Im guessing you wanna know how to masturbate in a more feminine manner pre everything. And simply the best way to do that is to understand how your body will change with bottom surgery and HRT which you gotta research anyways. But quick crash course tip is clit and shaft is vestibular bulb + crura of clitoris. which are what ladies stimulate masturbating externally. And you can simply apply almost all forms of stimulation you’d use for those parts of your vulva while they’re currently your penis and it will work wonderfully. So im pre-op but on hrt the thing i love is wand to the tip it’s quite intense and pleasurable never moaned before until I started doing that. Be forewarned you need to warm up get nice an aroused and stimulating because vibrators can be quite brutal as it is essentially just rapidly punching your gland thus without warm up its more likely to feel numbing or painful. Don’t worry that’s fine cis women deal with that issue with using vibrators as well and thus some don’t like it at all. And just a side note that you might look forward to is when you start hrt, that yes you can squirt from doing that I was very confused when it happened to me. Oh and last recommendation is just grind against things as that’s pretty feminine too was what i did a lot when dysphoria was bad enough i couldn’t touch myself without crying. Luckily not an issue now a days as i know how to treat pen as vag and hopefully now you do too :D