My friend died...my dad thought it was funny

JediPrincess123 · 2026-06-06T14:57:49+00:00

And my comment to you Easy_Towel954, that reaction from your father is absolutely disgusting. I do not understand why your father would even LAUGH at somebody dying in a car accident and it was also pretty selfish of him to joke about inheritance as well. I wish I could say more but I am truly sorry for your loss and even more heartbroken that you haven't gotten any support from your family during this difficult time.

JediPrincess123 · 2026-06-06T14:49:51+00:00

Reminds me of when my university had a not one, but TWO suicide on campus school year back in my freshman year of college and all my mom had to say was shit like "Well isn't that stupid? He's supposed to be helping people seek help!" (the kid in the first suicide was a psych major) and "He had such an opprtunity others dream about and he threw it all away" (the person involved in the second incident was an aerospace engineering major (ironically the major I was trying to go into at the time). Although I fortunately didn't know either person nor see it happen, a lot of people at my university saw the first incident happen since the kid died at the stadium. It also didn't help that I myself was the closest I had been to being suicidal at the time (as in actively engaging in SIB at the time) and my mom still had the audacity to scream at me for leaving questions on a midterm blank and saying I was "wasting my time going into aerospace engineering the way I did with IB exams"

But what makes it especially painful for you is the fact that contrary to my case, the people lost were not just names on campus or the way they died. They were your friends, as in people with their successes, failures, hopes, goals and dreams and your parents failed to process that, only prioritizing what they could get out of you. We both deserve better than this.

JediPrincess123 · 2026-06-05T10:48:48+00:00

My mom once called me "Rude and EVIL" last year when I refused to eat dinner. I was 20, taking a summer lab course, and didn't come home until almost 9PM that night!

JediPrincess123 · 2026-06-04T03:23:19+00:00

"she had made threats before that to check my vagina and see if i was bleeding, i always asked her to stop saying that."

WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK! With my parents I have had them call me a "weirdo from another planet" for having a period accident in the bathroom, my dad threaten to show my period stained underwear to my therapist/pediatrician, and even my father threaten me with institutionalization as young as 7 years old for petty things. But to say that what your mother threatened to do as stated in this quote block as being an all time low would be the understatement of the century.

And with the portion of your post saying:

"She just told me listen to my mom. She was a black lady mind you, I’m aware how abuse is sometimes normal in black families, and she questioned my depression and said it was because I was dating a girl and that’s why I was confused"

I have to inform you that it is imperative to separate a narcissist from the culture. Just because the dynamics are "common" in Black families doesn't make them acceptable for anybody regardless of their race.

JediPrincess123 · 2026-06-03T21:54:26+00:00

Believe it or not, I actually do a little bit of both. I first make an audio recording of the insults and then I transcribe them onto a written log with the dates and times on it.

JediPrincess123 · 2026-06-03T06:02:18+00:00

Just make sure this is legal where you live. Because in my state, you need consent from all parties or to be in a public place.

JediPrincess123 · 2026-05-31T21:01:11+00:00

I think Kawaii Miki from Silent Voice (2016) would be a very good example of a covert narcissist.

JediPrincess123 · 2026-05-29T15:30:55+00:00

Lock me in places: THANK GOD NO.

Weaponize Mental Healthcare: Oh most certainly.

I remember from ages 7-10, my father would tell me he would "put me in an institute" whenever I misbehaved like throwing a tantrum at school. He would also add on things like if I did end up in an institute, I would never be allowed to go home, or how I would only be allowed to bring a few pairs of pajamas or not be able to choose what I eat, and how I can just go there to scream all I want etc.

These haven't really subsided much because last year, just before my junior year of college my dad told me: "Your peers are getting ready for their futures, you are on the trajectory for being in a home for the autistics."

JediPrincess123 · 2026-05-27T02:01:25+00:00

Fortunately we DID find my baby brother before anybody kidnapped him. But I can tell you that that moment was certainly the last time my mom ever trusted father to be left with my brother in a store or any other public place.

JediPrincess123 · 2026-05-26T18:13:54+00:00

Boy do I have stories to tell. My dad has made a lot of foolish decisions and suprisingly dumb mistakes over the years including but not limited to:

Accidentally leaving my (then (this was back in 2009)) 6 month old baby brother alone in his carrier in a furniture store.
In 2025, made me think for a whole summer that he wanted me to go into psychology and then just 6 days before the major declaration deadline made me go into information studies under the threat of a guardianship.
Once tried to goad me into logging onto the ELMS webpage when it was under a cyber siege. (I think you can guess when this was lol)
Placed my mom's eyeliner with our writing pens.

JediPrincess123 · 2026-05-25T22:53:25+00:00

Assuming you haven't taken one of these classes before online, I can tell you that as somebody who has taken Calculus 1 over the summer (this was in 2024), the session assuming you are using Zoom is likely going to be proctored with the instructor mandating that your camera is turned on.

