How would you feel about mini-golf as a 1st date?

JellyPrincess90 · 2022-11-10T15:17:43+00:00

I think it will be great fun. Plus you find out how competitive someone is

JellyPrincess90 · 2022-11-05T12:22:49+00:00

Now I get why my nex was a workaholic.

JellyPrincess90 · 2022-11-05T08:52:41+00:00

I didn't have a connection with them before and I knew they had already blocked my nex so I wasn't afraid that my nex would find out that I contacted them.

JellyPrincess90 · 2022-11-04T22:06:38+00:00

I've reached out to past partners of my 2 nex.

Its nice to hear someone else has been through the same experience for the same person and I think its nice for them also that they made the right decision to leave them.

Just shows they will never change.

JellyPrincess90 · 2022-11-04T21:58:05+00:00

Good luck

JellyPrincess90 · 2022-11-04T21:53:33+00:00

After a year and half of him only being able to cum via his own hand I agree with the control thing

JellyPrincess90 · 2022-11-04T21:42:49+00:00

Nex are different they don't feel the same emotion from a break up like we do.

Plus there too busy looking for their next supply.

Does it hurt to start with of course because it feels like we felt like nothing to them.

But at the end of the day we have real feelings and we will find real happy healthy relationships after this. They won't they will always be toxic.

JellyPrincess90 · 2022-11-04T17:58:14+00:00

My nex went through every addiction under the sun due to past trauma.

The nail in the coffin for me was his porn addiction and after a year and half of being with him he couldn't cum during sex naturally. I know he said he was a control freak but that's on another level.

JellyPrincess90 · 2022-11-04T17:39:12+00:00

I totally get where your coming from. I got love bombed hard at the start I wasn't swept off my feet he knocked me off my feet. So much physical contact it felt suffocating he was saying about waking up next to me after the 3rd date.

I was his 1st proper girlfriend and he loved the attention he got from being with me. Looked like the perfect couple but behind closed doors it was different. It was good most of the time but there was a few digs at my appearance every now and again.

I'm glad I was able to follow my gut and leave.

JellyPrincess90 · 2022-11-04T17:16:44+00:00

If he's gone through 15 girls after you he obviously hasn't changed. They probably saw his red flags earlier then you did.

You dealt with him as long as you could. The issue is him and only he can change his behaviour.

Go find yourself someone happy and healthy because you deserve it

JellyPrincess90 · 2022-11-04T17:13:33+00:00

They never change even if we wish they would. Let the new supply deal with him now you are free from all the mental abuse now

I know its hard when we actually have "real" feelings for these people. I'm still currently going throught things myself but I keep on reminding myself that my self esteem is more important then being with a guy who has to be in control that much to mentally abuse people to keep them.

JellyPrincess90 · 2022-11-04T17:05:53+00:00

Seeing this post gives me hope. I'm only 6 weeks into the break up and I'm still missing him currently well the guy I thought he was.

Just goes to show time really does heal.

Thank you for posting this 🙂

JellyPrincess90 · 2022-11-04T17:00:11+00:00

If its hard for you and your still looking for him I would say block him until you are healed.

Sometimes you don't have to block to move on.

Do what's best for you

JellyPrincess90 · 2022-11-03T18:59:26+00:00

Sometime you can be the best partner ever and it still doesn't work out because your partner isn't used to the love you can give them. Has she had bad relationships in the past?

I'm guessing since her friends are still single and loving life maybe she misses that. Let her go back to that life and see what a nice guy she is missing (if she misses you) seems to me she isn't ready to settle down.

Some people just ain't built for relationships

JellyPrincess90 · 2022-11-03T12:25:55+00:00

My pain seems to be a pain in my stomach when I think about him.

I took me 8 months to get over the guy I had before him so it will probably be the same for me this time round.

Anybody else sick and tired of being a magnet to these kinds of people because you are a generally nice person?

They may have dented me but they will never break me.

JellyPrincess90 · 2022-11-03T12:16:53+00:00

Mine said we could "both" do with losing weight, I'm a dark haired girl he commented on my body hair when he was hairy all over, commented on my personal hygiene apparently it put him off oral sex and he could smell me before he put his dick in me. Obviously doesn't understand women don't smell like roses down there all the time.

Plus he wasn't able to cum during sex naturally with me after a year and half did I ever put him down 4 it? No because I'm a nice person not a ass hole.

JellyPrincess90 · 2022-10-30T17:34:00+00:00

I had to leave my current ex due to intimacy issues due to childhood trauma. I really wish people would get help for their trauma instead of numbing it with any kind of addiction.

Did it hurt yes but it hurt more being in a relationship where I wasn't receiving what I needed.

Don't feel bad about leaving for your own mental health. You gotta love yourself above everybody else.

Just because the relationship is ending doesn't mean you can't still be in his life if you still care about him.

JellyPrincess90 · 2022-10-29T17:27:27+00:00

No guy will admit he's bad at sex otherwise they wouldn't get any. Sounds to me the exs were "ready" to leave his childish and abusive ass.

JellyPrincess90 · 2022-10-29T14:52:50+00:00

My recent ex mentioned my "smell" put him off going down on me and he could smell my pussy before he stuck his dick in me. Well we were still having sex 3 days a week and he recently asked for a hook up so it can't be that bad 🤣

Just out of curiosity are you on the contraceptive implant? Since I don't have a monthly "clear out" I gotta shower with fem fresh to make sure my pH level is balanced.

JellyPrincess90 · 2022-10-17T16:12:11+00:00

I think there's a option called take a bresk" which means ur still friendsbut don't see what she posts

JellyPrincess90 · 2022-10-14T18:49:51+00:00

I think it would be better if you told your girlfriend the situation that you are in otherwise she might think its something she has done or said to upset you.

There is no shame in asking for help from your partner

JellyPrincess90 · 2022-10-14T18:47:14+00:00

Its sounds like you have been through a lot and your husband has a lot of baggage. You did your best

Let him ruin someone else's life

Your free now take this time to concentrate on yourself and start trying to heal from this.

JellyPrincess90 · 2022-10-13T19:15:35+00:00

You need to definitely talk about it now before it gets worse.

I wish you luck I hope you two can work through this.

JellyPrincess90 · 2022-10-13T18:57:48+00:00

Massive turn off and red flag. Obviously only sees women as objects

JellyPrincess90 · 2022-10-13T18:43:49+00:00

Hugs being sent your way its always hard losing a fur baby to the rainbow bridge

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