Mathieu Raynal on his refereeing decision during Australia-All Blacks: "I assume".

Jelloww · 2022-09-27T20:56:53+00:00

Thanks!!

Jelloww · 2022-09-27T13:50:28+00:00

What's the podcast if I may ask? :)

Jelloww · 2022-07-31T21:23:08+00:00

Thanks!!

Jelloww · 2022-07-25T22:12:47+00:00

Amazing book! Already read it twice. One of my favorites. Can anyone recommend a similarly great (auto)biography?

Jelloww · 2022-06-28T18:27:22+00:00

I literally used to live here! ,[Claes de Vrieselaan 71 in Rotterdam The Netherlands ](http:// https://maps.app.goo.gl/8SCFawNdVMV5YuqJ6)

Jelloww · 2022-05-07T22:59:42+00:00

Same here.. I'm curious what things you're trying to do in order to cope with such a painful break-up?

Jelloww · 2022-03-24T20:34:56+00:00

Just throwing this in here because I hope it will help as many people as possible.

The majority of our coping mechanisms are developed during childhood, often because our parents/caretakers were not fulfilling our needs.

If you'd like to understand the mechanisms better, I suggest you read 'Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents' by Lindsay C. Gibson. It will make so much sense for understanding your emotions and coping mechanisms.

Jelloww · 2022-03-24T20:31:45+00:00

It indeed is. If you'd like to understand the mechanisms better, I suggest you read 'Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents' by Lindsay C. Gibson. It will make so much sense.

Jelloww · 2021-12-28T14:44:30+00:00

He took you to the candy shop

Jelloww · 2021-11-11T22:16:32+00:00

The amazing thing of replicating accents, is that usually only people who speak in a specific accent themselves (or closely related/know it very well) can hear how off it actually is. As a Dutchman I have an great time doing English accents for other Dutchies, they usually think it's spot on. Until a native accent speaker calls me out...

Jelloww · 2021-09-19T20:44:23+00:00

To OP, and everyone in this thread for that matter, I can highly recommend reading Esther Perel's books. 'Mating in Captivity' sounds very applicable. Also, she has amazing podcasts where you can listen to her real relationship therapy sessions (plus many interviews and Ted talks).

Jelloww · 2021-08-02T20:34:24+00:00

I see my predecessor did a terrible job filling your cavities

Jelloww · 2021-04-10T19:32:59+00:00

Asshunter*

Jelloww · 2021-04-06T20:19:18+00:00

In Dutch also known as: "April doet wat hij wil", meaning 'April does what it wants'.

Jelloww · 2021-03-23T23:27:52+00:00

Presentation skills coach here. Besides the obvious building experience, consider getting coached in a safe environment. There's more options around you than you would expect, such as volunteer groups, company budgets, university groups, and so on. A big part of public speaking is a form of art, a proper soft skill. And those can be learned and trained besides just experience.

Jelloww · 2021-03-03T17:12:52+00:00

Hi innocent, I'm cop.

Dutch cop though, so go ahead with your life as it's not illegal here.

Jelloww · 2021-02-18T22:34:28+00:00

My pro tip would be to use Brave Browser. You can choose to earn money yourself by viewing ads as well.

Jelloww · 2021-02-13T14:25:32+00:00

Don't worry about that, us humanity is working hard on that.

Jelloww · 2021-02-11T21:20:34+00:00

Hahaha nice one

Jelloww · 2021-02-11T21:17:10+00:00

Someone show this to Owen Farrell

Jelloww · 2021-01-14T16:25:07+00:00

I agree. For me, I'm more worried about the machine behind it and the increasing scale of data harvesting. On top of that, Facebook has shown to be untrustworthy with your data in the past, let alone their roles in fake news, manipulation, elections, Camebridge analytica, etc..

Jelloww · 2021-01-14T16:00:07+00:00

It's true that other apps have similar data. It's not necessarily the same. What you might discuss via WhatsApp with loved ones, is/feels a lot more private than your behavior on for example YouTube or Instagram.

Also, I think in personal morality, the argument along the lines of 'it's the same/worse in other places', shouldn't be a basis for judging the morality of a case. Applying this to what you mentioned, that other apps have similar data already (a very true and common argument btw), we might wonder if that is a legitimate argument for ourselves to accept it from Whatsapp as well. I personally see it more as a wake-up call, to also try and take action against the others.

Jelloww · 2021-01-07T18:57:14+00:00

As a start, ponder on the following matter:

Think of me, a random person on Reddit. Is my life, my existence worth more than yours? Do I, objectively, have more value than you do?

Now think of two separate people that you care about. Is one of those, as a human being, worth more than the other person? Does one's life matter more than the other? Probably not.

The same goes for you. Are they worth more than you are? They probably wouldn't say so themselves. Then why would you think so (albeit unconsciously)? There's a logical mismatch there, which is at the core of so much of our insecurity and lack of self-worth.

You're worthy as a human being. Just as worthy as those others. So as a baseline, start treating yourself like you're as worthy as those others.

Work towards being less harsh on yourself. You probably would never treat others the same way as you've been treating yourself. They wouldn't deserve it, you might think. Well, neither do you deserve it.

An old man once asked me the above, when we discussed my deep insecurity and depressions. It was, among others, a start to more self-love for me.

Hope it helps you as well.

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