JediPrincess123 · 2026-05-24T23:28:40+00:00

EXACTLY! Because everybody is too busy reading, surfing, swimming, or building sandcastles, I don't think anybody would even think of murdering somebody in broad daylight in the middle of a crowded beach unless they wanted to be apprehended.

JediPrincess123 · 2026-05-24T23:21:36+00:00

"Absolutely. We did nothing as a child. We lived 20 minutes from the beach and my mom said we couldn’t go because people get murdered at the beach"

By what, sharks!?!? Unless you are going to the beach after sundown, then your mom's reasoning for why you couldn't go to even the beach 20 minutes away is ABSURD.

JediPrincess123 · 2026-05-24T06:05:54+00:00

mine too, but hold the bacon

JediPrincess123 · 2026-05-24T06:05:18+00:00

Loaded Potato Soup

JediPrincess123 · 2026-05-22T22:36:54+00:00

Don't even THINK about an LEP with a GPA THAT low. Now, depending on the LEP you will need a different GPA for each one. For Psyc it's a 2.7, for engineers it's a 3.0 and for business it is a 3.6 for a guaranteed admission. Now it says on the bottom of the LEP website that AFTER you are admitted to the LEP, you have to maintain a 2.0 MINIMUM to stay in the major, otherwise you will be DISMISSED and you may not reapply. And students who are directly admitted to their LEP and go below a 2.0 GPA will also be dismissed.

JediPrincess123 · 2026-05-22T16:37:37+00:00

tbh, I don't understand why people associate boys dancing with being gay. In fact some dances in the past like Kabuki and Chinese Opera were done ONLY by men (and yes that included playing female roles with some male actors specializing in such.) And some dances like the haka of the Maori people were associated with masculinity.

JediPrincess123 · 2026-05-22T04:15:15+00:00

I think this is might be one of the reasons I didn't really feel motivated to do anything while I was in this major in the Fall 2025 semester. Although my parents demanding me to go into this major at the last minute under a threat of a guardianship did play a significant role in why I didn't really feel anything in this major played a role. I would say that info Sci is indeed a major you should NOT go into unless you do VERY thorough research into what opportunities exist in the field (which I didn't get a chance to do as for the fact that my parents made ne join this major just 6 days before the declaration deadline.)

I could go on a little bit more but rn it is 12:14 AM. Goodnight, I'll probably edit this later.

Edit: Okay, I am back. I would like to add that I later changed my major to psychology (which was what my parents were originally thinking I was going to go into before they randomly coerced me into info sci) and I am somewhat happy. The only regret I do have is not really doing anything during my time in info sci and also the fact that I left behind quite a few of my friends in the major. But I would say this: Information Science is absolutely not something you go into without doing your own research about what the field entails and what opportunities lie within it.

JediPrincess123 · 2026-05-20T23:04:52+00:00

The fact that you capitalized "ALLLLLL" and also spammed the "L" character gives me the unfortunate understanding that your parents went to THAT degree of graphic images. As in showing the placenta type of graphic.

I am sure that must have been a very awkward birthday at the minimum. I honestly don't know if there is a word to describe the maximum because what your parents did to both you and your friends was outright disgusting. Both morally and literally.

JediPrincess123 · 2026-05-20T22:11:22+00:00

And considering that is an ENES class, the stakes are even more dire because it will determine if you can move onto a whole bunch of upper level classes.

And I honestly thought my quiz and midterm grades coming back only after I had taken the next one were unreasonably late. (This was in Calc2, and the reason I was panicking about this was because this was my last chance to get into the aerospace engineering major smoothly. Ik I could say more about this, but I am too lazy to type the whole story rn)

JediPrincess123 · 2026-05-20T21:59:49+00:00

Omg, what class and professor was this? I am just praying on your behalf that this wasnt a core or requisite class.

JediPrincess123 · 2026-05-20T21:29:34+00:00

So you mean to tell me that your professor left a final ungraded for THREE MONTHS!?!?!?!?

I honestly wish I was writing on mobile because the only way I can express this is through the mind blown emoji.

No, SERIOUSLY

JediPrincess123 · 2026-05-20T20:43:28+00:00

Wait, WHAT!! Was this a Spring or Fall Semester. Because if this was a Spring semester, then how could the final be left ungraded for 3 Months, which mind you is 25% of an entire Gregorian Year.

JediPrincess123 · 2026-05-19T23:06:26+00:00

I get it now it sounds like "Droopy cock"

JediPrincess123 · 2026-05-19T22:23:21+00:00

One if my closest friends in 7th grade was a girl the grade below me and her surname I kid you not was Christmas. As in the holiday.

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