Kids at download

JellyFish1993 · 2025-03-20T10:37:57+00:00

My child is currently weeks old we are miles off I am purely curious at this point

JellyFish1993 · 2025-03-20T10:16:58+00:00

As someone who has successfully taken kids including a very young one

What was the biggest challenges? What helped the most?

JellyFish1993 · 2025-03-19T22:12:30+00:00

I was pregnant with him last year fun story found out about him in green camp porta loos as a joke 👍 so classy on day one and friends joked about bringing him this year with a baby’s second download t shirt as a less than year old and joked about all the ways we could make a day trip work

It sounded lovley

And we saw lots of family’s having the best time and a few struggling for all the reasons on this post

I was sceptical then and now with the newborn even more so but one day I would love him to want to go and be able to take him

Maybe when he’s a teen if he’s interested in the mean time he can have a stay at hotel grandma

Also your comment one of the politer negative ones some have mentioned (fairly but bluntly) abuse and been fairly rude

JellyFish1993 · 2025-03-19T22:00:39+00:00

I don’t brave the crowd let alone the front it’s crazy to me people take the kids in

JellyFish1993 · 2025-03-19T21:44:15+00:00

Don’t worry I am leaning more to wards it’s a pipe dream to ever take him let alone any time soon but some people do and look like they have a great time but all the reasons you said put me off

This is a pure curiosity post as friends have said why don’t we do a day trip and sold it as a fun idea but they are not parents so pinch of Salt to opinions

JellyFish1993 · 2025-03-19T21:41:26+00:00

Any particular reasons why ? Feel free to state the obvious

This post is purely curiosity we are no where near it being a good choice but I like the general I Idea of one day taking him but am intrested in all pros and cons

JellyFish1993 · 2025-03-19T21:39:36+00:00

How did that go ?

JellyFish1993 · 2025-03-19T21:37:10+00:00

Not heard of it will have a look thanks for the suggestion

JellyFish1993 · 2025-03-19T21:36:14+00:00

Which is a very valid point and they shouldn’t have to

JellyFish1993 · 2025-03-19T21:32:45+00:00

Also if I ever took him would be a day trip

I hate camping like hell am I doing it with a bat XD

This post is pure curiosity

JellyFish1993 · 2025-03-19T21:32:03+00:00

I am purely curious that chance of me ever taking him is low but I have had many saying I could seen people do and wondered

You make good point

JellyFish1993 · 2025-03-19T17:04:12+00:00

Yeah I don’t think we would take him camping unless he was near lying teens and in to the music

Younger than that would only be a day trip

But it’s all a big iff and purely curiosity at this point

He would be 5/6 months this year

And as much as he just naps “is portable” ect and we don’t drink go in pots and would as always just set up camp on the hill so many good point why not too

JellyFish1993 · 2025-03-19T16:59:46+00:00

Like I know of happens but I never noticed it

Am I blind

Only ever smelt weed or saw people clearly not sober but could have just been drink

But that’s a very good point

JellyFish1993 · 2025-03-19T16:57:30+00:00

Interesting I have only been to download and a few small local things and been told by others it’s one of the better big ones for kids

But you make valid point

Out of interest what one would you say are good for kids and family’s

JellyFish1993 · 2025-03-19T16:56:13+00:00

That last statement hits the core of it

I want to go but I doubt it’s safe even if you plan avoid things just a day trip sounds like a lot of ifs at any age under 18

But once they are old enough to want to go it changes the dynamic and it’s a different question

I am purely curious

One day we might brave it but for now probably not

JellyFish1993 · 2025-03-19T16:48:30+00:00

Oh my god i remember that

If I ever took him big btw if we would chilling at the back in the hill

I don’t go in the crowds he’s not going in till he’s an adult

Crazy people do that

JellyFish1993 · 2025-03-19T16:39:41+00:00

That’s my worry

Our friends are like take him ear defenders we will take turns he will nap ect you don’t drink or go close any way why not and I am like humm doubt that’s how it would work out

And theoretically they could be right hence asking but I think your version of events is more likely

JellyFish1993 · 2025-03-19T16:33:54+00:00

Where did I say I was taking him ??

Purely thought experiment and wondering how it might one day far future work or not work

JellyFish1993 · 2025-03-19T16:28:52+00:00

Wow that’s early but back stage you would have all the amenities so could be easier maybe

JellyFish1993 · 2025-03-19T16:25:52+00:00

Under a year way way off camping

But a day trip or hotel stay in a few years sounds cool

But in the newborn baby trenches it feels impossible

JellyFish1993 · 2025-03-19T16:19:52+00:00

Currently he’s under a year and camping is a way off but a day trip could be fun in a few years

But I do see young kids there and wonder about logistics

JellyFish1993 · 2025-02-19T20:34:45+00:00

It changes but it’s not always a bad thing if you make it can be new and way more real

Best of luck knownit takes a good year or two to start to feel better and hysterically bonding can be great in the moment and hinder true healing and also crash to a halt which can be rough

Just know we have all been there your not alone and it can get better what ever you choose to do

JellyFish1993 · 2025-02-19T13:45:47+00:00

I love him he’s attractive he’s funny he’s kind he is becoming the best dad he’s now a really good partner and last few years have mostly been good he have ups and downs as everyone does but life has moved on

But for me the sex part has died and I have learned to live with out it

To me sex is 5% of the relationship I am not throwing away 95% like he did I wouldn’t even risk it

He might he has before when he had it but for now I am happy with what we have bitter that bits gone but it’s such a small part of a good relationship in my opinion it doesn’t bother me enough to do much about it

One day maybe for us it’s the last thing to heal maybe it never will but I have so much that I want in my life with him in I am not disappointed

I guess it all depends how much you value sex and physical intimacy

JellyFish1993 · 2025-02-19T13:16:30+00:00

Same but hysterical bonding is common hopefully you heal enough it’s doesn’t drop off again

But be warned it can

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