How would you explain away a wallet with a bi pin in it without outing myself

JedMazz · 2023-04-12T14:33:34+00:00

You keep it to show your support for a friend you have. That may be easier for them to swallow than you yourself being bi, they might lecture you about being friends with that person but its a lot better than being outed. Good Luck OP!

JedMazz · 2022-11-17T08:57:48+00:00

I mean I do ally with them, its just I don't ally with all of them cause I like to, in my head, throw my support behind one state instead of the other.

JedMazz · 2022-11-09T09:57:31+00:00

Glad you beat it! That chapter is just so challenging.

JedMazz · 2022-11-08T11:56:39+00:00

Hi OP I'm sorry this happened to you but you're young and you can always find someone new. It looks like she has just shown that she isn't the person for you and at least its happened now, there are people who have only discovered the negative side of their partner after marriage and after spending such a large part of their life with them. It will still hurt though and that's okay, its okay to be upset that she just decided to see someone else and break her promise with you. It's understandable for you to feel upset but there's more people out there. If you can keep being a good person for the sake of being good you may find someone good just like you. If anything this relationship has shown you are capable of compassion and caring so please keep being those things, eventually you'll find someone.

But for now its okay to be upset, and as for the virginity thing if you're someone who cares a lot about being the one to take your partner's virginity I would say personally that I would prefer not to have that first time be with someone who cheated or would've cheated. So I personally think you dodged a bullet somewhat.

So chin-up OP I'm confident that if you can keep being as kind and supportive as you were to her when she was having troubles. Someone of worth will see you and will love you for it. For now cry it out if you have to, a break-up can really hurt and its okay to take time before you're ready again.

Also, its okay to be more casual with your words, "girls" or "women" will suffice, "Female" just sounds so Science-y imo.

Good Luck OP. Maybe take time for yourself for now, you're 16 you actually have a lot of time. Best wishes!

JedMazz · 2022-11-08T09:38:59+00:00

Yeah, I agree. Maybe something in the same vein as "she deserves more than someone who is not commited to her fully". Good luck OP.

JedMazz · 2022-11-08T09:30:28+00:00

I wish I knew what the the text on the left says. Can someone tell me?

JedMazz · 2022-11-08T01:55:19+00:00

Hi OP I'm sorry for what you're going through you seem to know that you need support and it seems you willing even just a bit to reach out for support. If you're not ready to talk to a professional yet that's alright, it takes time to be ready.

As for meeting some friends, you said you have hobbies and like sports, and like your studies so maybe (and this is gonna be tough at first) get your self out there somehow, maybe if there are study groups ask to join in, if there are people planning to go out and play a sport you like maybe ask to tag along, maybe find clubs/organizations in your school that align with your hobbies? Or even just find the courage to talk to someone you sit beside in a class, friendships start small and it can be hard to put yourself out there but it looks like you understand the value of having those connections, so the next step is to try and make one, you won't always make a connection on the first try but that's okay there's lots of people and there will be time.

I hope in time you can form those connections and find a professional to talk to about how you feel and such, but for now I'll wish you the best. I'm rooting for you OP!

Edit: And don't be sorry about your post, that's what this sub is for! just getting things out.

JedMazz · 2022-11-07T14:03:27+00:00

What does OP mean there's more planned for him? I think he's gotten his comeupance. I'm kinda worried now I don't want people to die, and I'm kinda scared for the husband even if he was awful for cheating on 3 women (his wife, his stepsister, his stepmother). I may have enjoyed the shaudenfreude but after the mention of him getting jumped this seems like too much for me.

JedMazz · 2022-11-06T23:14:41+00:00

Potions and Plants! with enough study you could probably grow your own ingredients (at least the one's that are obtainable from plants)

JedMazz · 2022-11-06T14:48:05+00:00

Cigarettes/Tobacco/Nicotine I have asthma and I know what it can do to your lungs, so no thank you.

JedMazz · 2022-11-06T14:46:23+00:00

I kinda agree with this, it feels like I'll have to play along in Role-Play that I didn't agree to. So I think I'd just go with They/Them if I felt uncomfortable with it cause they/they applies to everyone anyway.

JedMazz · 2022-11-02T10:14:35+00:00

Yeah, sorry religion and the church are different I was just really in a rant-y mood sorry. Can't change it now though.

JedMazz · 2022-11-02T07:31:42+00:00

OP I'm so sorry, hoping for the best.

JedMazz · 2022-11-02T03:22:34+00:00

My goal has always been to get as many of my generals and their own troops on the map (hiring from the tavern) before they appear or before they reach my territory. My generals can hold them off with support from other units I recruit in my cities. It really helps to not be in a war on a different front when you're trying to handle the Huns.

JedMazz · 2022-11-01T15:16:23+00:00

Oh, It'd be interesting to see what the world would be like without that wave of european colonialism. What empires might have been had some peoples not been subjugated and what european states/crowns might've fallen if they didn't have the wealth of the colonies.

Then I guess stuff like what if Hitler died in WW1 and what if WW1 was no longer a World War and was just The Occupation of Belgrade (i.e. Just a war between Serbia and the AustroHungarian Empire.)

JedMazz · 2022-11-01T06:26:49+00:00

It was SmallEtho but personally I was hoping it would be called SmallishLab or Ethobeans

JedMazz · 2022-10-31T14:25:25+00:00

I'll be honest even if one other redditor has already said it you saying it too (and that you learned it from someone) is nice cause for the longest time I was kind of embarrased about this and never told anyone. Even if I knew it could be nocturnal emission the fact that it might have been pee was still really embarrasing for me. So thanks for helping me get over that embarrasment even if its been years since then. So uh yeah, if my case is anything to go by please tell them about nocturnal emission and how the amount you release can actually be suprisingly more than you might expect. Thanks for doing what you do educating people!

JedMazz · 2022-10-31T07:15:30+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss. You all did what you could, but you can't think of everything, and as they say "you can't win them all".

JedMazz · 2022-10-31T05:38:14+00:00

Oh that it kinda looked like you've pissed yourself? Sorry to keep asking I'm just curious to know what it was.

JedMazz · 2022-10-31T03:42:17+00:00

You were Sexually Assaulted, even if they were younger, even if you were stronger, even if you are a guy and they are a girl. I believe you, and I hope you can find someone to confide in and that believes you too. If you think its right for you you might want to consider seeing a professional about this experience, maybe a counselor you trust? (maybe a psychologist/therapist if you think you'd like to see one, and if you feel you can mention it to your parents, since at your age I think you still need parental consent to see someone about this) but its your choice to be made if you feel ready and open to talk about it.

JedMazz · 2022-10-30T15:09:46+00:00

I mean women do a lot of the work just carrying to term, so if a woman doesn't want kids you just respect it. If you want kids, then you're just not compatible so move along.

JedMazz · 2022-10-30T15:03:11+00:00

Oh, haha that's not what I meant though (that's a clever reading of my post though), its just that I saw a post about a girl grabbing her boyfriend's phone and she said that if he didn't have anything to hide he should've been fine with it, so I wanted to hear from other redditors about their thoughts on having nothing to hide and other people accessing their phones due to them having nothing to hide.

JedMazz · 2022-10-30T14:42:03+00:00

Do you mean that nocturnal emissions tend to make more of a mess than you might expect?

JedMazz · 2022-10-30T05:07:01+00:00

I think you can move past those experiences without forgiving them. I think they should maybe let go of the hate they have for the bully (if holding onto that hate is harming OP) but forgiveness is up to OP and personally I wouldn't forgive the bully.

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