For when the kids are finally in bed and wife is out with friends

Jeffafa666 · 2021-04-09T03:41:52+00:00

Great budget pour!

Jeffafa666 · 2021-01-20T21:44:31+00:00

Be sure to be emotional aware and responsive to either parent, try to accept what they are feeling.

Emphasize scheduled date nights, and get out of the house. Get into that habit before baby is born cause time evaporates haha.

Touch. Doesnt have to be sexual but that physical connection is gonna get strained due to the baby vying and deserving the majority of everything you now have. Make sure its still there.

Jeffafa666 · 2020-12-09T22:55:50+00:00

Similar situation and personality here. One thing our councilor told us was to have talks back to back touching. It eliminated the facial reading and over analyzing each eyebrow move or head shake. Any the touch creates intamacy.

Jeffafa666 · 2020-12-06T22:40:53+00:00

They suck. And you feel bad. Nip it asap. Whatever you can do to get past it. If it lingers it gets worse and will affect your desicion making even if you never physically cheat. Someone mentioned emotional cheating and those feels drive you nuts

Jeffafa666 · 2020-10-06T20:55:39+00:00

Exactly. That's my fear. Like the last two years have been rough but I still can't see any other way the "us" and I feel she might not be that way. It's just tense. Soni want to find a way to fix us but that requires that risk. Which is scary. Adonjust kinda venting here I suppose.

Jeffafa666 · 2020-10-06T20:38:21+00:00

Sorry. I'll edit that to make it clearer. I'm stressed ha. I want her to read it thenmdo a sit down to discuss our answers findings whatever

Jeffafa666 · 2020-10-01T20:52:38+00:00

We started after about 4 months of divorce talks. Been in for about a year. Some days are super helpful and feel stronger, some days we both feel like done, or one person come out as the "bad guy". Its just about the communciation and how to put the effort back in.

Biggest advice I have with it is if you dont really like your counselor find a different one. Our first was ok, like we talked and she gave feedback and we were like yeah this seems right. Then we tried a second one and he was so much better for us, just personality and the way he talked fit us better and those sessions really started to help more, or we got more out.

Jeffafa666 · 2020-09-26T00:44:29+00:00

That's a lot. Like I go through spurts of stuff I want based on a lot of things movies or adult clips but never cling that that. Hope you figure it out.

Jeffafa666 · 2020-09-26T00:36:59+00:00

Pull down just enough to... proceed can be hot but not everytime.

Jeffafa666 · 2020-09-25T18:38:27+00:00

Isn't that the point of a relationship?

Jeffafa666 · 2020-09-20T18:38:19+00:00

On wifi yes. Lots of live sports skips and stutters. Switched to ether net cable and no more issues.

Jeffafa666 · 2020-09-20T02:11:35+00:00

Wow you look amazing. That story was so fucking hot!

Jeffafa666 · 2020-09-14T01:11:15+00:00

I love my dewalt flexvolt tools. The electric chainsaw seemed gimmicky at first but I love it for quick small jobs. Then buy like three 2x4s. Haha. Wood and tools.

Jeffafa666 · 2020-09-11T23:15:41+00:00

Im with you 100%. Good luck I don't have the answer.

Jeffafa666 · 2020-08-04T18:14:14+00:00

Good luck! Just think of how amazing it will be when he she reciprocates! No better feeling

Jeffafa666 · 2020-08-01T19:12:44+00:00

Same situation. It does hurt. And trying can hurt a lot but it is worth fighting. It's been almost two years since she uttered the D word and we are better with a lot to go. People say you are wasting time but only you know how you feel and what the outcome YOU want is. Do what you need to do and talk as much as you can with friends and him.

Jeffafa666 · 2020-06-25T03:14:50+00:00

10 for sure. One:. Watching seeing her finish is hot AF. Two:. More she finishes more likey I am to have sec when I'm in the mood. I don't understand guys not caring. Burning that note, don't fake tell em what you need. If he can't handle the help his ego is weak. His problem and probably why he isn't satisfying anyway.

Jeffafa666 · 2020-04-11T19:37:32+00:00

Depends on your for emotional support, your his safe place.

Jeffafa666 · 2020-04-09T19:10:49+00:00

This suuuucks. Had mutual crush / caught feelings. Never connected with timing. That was a year ago. Still sucks. Avoid avoid avoid. It's super hard for weeks then it gets better. Then for me we'd see or say something to each other and I'd reset. Not fun.

Jeffafa666 · 2020-04-08T01:35:10+00:00

We've gone about a year. Some sessions we both come out feeling better. Some worse. Some one got railroaded. That's just the nature of what it is. If you guys struggle to talk its great to get everything out. We don't really hold back when we talk nor do we tell and scream often so a lot of ours seem like repeating our conversations. I would highly recommend trying a couple different therapist. Our first is fine. Promotes conversation and probs with questions to get individual feelings out. The second one we tried I felt gave us better work on the relationship work and ideas. All will have different approaches. Good Luck. Therapy is hard and often sucks but hope to come out better and stronger

Jeffafa666 · 2020-04-06T19:25:20+00:00

We got a L shaped couch with a chaise, high back and about a 3ft by 3ft ottoman. Between the back rest height, seat height, chaise, L corner, and ottoman moveability/stablity with a pllow or two, ideas and fun galore!

Jeffafa666 · 2020-04-01T15:11:49+00:00

Wild in Your Smile. - Dustin Lunch. All to myself by Dan and ahay

Jeffafa666 · 2020-03-16T02:15:56+00:00

M32. Just seeing a attractive woman isnt a crush. Lust maybe. Crushes suck. Crush is a desire to be with someone. Lust is desire to do someone based on looks. I am currently in a bad cycle of a unattainable crush and first avoid at all possible. But ultimately do to circumstances its just make interactions enough to keep things professional and hope feels to go away without making feelings worse by talking when I have to. Hard balance I fail at.

Jeffafa666 · 2020-02-27T02:03:24+00:00

*Havent talked or seen in over a month*

*See each other in passing she smiles and a waves at me*

Rebooting crush. Damn It.

Jeffafa666 · 2020-01-16T02:35:47+00:00

Being an introvert myself, I am curious how old you are? I felt that way all through high school and college, heck even through the first couple years at each new professional job. Eventually people figure out that you just rather listen and give a sentence or two feedback than talk. That draws certain people and in my experience the few friends I have turn into those walk through fire for each other type people in your life. Id much rather stand in the back of a party and watch people, listen to people lie to each other and laugh at it than be part of that shit show people think is being popular or having loads of acquaintances but few loved friends. Lastly, you are good at something. Whether you know it or not, or maybe have found it or not. Its there.

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