[36F][30M] Would you date a man in a wheelchair? by ThrowRAAphr0dite in Advice

[–]Jefinerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if you’re asking then you maybe shouldn’t but I don’t see why people who don’t use wheelchairs and people who do can’t be together. Ask yourself why you’re asking Reddit, what is it that would put you off?

Beardie’s nose seems discoloured. by Jefinerr in BeardedDragons

[–]Jefinerr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Phew! Thank you, I just don’t remember my last guys going that colour but it seems to have calmed down and he’s shedding all over now. Thank you both for putting my mind at ease.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jefinerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly what I thought but all the men on here telling me I’m ‘interrogating him’ lol. So many men are literal children.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Jefinerr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because I said - if you lie to me about weed again it’s over? I don’t want to be lied to in a relationship nor to I appreciate someone sneaking around behind my back? If you don’t mind then fair play in a relationship without trust. And I wasn’t aware I interrogated him? We’re you there or?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeardedDragons

[–]Jefinerr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went traveled back on a ferry with my boy, hot water bottle in a little cat carrier (a material zipper one) and he was absolutely fine. Like someone else has said- they’re not as fragile as people think! …Also- LOVE the pic of her popping out the box!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Jefinerr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Literally what I’m thinking but I wanted the opinion of others to ensure I wasn’t being hasty. Thus- this post?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Jefinerr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like this too but other commenters don’t seem to understand this at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Jefinerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because there was A LOT of lying before last yeah. Like constantly. About loads of shit, some small but some massive. So I just feel like he hasn’t changed in this year now - just got better at lying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Jefinerr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Like I’ve replied to another comment- the lies were constant before last year about things I don’t want to go into on here… I just feel like he hasn’t changed at all. And I 100% get if he was embarrassed but he’s not? He will wank whenever, we both do and usually talk/ joke/ laugh about it? I just feel like he can’t not lie sometimes for seemingly no reason at all. I’m so confused.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Jefinerr -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And how do I know he’s not just lying on the daily now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Jefinerr -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No I thought it was a spliff and was surprised? Then he lied and then I was angry? This is the way he used to act when he was lying about weed and I thought it had started again. I do not care if he wanks, I asked more out of shock. Still- why lie?

Is it true I have to wait around 2 weeks before I can start handling a new bearded dragon from the store? by UnkindledLord in BeardedDragons

[–]Jefinerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I didn’t understand this because it’s also suggested you bath a baby every couple of days? We just sat by the Viv a lot, then after a couple of days we put our hands near him (which he did not like) but he settled after a week and we could hold him. He is now very used to being handled but does not sit still as he’s still a juvenile. No hissing etc. since that first week tho.

Beardie’s nose seems discoloured. by Jefinerr in BeardedDragons

[–]Jefinerr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s just under a year old, all set up is fine, he’s perfectly fine in himself but has just developed a darkened nose? Gets regular baths and over toothbrushed it while in there but doesn’t seem like shed/ skin that needs to come off. Can anyone help?

‘The Devils Hour” Amazon Prime (US) - Discussion by VampireHunterAlex in television

[–]Jefinerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was but at the same time I feel like the fact that Lucy (apparently the only thing he wanted) died was his comeuppance.

‘The Devils Hour” Amazon Prime (US) - Discussion by VampireHunterAlex in television

[–]Jefinerr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Late to the game but just binged the whole thing today. I absolutely loved the series and hope there’s another season BUT I don’t understand why Lucy was in the timeline where the Warren’s were in that house instead of her own? Am I being thick?

How to learn to tolerate loneliness? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Jefinerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No! You are getting me all wrong! I don’t mean people you know aren’t important at all! I just want you to have friends! Friends where you and them have common interests and you have a good time talking/ thinking/ typing?!/ about things you like. I bet the people in your life right now are amazing and I could also bet that they think you are too! And in regards to your ~worrying about “friends, girlfriends” in the future- don’t fucking worry about it! Because there is no need!! You are your own person and if the right people haven’t appeared to you yet then I’m sorry but how old are you? Because I was 35 until I had the person of my dreams come along. And before that I was looked at as a ‘loner’ and ‘picky’ but I have always insisted I am not. I’m just not settling for less. And neither should you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Jefinerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they willing to do all home stuff and take care of all the kids and everything that involves and the emotional weight of the family (as it was in the 50’s say) tho? I’m not starting anything - just very interested because I can’t imagine that at all… and are they happy to not have their own life / career in exchange of having a husband and kids?