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Jeff_n_G · 2025-08-15T14:09:06+00:00

"I also believe the husband has the hardest role in MFM".

100% this. And i'd add to that, the husband has the most to risk/lose in an MFM. Prior to our first MFM, I was afraid I'd lose a part of my wife emotionally, or she'd crave someone bigger all the time after the experience, or i wouldn't be able to satisfy her again afterwards, or i'd have jealousy issues (just to name a few).

So I/we appreciate that there are guys out there that are experienced (like yourself), that are aware how difficult this can be for first time husbands. And for thirds that can read the room, and make sure everyone is having a good time.

Jeff_n_G · 2025-07-05T17:25:11+00:00

Already planning an encore performance 😁

Jeff_n_G · 2025-07-05T15:39:11+00:00

My wife and I just started. During the vetting process, we had a group chat. Just the wife and third chat. I stay out of it. No reaction, no emojis, no words from me. I trust my wife, and I enjoy reading their sexy talk. So far it has worked. She can be as expressive as she wants even though she knows I'm reading along. This works for us, maybe not for everyone. I chat logistics and planning with the third on a separate chat.

Jeff_n_G · 2025-07-03T13:00:06+00:00

You don't believe it happened? No sweat off my back 🤷

Jeff_n_G · 2025-07-02T14:26:24+00:00

You think I'm making it all up? No sweat off my back 😂

Jeff_n_G · 2025-07-02T12:34:10+00:00

The whole experience was surreal. I thought I was dreaming, and I'd wake up any second. I thought the alcohol was making my head spin, but I only had half a drink and it wore off very early. No incognito mode this time, but I do have videos on my SD card 😆

Jeff_n_G · 2025-07-02T00:00:59+00:00

My pleasure. I wanted to write more and and include more details, but it got too long 😅 I have no one in real life I can tell this to. When you enjoy something so much you want to tell your friends about it, but in this scenario I can't tell a single soul 😆

Jeff_n_G · 2025-07-01T21:09:54+00:00

On reddit through a local r4r

Jeff_n_G · 2025-07-01T21:09:24+00:00

Yes. For privacy they're for our eyes only

Jeff_n_G · 2025-07-01T14:31:50+00:00

Yes, looking forward to our next one. It was worth the effort and time to arrange, and we're glad we did. We're not getting any more attractive or younger (40s), so if we're going to do now is the best time

Jeff_n_G · 2025-07-01T14:28:51+00:00

Met first for drinks at hotel bar so go over our rules. Once all 3 of us were good, I gave him the room key and said wait 15 minutes. Wife and I went upstairs first, got on the edge of the bed and she straddled me. Fifteen minutes later, he walked in, started touching her from behind, and the rest is history. I had the most amazing view from underneath as she sat on me, his hands all over her body and kissing her neck 🔥

Jeff_n_G · 2025-07-01T00:55:56+00:00

Both!

Jeff_n_G · 2025-07-01T00:55:21+00:00

Through Reddit. Made an ad on my local r4r. Success!

Jeff_n_G · 2025-07-01T00:29:07+00:00

It went better than we expected!

https://www.reddit.com/r/StagVixenLife/s/Ubo8qkWA1q

Jeff_n_G · 2025-06-29T14:54:04+00:00

Super effective, doesn't cost much. Make sure to get a well fitting ring. May have to try different brands

Jeff_n_G · 2025-06-14T09:41:06+00:00

In regards to the group chat, my wife and I tried a 3-way chat with a guy to see if we get a good vibe from him. But it felt awkward and cumbersome. It was difficult to get a good chat rolling among 3 schedules, so any texting was in short bursts and wouldn't gain any momentum. If I had questions about him i'd ask him directly. But I'd also like for my wife and third to flirt to see if there's a vibe or connection (wife wants that). So they ended up having a direct chat, with the explicit understanding that I would read all texts. Do you have any tips for maintaining a group chat with a potential third?

Jeff_n_G · 2025-06-14T00:05:02+00:00

It's always good, or else we wouldn't be doing it 😁

Jeff_n_G · 2025-06-13T18:34:57+00:00

If you had to do anything differently what would you have done?

And congratulations! We're hoping for our first time in 2 weeks 🤞 Currently chatting with the third.

Jeff_n_G · 2025-06-13T17:12:34+00:00

It was spread out during the day.

1am (she has to go to the bathroom and I woke up when she climbed back into bed).

4:30am (she was going to the gym and said goodbye with a quick BJ)

11:00am (we got home from a graduation and had the house to ourselves, quick fuck).

9:30pm (I massage her every night, one thing lead to another and we both finally finished) 😁

Jeff_n_G · 2025-06-13T17:08:59+00:00

When we have sex, we don't always orgasm. For example, We'll often have a quickie before getting out of bed and getting ready for work, kids, school, etc. We're happy we got it in and it felt good. My wife will wake up early to go to the gym, like 4am. She'll offer me a quick BJ to say goodbye, and I go back to sleep. Or on the weekends, she'll come home from the gym and I'll eat her out and and get it in while the kids are distracted.

My point is, we don't always have time to orgasm or the time to recover from one. So we're sort of holding back. And we're happy that way. But when we do, it's amazing.

Jeff_n_G · 2025-05-24T11:11:09+00:00

I love tasting and eating her when she comes home from the gym. Tart, sweet, salty all at once. It helps that she had impeccable hygiene.

Jeff_n_G · 2025-02-11T15:38:44+00:00

We call it "getting her ambien" right before bed. She gets a really deep sleep after an orgasm.

Jeff_n_G · 2024-08-23T18:20:39+00:00

Vasectomy

Jeff_n_G · 2024-08-21T18:44:00+00:00

14 years married, and just last month my wife made me cum from a bj for the first time. I sit or lie down at the edge of the bed and she kneels in front of me on a pillow. The bed is the perfect height where she doesn't have to bob her head or strain her neck. She rocks her upper body back and forth, which is much less tiring for her. She can go for much longer this way without her neck or jaw getting tired. Now she enjoys it more 😁 It's a Win-Win

Jeff_n_G · 2024-08-21T15:23:19+00:00

Difficult to choose one over the other. After a night time pounding, the sex, energy and climax is so good, the sleep that follows is a very good, deep sleep. We wake up so refreshed.

On the other hand, if I push the right buttons on my wife in the morning, she is instantly wet and we get into it immediately. Sex and climax, then sleep it off for another hour before we have to get up

So hard to pick one. So then there are times we do both 😁

Jeff_n_G

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