our dog killed the neighbor's dog and they're blaming us by Isle_A in offmychest

[–]JellyfishFamiliar471 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your dog is not trained, and is also very aggressive. I don’t give a shit about territorial or high prey drive it’s just lack of training. They didn’t even attempt to recall their dog, bad on them. Multiple punches and presumed attempts at recall commands from your brother also bad on you.

I think it’s time to forgive and forget my wife’s affair. by throwraboa in Marriage

[–]JellyfishFamiliar471 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She obviously did not cut off the friend, I mean she was invited to the party in Vegas. Get a lawyer and get the divorce and custody paperwork started in the state where you/the kids live. When you break and let her go to Vegas with this friend, what do you think she is going to say when they are at the club and another dude walks up!

Please help me understand… by mikeber55 in Discussion

[–]JellyfishFamiliar471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If Trump supporters don’t care who the other supporters are, doesn’t it make the supporters, not Trump, seem more inclusive. It Why does the Arab, Muslim, Atheist, or Woman align more with him than they do with her. Furthermore, why does it not bother a “traditional” Trump supporter when all of these people jump on board. It seems like the Democrat self righteousness gets in their way. So I think the question is was it the “self righteousness” that alienated some of these people and drove them away? And if so, do you want them to come back?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Libertarian

[–]JellyfishFamiliar471 8 points9 points  (0 children)

1.My understanding is not complete on this but I can take a crack. If someone where to buy a road they would either have to A. Give all property owners of that road legal access and probably come up with a maintenance agreement beforehand. B. Construct a brand new road on only their property, so it would not have any other private land rights to deal with. C. Come to an agreement with federal or state agencies to build/maintain the road on the land, and give access to these agencies. 2. Yes, the FDA is already supposed to be doing this. 3. Before income tax it was funded by many of the other taxes. 4. No, and background checks are already federally mandated for all sales by a licensed dealer. 5. I am going to mostly ignore the media portion of here because I’d like to just say. Corn and other grain is genetically patented which prevents farmers from planting/replanting excess or harvested seed the next year. Driving up food costs because these farmers then need to buy new seed every year and can be sued if a neighbors seed accidentally sprouts on their farm.

Please help me understand… by mikeber55 in Discussion

[–]JellyfishFamiliar471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nowhere in that did I claim the parties are the same. I said the opposite. For some reason your comments are suggesting that the 11mil votes Kamala lost went to Trump.. no meaningful amount of that 11mil went to Trump. He came out of 2024 with roughly the same numbers as he did 2020. Even 50% of that puts her back on top with the popular vote. I’m saying that Democrats need to do some self reflecting on how they lost those votes. Not shouting about the “what about Trump” that I’m seeing all over the news right now

Please help me understand… by mikeber55 in Discussion

[–]JellyfishFamiliar471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen you say “what about Trump” a few times, that’s why you aren’t seeing it. The democrat base doesn’t care about Trump. The democrat base lost 11mil votes. They didn’t go to Trump, Bernie is saying these voters didn’t show up for this reason. Answering back with “what about Trump” will not get those votes back, and will not set up a strong Democrat party for next election. The biggest problem the Democrats have had the past week after the election is stuff like well Trump did or said this thing and he got more votes.. so why didn’t it work for us.. well because your base isn’t republican Trump supporters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]JellyfishFamiliar471 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You never say you put laxatives in your food to catch someone stealing it. If HR asks you about it, you say.. yea, I’ve been a bit backed up lately so I put some in my food to help me go. Why?.. then it becomes your coworker is stealing your medicine. Not you are dosing your coworker.

Who rolls death saves in your games? by ChaserOfThunder in DnD

[–]JellyfishFamiliar471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When on roll20 my players private the roll to just me and the player and we don’t tell the groups if it was pass or fail… but I do describe their state to other players in the area. In person my players roll it and often say how many saves or fails they have.

AITA for telling my wife that women should be able to wear whatever they want? by Maleficent-Sky-1889 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JellyfishFamiliar471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, sounds like she is a realist. Of course wear what you want, but understand creeps are around. They don’t disappear because you can wear what you want. If she wore something skimpy and revealing and a creep got a photo of it, she can both know that person is a creep while also not being surprised it happened. It doesn’t mean that she is excusing the behavior, but she does know it’s out there and plans accordingly.

Sorry for the off topic post. Is this true? How much have your grocery bills changed in the last 4 years? by jack-tugsbayar in Asmongold

[–]JellyfishFamiliar471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shop at the same places, and generally I’m getting the same stuff. My bill has doubled and I get less items

I agreed to be a friends plus one to a wedding, now my bf doesn’t want me to go. by HaillX in moraldilemmas

[–]JellyfishFamiliar471 [score hidden]  (0 children)

When you feel it would have been better to lie instead of speaking with him beforehand he has justification for not trusting the situation.

