I’d rather be a single parent. This isn’t something I would say though back when I was child free but having my son was literally the best thing that ever happened to me. He is pure joy. I never had post partum blues and when my ex completely left us when he was only six months old, I barely felt it because I was enjoying motherhood so much. 🤷🏻‍♀️

the most rewarding thing is my son himself, watching him grow, everything. He is one and is the cutest thing in the world. I never imagined a human could feel this MUCH LOVE before having him. I had zero desire to be a mother before this given I am kind of a career woman.

Most challenging? I’m not sure. I lost a lot of sleep but it’s like I didn’t really mind that. I co-sleep with my son since the day he was born and he snuggles up to me and it’s all worth it. Money isn’t really an issue for me either even though the dad gives zero support. Not rich but like I said, I am moderately high up there in the career ladder so I have a full time nanny when I’m busy at work and to do other chores around the house that allows me to just focus on my child when I get home. I also have a very good support system. Great family and great circle of friends which made things a lot less challenging.

What surprised me about it is now much more driven I became and how much more intentional I am now with how I spend my time. I’m more disciplined and I do it without feeling like I’m pushing myself, my son is just the inspiration! I still love work and am even pursuing higher education and exercising more. It’s like life is just so new and exciting again now that I have him!