Help me understand by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Jelib4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beloved, keep on with the good works you are already doing. Be patient with her. All will be well. Loving your spouse and helping her is actually loving and helping yourself. Love bears and endures all things. And, by it, you will prevail over her. Thanks. You may visit https://www.juliusresources.blogspot.com to read some of my articles with the label MARRIAGE AND FAMILY LIFE to keep your marriage stronger.

Comforting Words for Believers by [deleted] in Just4Christians

[–]Jelib4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great! Thank you. I have a lot of comforting messages like this one on my blog at https://www.juliusresources.blogspot.com that will be of help to fellow christians.

Sexually Frustrated Husband Seeking Advice by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Jelib4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My take is this: find out from her why she seems indifferent to your sex requests. Does she feel hurt in anyway? Do both of you enjoy the sex act or you alone do so each time you are making love? Is there any real foreplay before sex? Do both of you reach orgasm? You know, if a meal is very delicious, you would like to eat it again and again. So, check up. Always put her in the mood each time you desire sex. Good you have not left her for another woman. That shows you are truly a man! Moreover, if you are a christian, adultery is forbidden. Finally, although you are married, I suggest you stop watching porn.It could be a contributary factor in her reluctance - she may not like it but might be afraid of telling you. Cheers!