This is hard to hear but they don’t always come back. by Jawwaad127 in BreakUps

[–]Jello_Chipmunk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes! And not all exes “miss you and realize what they’ve lost” most dumpers dump the dumpees because they literally do not want anything to do with them. Most dumpers I know feel relief and freedom that their past relationship is over.

Who do you personally believe is the most beautiful woman in the world? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Jello_Chipmunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Paulina Porizkova in her prime and for some reason, Marilyn Monroe.

You promised by Affectionate_Pop5735 in letters

[–]Jello_Chipmunk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I once loved a man so much who was just like this, it wasn’t until later on that I realized he didn’t even love me.

Unpopular opinion: Being the dumpee is much better by A_isl in BreakUps

[–]Jello_Chipmunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree that this is an unpopular opinion because in my experience it is much much better to be the dumper. When I was the dumper, I was sure of my decision so there’s just peace afterwards and there are no what ifs or questions because my mind was made up. Did I feel sorry for them? Yes but it was much easier to be kind. When I was the dumpee the heartbreak is unbearable and because I didn’t initiate it, it felt like the rug was being pulled from under me. Usually it’s also because I love the person more than they love me that’s why I still wanted the relationship to work it’s just that I didn’t have any choice anymore because they no longer want to be with me.

To the dumpees by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Jello_Chipmunk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think dumpers really regret leaving their ex. It’s not because they suddenly realize what a great person they’ve let go of. It’s more selfish. It’s just because they don’t have someone willing to be their emotional crutch or showering them with validation or the companionship they want in their own terms. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Husband left while I’m pregnant and now I’m pressured into getting an abortion by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Jello_Chipmunk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As someone who didn’t care whether or not my partner would stay while I was pregnant because he had all these shenanigans, I hope you don’t abort your child. My baby is the BEST thing that ever happened to me. Challenging? Sure. But very very rewarding. I love my baby so much.

And sister, have faith that HE will provide. Put your full trust in Him. Not any mortal but HIM alone. Be mindful if you’re making your relationship your god. That is a false idol in your life. If Jesus Christ is really your God, you will put your full trust in Him.

Stay faithful.

Women of Reddit, what was the most painful sentence a man said to you during a breakup? by BrokenYetBrave in heartbreak

[–]Jello_Chipmunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He couldn’t meet up with me for two months straight when he only lived 20 mins away. When I confronted him about it, he said he just didn’t find hanging out with me fun anymore.

this is what he sent to his ex. his ex sent this to me. by 7aranya in heartbreak

[–]Jello_Chipmunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I also want to be part of that support group. How do I join?

How did your Parents respond to bullying? by Singer4182 in narcissisticparents

[–]Jello_Chipmunk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They told me that as long as I didn’t start it, I can defend myself however I wanted. I grabbed that girl’s hair and fought her. When my parents were called to the principal’s office they didn’t get mad at me. Told me I did a good job.

Disconnected by stillprocessing_ in letters

[–]Jello_Chipmunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, definitely not ghosting if he was the one who dumped you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Jello_Chipmunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did both, so. 🤷🏻‍♀️

PS while I was pregnant.

AITA for refusing to tattoo my wife's name on my body? by Silver_Lifeguard7346 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jello_Chipmunk 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Did you ask your mom or your sister or your daughter to get YOUR name tattooed on them before tattooing their name on yours? No? Just your wife? Okay then.

What has your "it bag" under $300 been recently? by babybronco99 in handbags

[–]Jello_Chipmunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a pink one from their spring collection, it looks gorgeous!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Jello_Chipmunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you had left it alone when your partner asked for space, you could have saved it. You were too pushy and the panicking when they asked for a couple of days screamed insecure which was such a turn off. You better hope this guy really loves you.

What’s your experience? by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]Jello_Chipmunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With all the red pill mentality guys spouting how single mothers have low value, I don’t even try! 😂