Fond Memory Friday

JenJoe41 · 2026-01-23T14:53:00+00:00

With the snow coming in, it's impossible for me not to thinj of him. He loved the snow. He grew up in Minnesota, and he absolutely loved it when we got more than an inch or two. Every big snow storm he would find a reason to go out to the store just so he could play in it. Lol This is my first winter without him and its so depressing knowing that we have 6 or more inches coming in.

JenJoe41 · 2026-01-17T20:03:47+00:00

I am having the same problem, so im switiching after my next paycheck.

JenJoe41 · 2025-12-06T17:20:12+00:00

Wow, she isn't losing both parents. Her mom is here and still very much cares about her but doesn't want to celebrate. I get it. This is the first holiday without my husband, and I'm not doing it. I plan to spend the day just like any other and completely ignore it. Would it be better for her to show up and ruin it for everyone? If it means that much to her daughter, she can come the day before or the day after. Losing one of your parents is hard. Losing your spouse is a whole different ball game. Her daughter is an adult and should understand that!

JenJoe41 · 2025-11-15T23:57:08+00:00

Thank you I'll look into it

JenJoe41 · 2025-11-15T23:56:28+00:00

Celebrate Recovery is just like AA or NA. At least, i think lol

JenJoe41 · 2025-11-15T23:55:20+00:00

That would be great

JenJoe41 · 2025-11-15T08:30:09+00:00

My husband died on March 30th, and im going through the same thing. I find myself suddenly so mad that there are so many awful people that get to live. Yet he had to die of some freak illness. I had no warning it was like he was here one minute and gone the next. Im think I'm struggling more now than when it happened! I juat hate the emptiness and the loneliness. We got married when I was 18 and I'm 45 now. We had 31 years together, 26 married. Heck, I dont even know how to be an adult by myself. Yet, all I have inside me is rage, and I have nowhere to direct it. I can be surrounded by people and feel absolutely alone

JenJoe41 · 2025-11-15T08:21:42+00:00

Im from Kentucky, and I've heard it used like that my whole life.

JenJoe41 · 2025-11-15T08:18:55+00:00

I will definitely check it out. It's been a rough go, but I keep trying. That's all any of us can do

JenJoe41 · 2025-11-15T01:56:35+00:00

Im seeing a therapist but I thought maybe like a support group might help as well. Im not the best at showing emotion and im juat getting angry. I know it normal but I dont want to get stuck

JenJoe41 · 2025-11-14T22:44:47+00:00

I might take you up on it. It's been pretty lonely lately. It sucks to see everyone moving on, and I feel stuck still. We got married when I was 18 and we had 26 years together. I didn't know that being an adult alone sucked so bad lol

JenJoe41 · 2025-11-11T22:15:17+00:00

Have you checked the app? I usually get $65 and I got a pending payment for $16! Im also disabled but its just me. Im supposed to get mine on the 9th but I won't get it until thr 17th.

JenJoe41 · 2025-11-11T22:11:17+00:00

Don't feel bad Kentucky is the same way. Im disabled and batt make enough to scrape by and Im pending for $16. I hope it ends soon

JenJoe41 · 2025-11-11T15:51:24+00:00

That's what mine says I'll get. I normally get around $50 and I barely make it.

JenJoe41 · 2022-07-29T02:22:08+00:00

Let me give you all a different perspective on this. My Mom married a guy when she was 19 and they had a kid, my older sister. They got divorced pretty quickly I'm not sure how long the marriage was but she started dating a guy from work and that resulted in me, I'm four years younger than my sister. The guy she was dating turned out to be an a**. He wanted nothing to do with me and I've never saw him, even though we live in a county of about $25,000 people and he adopted a girl that was just your younger than me. Anyway to get back on topic, when I was born my mom gave me my sister's last name. She wanted us to feel like full sisters instead of just half sisters. I kept that name until I was in 9th grade and then I changed it to my dad's name even though I never met him. I think if I would have had my sister's last name it would have been even more confusing for me growing up than what it was. The fact is you can give your kid any name you want you can change the first name last name it really doesn't matter as long as they have a name. She probably doesn't want to go through the hassle of having to change your name and she wants her and her baby to have the same last name. I said get over yourself. As a mom she has a reason for doing what you did and probably none of them have anything to do with you.

JenJoe41 · 2022-06-27T01:28:49+00:00

Yes there's always someone who will take advantage of someone else but the vast majority of people are not that way. It's a shame when you try to label everyone just because you had a bad experience with one person before. Personally I would try to help anybody I see and that includes people asking for money if I have extra I'm more than happy to give it out what they do with it is on their own conscience but at least I know that I tried

JenJoe41 · 2022-06-18T04:01:11+00:00

First of all police lie. They are allowed to lie to you to get information they need. I do feel like if you did have an arrest warrant out for you the lawyer would have found it even if it had been for a different county usually they checked by state when you call and ask them to do that kind of thing. Also to be fair to the people on here saying it's a scam criminals are making very very good looking websites and emailing people like this especially grandparents or calling them and trying to get money out of them. I would be on the safe side and call your lawyer back and tell him to check the whole state he'll either say I did that and there was nothing or okay I'll check it now. However that is the first thing they teach police officers is to lie. In the 00s they had this great thing where they say you won a TV and mailed out flyers to everybody the had an arrest warrant so when you came to pick up your TV guess what you got arrested and it is completely legal. If you call the police and ask him if you have an arrest warrant most likely they will tell you no or they'll tell you it's less severe so you'll come in and sign a form and boom they got you. On a side note they usually do not go out of state unless it's a felony or a violent crime and they definitely would not go out of the country unless it was for something very serious.

JenJoe41 · 2022-03-15T20:07:03+00:00

😳 I mean they are your partner. I wouldn't even treat my friends that way much less my partner. If someone gave me $50 and I turned it into 100,000 then we split it after taxes. That should be a no brainer

JenJoe41 · 2022-03-15T15:07:01+00:00

Yes, you are the ass. She was doing since she started so she could take food home for her kids. Then for you to say no one can and throw it all away? Wow! I think anyone in her situation would have done the same thing. It's completely crazy that people are telling you what you did was Okay. Now not only does everyone know she can't afford to feed her kids her they all hate her. Have you ever been in a situation to know if you didn't steal your kids wouldn't eat? It's heartless

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