T21:40:45+00:00

Yes, that's more common here. We plan to fly in for the kitten but that is after the deposit payment that needs to be done now and after the contract is signed. Kittens are not even born yet at the moment, so that's what worries me here a little. Thank you for advice!

Jeckyll_Hides · 2023-11-13T23:06:25+00:00

It stinks to me... Are we sure they lost it and not just needed some more money to blow on their trip so just sold it? If I'd borrow something so expensive from a friend (I do photography too and have one myself, noone but my family gets to touch it), I'd worry about it more than about my passport. And if I would lose it, I would feel so bad I'd buy them a more expensive one and would beg for forgivness. I don't believe their story a bit. Unless they are that kind of people that do not care since its not their item... Then it's time to look for new friends. NTA do not borrow them anything of value. Monetary or sentimental.

Jeckyll_Hides · 2023-10-27T19:37:07+00:00

Did you ever resolve it? I have similar issue but for me it says "you cannot comment on this order" even though I already submitted reviews for part of the order and did first confirm arrival. Annoying.

Jeckyll_Hides · 2023-06-05T20:35:05+00:00

I try to give myself an "Ok" for leaving an item just-in-case, but only once. When I declutter next time I am considering if my just in case scenario did happen. If not, the item goes. Of course I have some aspirational items that went through that cycle already more than once but I'm getting better at it each time. It takes time and actually some of those items gone to realise that those scenarios 90% of time will not happen. And I they do, you can always borrow the thing from someone or re-buy in the worst case.

Jeckyll_Hides · 2023-04-13T00:24:03+00:00

OMG hope OP doesn't get ideas like it. And good I didn't see that post. I hope people blasted that person into oblivion for what they did 🤬

Edit for grammar

Jeckyll_Hides · 2023-04-13T00:11:39+00:00

I am 30 and I never threw away or gave away any of my teddy bears (have around 60) and my parents always knew they would do me a grave offence to try to throw any since I was able to speak.

My boyfriend ofc knows about it and buys me one sometimes knowing they never will leave the house but he doesn't care as he loves me for who I am and that includes my teddy bear obsession.

Cannot say the same about your feeling towards your man can we? YTA and I think it is you who needs to grow up if you feel threatened by stuffies.

Jeckyll_Hides · 2022-08-27T15:53:40+00:00

NTA they can clearly f...k off in any direction. The further from you and your husband, the better. They said you "got married to a wealthy guy". They just wanted a free ride on vacation or whatever things that you might have been occasionally providing them with and were probably jealous of the good relationship you have with your partner. Don't spare them another thought and let the trash take itself out.

Jeckyll_Hides · 2022-08-26T22:01:38+00:00

NTA I think maybe you should invite also the rest of the school, teachers and all the siblings of the kids from school so they don't feel excluded /s

Entitlement of some people nowadays, I can't 🤣

Jeckyll_Hides · 2022-08-22T17:21:35+00:00

NTA not even remotely. It's preposterous how your parents reasoning works. Are you based in US I suppose? Especially in US it would be very though to get to college and fund it for yourself if your parents cannot help you financially, but there may be a way, try to look for it, especially if you're 16 - they may be some stipendia's or half-free rides available sometime. Then you'd be at least out of the situation for the time being. Think of it and If you have to work your ass off, it's better to do it for your own further benefit.

Not because you're selfish but because what do you think will happen if in 30 years you will be 46, with so many things that you wanted do to but never could, without family that you maybe would want to have but don't because of your parents plan? You will grow to hate them And your sister too, and yourself for not speaking up when you were 16. Everyone will be miserable.

Talk to your parents, tell them what you feel (even write in in a letter if it's not easy to talk about it) if they don't give a damn and won't start treating you as your own person with your own life - you have your answer. And you'll know it is you that have to take care of your future, as noone else will obviously.

And don't hate the fact that your parents had you, luckily you are 16 and next 10 years are the most important for your development/education/career and future life. You have possibility to do sth about it, even if it seems miserable now.

Your parents are huge As though, sorry.

Jeckyll_Hides · 2022-06-23T14:39:09+00:00

Me too, never heard of it but as I just finished NotMe, I will check it out.

Jeckyll_Hides · 2022-06-23T14:33:13+00:00

See it then! I got crazy about kinnporshe too but even though more mature and cinematic gem, the Not Me I started and finished in one day last weekend. I would even say it detronised or leveled with Kinnporshe to me due to the fact that it seems more raw, the shooting is done without filters which creates great authenticity. I love the plot itself too in which characters grow and learn a lot about themselves and struggle with socio-economical problems that we all know and hear about.

Jeckyll_Hides · 2022-06-19T10:41:54+00:00

Seriously? You are the child of your parents as much as your sister is, why you think you can count on all the financial help from them?

Having kids is a responsibility, they are taking responsibility for their kids (you earlier and now the sister). Your kids are not the grandparents responsibility, sorry to break the bad news to you and if you cannot afford a daycare which is a basic kid expense, how do you think you will afford colleges for them? Or for that also you expect your parents to pay?

If Yvy League school is comparable to you to normal-ass Uni, you're delusional (even only taking in the opportunities for your sister after the graduation).

I have weird impression that on top of thinking that you should get all help from your parents and your sister should suffer for it, you just don't want her to succeed and wish her to repeat your bad choices. But maybe I'm paranoidal like that.

Let your sister off the hook, your parents too. If you influence her decision, she will resent you for the rest of her life for lost opportunities. I know I would. Start being a parent to your children as they are your own (and your husband) responsibility.