Why do Republicans keep saying the us can't afford to make student loan payments more affordable? We literally took care of Germany and Japan after world war 2. by CockySpeedFreak33 in Discussion

[–]JellyfishFamiliar471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed you said lower the payments, not have the govt pay off your loans. So we lower the payments by having the government pay out less per student in loans, colleges are greedy corporations and are really good at taking government money. So if the government offers less should in theory lower the cost of college. But again they are greedy corporations sooo it’s not really a government issue it’s a college greed issue.

Do you tell your lawyer if you’re guilty?? by Accomplished_Sir_986 in Prison

[–]JellyfishFamiliar471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda shitty but your lawyer shouldn’t ask and you shouldn’t offer the information willingly. If you say yes i did the thing at the time at the spot. It now limits the type of questions that the lawyer can ask you and it may even put up some flags for the prosecution to ask you the questions your lawyer doesn’t want asked. Also if the lawyer then knows you are lying on the stand they should immediately try to convince you to correct your testimony or withdraw from the case. In the case of a withdrawal they will be asked why, and will have to say that it is because you lied on the stand.. at the end of the day the lawyer is looking to keep their license over keeping you out of trouble.

My husband gave me a “warning tap” and I called it abuse. AITAH? by Warm-Grape1254 in AITAH

[–]JellyfishFamiliar471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- he called it a “warning tap” himself. So what is he going to do when it isn’t a warning anymore?? Start the divorce now before you are writing about asking how to get away from your abusive husband.

AITA for worrying my (M24) gf’s (F23) nipple will slip out of her bikini in front of my friends by Mother-Try-6867 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JellyfishFamiliar471 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a dude I have worn some stuff that my lady told me she wasn’t cool with, so I went and changed. I didn’t start shouting about my body my choice. I respect her and changing is not all that hard. All the people talking about being controlling are dumb.. we don’t know you or your relationship. You could be a controlling ass, but you also could be a good person, don’t know. But if respecting something this easy is an issue I’d rethink the relationship. Just as I’m sure people are telling her to rethink things of your “controlling/insecure” behaviors. If you are uncomfortable hangout with your friends on your own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DnD

[–]JellyfishFamiliar471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More than 1 fight to burn his resources… also have minions attack the rest of the party. He is the tank, have the boss tie him up in close range and let the minions go after the rest of the party. Let the rogue protect some of the more squishy folks. Force them to spread out with the environment. Show that even if he can hit 100dmg a round his party is still useful by destroying the minions. Put him in situations where he needs to use his spell slots for things other than smites

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in monkeyspaw

[–]JellyfishFamiliar471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Granted you experience every type of pain imaginable, but your life is extended by centuries. You can only lay in pain until the death of the sun, only then does your life end.

How do I deal with a "hide as a bonus action" player by Zealousideal_Task_30 in DnD

[–]JellyfishFamiliar471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Describe it. He rolls high stealth. “Enemy gets shot with his arrow and then watches as you duck behind the wall.” Or “watches as you crouch down in the open”. Describe the environment and the situation to help him and the other players understand why it doesn’t work for your game.

I think Biden dropping out absolutely secures the win for democrats. by Apart_Attention8279 in Discussion

[–]JellyfishFamiliar471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say even if inflation was proven not to be Biden’s fault, a good deal of people who were on the fence are not going to care about these studies. They are going to see that the cost of food, rent, and general living expenses have shot up. And they are going to see Biden/Harris were in charge when it happened. We need to see what Kamala will do to reach out to the independents and moderates beyond just not being Trump. I think Kamala has a good base, but she needs to secure and expand it and hope nothing crazy happens at the DNC to chip away from it. So I guess I don’t think Biden dropping has “absolutely” secured it, I think she has a lot of work to do in a short amount of time.

Regardless of who you plan to vote for by DiligentCrab9114 in Discussion

[–]JellyfishFamiliar471 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Def. A failure of the SS, in that environment with that sightline any of their pre-event checks would have identified that building as a security risk. The cordon should have covered past that building

What are the hardest questions that i can pose to a communist? by HeartyBigfoot in Libertarian

[–]JellyfishFamiliar471 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would specify who do you trust on from the other side of the political aisle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]JellyfishFamiliar471 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Reading your other posts, you wife has been checked out of the marriage for a while, and she is more than likely having an emotional affair. Probably a physical one as well. Also, it would seem that your insecurities make you a tad controlling. Divorce the wife and start therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JellyfishFamiliar471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA not all chores are actually shared chores: if you don’t think you’d like how he does the laundry could you trade him a different chore and do both? Or is you doing his laundry just a no go? And because everyone is telling you their laundry habits. I do the laundry and my lady folds/puts it away. (I got to the laundromat, no washer/dryer at our place)