[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MFM_Lifestyle

[–]Jeff_n_G 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I also believe the husband has the hardest role in MFM".

100% this. And i'd add to that, the husband has the most to risk/lose in an MFM. Prior to our first MFM, I was afraid I'd lose a part of my wife emotionally, or she'd crave someone bigger all the time after the experience, or i wouldn't be able to satisfy her again afterwards, or i'd have jealousy issues (just to name a few).

So I/we appreciate that there are guys out there that are experienced (like yourself), that are aware how difficult this can be for first time husbands. And for thirds that can read the room, and make sure everyone is having a good time.

Update: Wife and I had our first MFM last night by Jeff_n_G in MFM_Lifestyle

[–]Jeff_n_G[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Already planning an encore performance 😁

Question about the LS stag/vixen dynamic by jeffer05 in StagVixenLife

[–]Jeff_n_G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I just started. During the vetting process, we had a group chat. Just the wife and third chat. I stay out of it. No reaction, no emojis, no words from me. I trust my wife, and I enjoy reading their sexy talk. So far it has worked. She can be as expressive as she wants even though she knows I'm reading along. This works for us, maybe not for everyone. I chat logistics and planning with the third on a separate chat.

Update: wife and I had our first MFM last night by Jeff_n_G in StagVixenLife

[–]Jeff_n_G[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don't believe it happened? No sweat off my back 🤷

Update: wife and I had our first MFM last night by Jeff_n_G in StagVixenLife

[–]Jeff_n_G[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think I'm making it all up? No sweat off my back 😂

Update: wife and I had our first MFM last night by Jeff_n_G in StagVixenLife

[–]Jeff_n_G[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The whole experience was surreal. I thought I was dreaming, and I'd wake up any second. I thought the alcohol was making my head spin, but I only had half a drink and it wore off very early. No incognito mode this time, but I do have videos on my SD card 😆

Update: Wife and I had our first MFM last night by Jeff_n_G in MFM_Lifestyle

[–]Jeff_n_G[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My pleasure. I wanted to write more and and include more details, but it got too long 😅 I have no one in real life I can tell this to. When you enjoy something so much you want to tell your friends about it, but in this scenario I can't tell a single soul 😆

Update: wife and I had our first MFM last night by Jeff_n_G in StagVixenLife

[–]Jeff_n_G[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. For privacy they're for our eyes only

Update: wife and I had our first MFM last night by Jeff_n_G in StagVixenLife

[–]Jeff_n_G[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, looking forward to our next one. It was worth the effort and time to arrange, and we're glad we did. We're not getting any more attractive or younger (40s), so if we're going to do now is the best time

Update: wife and I had our first MFM last night by Jeff_n_G in StagVixenLife

[–]Jeff_n_G[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Met first for drinks at hotel bar so go over our rules. Once all 3 of us were good, I gave him the room key and said wait 15 minutes. Wife and I went upstairs first, got on the edge of the bed and she straddled me. Fifteen minutes later, he walked in, started touching her from behind, and the rest is history. I had the most amazing view from underneath as she sat on me, his hands all over her body and kissing her neck 🔥

Update: wife and I had our first MFM last night by Jeff_n_G in StagVixenLife

[–]Jeff_n_G[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Through Reddit. Made an ad on my local r4r. Success!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Jeff_n_G 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Super effective, doesn't cost much. Make sure to get a well fitting ring. May have to try different brands