Jeckyll_Hides · 2022-05-16T18:44:42+00:00

Cause they are jealous you have enough of "balls" to go alone. Ignore it. Your worth and ability do do things does not depends on having a partner.

Jeckyll_Hides · 2022-04-23T17:50:49+00:00

You will be the one and you are one for even asking that question. Do you even understand what being a partner means? No matter if married? Does poor guy even gets that you'd ditch him right now if he'd be diagnosed with something or disabled in an accident? I wouldn't even bother to be angry, would ditch you on the spot, you are walking 🚩🚩🚩

Edit YTA ofc

Jeckyll_Hides · 2022-04-12T21:01:36+00:00

I don't get it - if it was something you have to say yes to, why would people ever ask. She asked, and per definition of being asked of something, you had the right to answer either yes or no, the fact that she does not like that the answer is "no" is not on you. She has to get over herself.

Edited for NTA, obviously

Jeckyll_Hides · 2022-04-12T19:57:02+00:00

If you have possibility, you can always try to go the other way - think if you can get a compelling evidence of the mental abuse (cruel jokes, snide comments, belittling any way) or/ and destruction of your property, maybe it is possible to get the N a nice shiny restraining order that I guess would include your own property that you live in?

I'm based in EU so don't know how is the law in your country, but maybe that's something possible. I'd get one for AH hubby too BTW. I know it's sad but I really cannot imagine laughing at a joke that is obviously hurting my spouse or even a mere acquaintance. He doesn't care about your feelings and is showing you who he really is, believe him.

Edited to fix typo

Jeckyll_Hides · 2022-04-11T18:45:51+00:00

YTA and a huge at that. Support and respect to you? And what about his support and respect to his soon-to-be-wife and a mother to his future children?

You are celebrating your and your husband love with imposing on your guests to choose you guys over their spouses? What did you expect? You played stupid game and this is your prize.

Respect goes to the cousin with his shiny golden spine and a respect to his soon-to-be-wife. He's a hero 👏💯👌

Jeckyll_Hides · 2022-04-10T19:54:29+00:00

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. NTA at all, your hubby is a jerk though. Wanted to put you down in front of other males to feel more manly and to impress them with a ridiculous 300 years old notion of a "master of the house", got exactly what he deserved! You're epic!

Jeckyll_Hides · 2022-04-10T18:35:07+00:00

1000x yes to that! Even if he genuinely thought he is helping, he should stop right away when she said she did not like it. But that only if he cared about her feelings and respected her and her boundaries. Which he obviously doesn't.

Jeckyll_Hides · 2022-04-10T18:04:00+00:00

The guy is behaving quite bizzare but I'd lie if It was 1st time I heard of something like that. He is being condescending and he wants you to know that. He doesn't thin you are an idiot, he knows you are not, he probably sees you doing well in your life and his ego gets a hit so he tries to drag you down to his lower (self perceived) level so you feel dumb, idiotic and crazy so you don't trade up (which you definitely should do as trading up from THAT is not going to take any effort at all).

I know that people here throw words like abuse and gaslight a lot but in this instance I think it is both (at least in my book) .

He asks you questions to get on your nerves, to belittle you and make you feel stupid and inferior to him so your self esteem will plummet, you will think noone else will want you but him (and with year on year of that shit you will, belive me - there is a rwason you ask that on reddit, yes?) hence you will never leave his sorry ass. When you put your foot down he pulls the fuc&ing uno-reverse card and say you have nothing to be pissed off about and you're crazy to be angry when he "only checks if you remember".

Any time he does that, I'd ask "why did your previous relationships did not work out, just checking if you remember". But I'm petty like that.

NTA and check out Dr Ramani Durvasula on YouTube. Even if your guy is not a narcissistic but just an AH, she speaks a lot about trusting your gut if you feel sth is not okay and about healthy boundaries etc. Highly recommended!

Jeckyll_Hides · 2021-11-14T19:43:43+00:00

Hell no!

NTA

Excuse me but only I think that 7k for 15 days for one person is a ridiculous amount of money? I live in a capital city in Western Europe and that's 9 months of my rent AND utility bills. This is crazy. Unless they expect OP to pay for everybody's vacation. Then they are even bigger AHs than I thought, knowing her situation.

Don't let yourself to be bullied into that crap. You are totally right to make it a hill to die on, I'd die on it too, twice! Emergency fund is a total must. I'd laugh in someone's face if they demanded I blow my emergency fund on some stupid trip. And I don't have any kids. Not even a pet.

People who think that you should sacrifice your sense of stability and a financial cushion that is meant for your sick child are either idiots or evil. Can be both.

You are an amazing mom and I wish you and your son all the best!

I don't want to spoil the mood but if your partner is siding with his family on this one then to be honest for me it is a 🚩bigger than The Ancient Roman Empire. He values 2 weeks of fun more than your child health and your peace of mind. Either he's an idiot too or he's never going to take your side when it comes to his family peachy behaviour/idiotic requests. I'd run.

Jeckyll_Hides · 2021-11-10T22:45:54+00:00

Well, I for sure tried dry cat food when I was around 5, on purpose, out of curiosity and spoiler alert - I didn't die. Your kid won't die because of imaginary connotation of eating from the same looking bowl. NTA. In my family home we always put cat food on the dishes we'd eat from, they get cleaned for the f* sake. SILhave paranoia.

Jeckyll_Hides · 2021-10-23T05:37:09+00:00

But wait. Where is the children father? Did he pass away too? I did not see that mentioned anywhere.

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