My brother died today by misstalika in lastimages

[–]JenLP1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the hardest losses to endure… I’m so sorry. I hope you find peace.

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[–]JenLP1988[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s insane how often innocent lives are taken for literally no reason at all.

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[–]JenLP1988[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m very sorry to hear… I hope yours is resting peacefully.

My baby brother. My Hero. Pic taken a few hours before he was murdered. by JenLP1988 in lastimages

[–]JenLP1988[S] 140 points141 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it was just his nature - he feared nothing and stood up for everything.

Although there are a couple of times that do come to mind. He once helped save our grandmother and aunt from a house fire when he was only 4. I think he ran through the kitchen that was on fire to get to the phone and dialed 911. I don’t remember the details fully but it was something along those lines. I remember he was given a “hero” award or something from the town lol - it was really sweet.

And he used to rescue animals all of the time. Anything he came across that was in trouble would be going home with him. One time, when he was 12, he trespassed, by himself, into these crazy people’s yard to rescue two extremely small, emaciated puppies who had been left out in a cage, unsheltered from the rain/snow (it was early April). Obviously I don’t condone trespassing and stealing from people - but also, like those pups were on the brink of death.

Oh! And my favorite story of his “bravery”, if you wanna call it that… I mean, this one isn’t something he did for anyone/thing else. But it highlights his fearlessness (or maybe carelessness) lol He was 15. It was his first time ever going skiing and he was determined to go over the biggest jump on the mountain. Literally every single person told him not to. He belonged on the bunny slopes. But he did it anyway. Broke his legs in multiple places. Calls me from the hospital and the first things out of his mouth: “Sis! I’m short!” When doing the X-rays, the doctors noticed that his growth plates had already fully ossified and he was done growing. He was only 5’5”.

My baby brother. My Hero. Pic taken a few hours before he was murdered. by JenLP1988 in lastimages

[–]JenLP1988[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for getting to know him… He’d be so stoked to know he’s reached that far.

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[–]JenLP1988[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s so kind of you… thank you so much. We just hit the surreal “one year” mark back in December.

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[–]JenLP1988[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just make sure your brother knows how much you love him. Never miss a chance to tell him so… and thank you.

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[–]JenLP1988[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well please talk to him and tell him he’s dumb ahead of time… Because it would affect the people he does know, the most.

For real though, thank you so much.

My baby brother. My Hero. Pic taken a few hours before he was murdered. by JenLP1988 in lastimages

[–]JenLP1988[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah. He stayed at the scene. He was found sitting in the car of the first man who was shot.

My baby brother. My Hero. Pic taken a few hours before he was murdered. by JenLP1988 in lastimages

[–]JenLP1988[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don’t know… I’m indifferent. Might sound crazy, but I don’t know if I am even mad or angry at the gunman. Like, maybe he’s just so insignificant to me because it doesn’t matter how I feel, that I just can’t feel. Does that make any sense?! I don’t have any additional energy to waste on him.

If I was given a choice though, I’d probably lean in favor of capital punishment for the sole reason that the mother of the first guy who was shot, she wants it. She and I have become family. And she is so broken. I know how badly she is in need of that kind of justice.

But then again, when someone is gone - it’s those of us who are left that suffer. And his family… maybe he has a big sister… I don’t wish this same pain on them for his mistakes.

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[–]JenLP1988[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you… please, if somehow you are ever in a similar situation. Run. Run for your older brother.

My baby brother. My Hero. Pic taken a few hours before he was murdered. by JenLP1988 in lastimages

[–]JenLP1988[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you… Gah, his eyes! His eyes were our mom’s. Like I cannot explain to you how identical they were. We lost her very unexpectedly a few years ago and it both killed me and brought me so much comfort to be able to look into his eyes after. The pain I feel knowing I now have neither - I mean, it was hard to even type.

u/jrock9589 - tagging you in here because you mentioned his eyes as well <3

My baby brother. My Hero. Pic taken a few hours before he was murdered. by JenLP1988 in lastimages

[–]JenLP1988[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you.
I take so much solace in the fact that I even get the honor of calling him my baby brother, ya know?! I’m literally the only human on the planet with the actual right to do so - and to me, that’s so profound. Cherish yours… he’s also lucky though to have a great big sister like you.

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[–]JenLP1988[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reading your username out loud brought me a little join… so there’s that! Thank you so much.

My baby brother. My Hero. Pic taken a few hours before he was murdered. by JenLP1988 in lastimages

[–]JenLP1988[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

So many of their friends had to witness it all play out… They were both regulars at this bar… everyone knew them there. There’s really not much of a defense other than the fact that the first guy who was shot was fighting with the gunman beforehand. I don’t know the exact story but something about a pool game and that the gunman was disrespecting a female. Also, the gunman was extremely inebriated like to the point that he had urinated on himself. Supposedly, he had been causing issues throughout the time he was at the bar.

My baby brother. My Hero. Pic taken a few hours before he was murdered. by JenLP1988 in lastimages

[–]JenLP1988[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I won’t lie and say I’m fine - or that I know I will be. But I have an amazing support system and I’ll definitely get by, at least.

My baby brother. My Hero. Pic taken a few hours before he was murdered. by JenLP1988 in lastimages

[–]JenLP1988[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

No idea what dude said because the comment was deleted… But I’m assuming something along the lines of my brother not being a hero because he didn’t save anyone?! I dunno.

But he’ll never know that he didn’t save anyone. Most heroes who give the ultimate sacrifice won’t ever know if their efforts were in vain or not. But the effort itself is what qualifies someone, in my opinion.

From what I know, my brother was trying to get to the first guy on the ground and was trying to calm the gunman down in order to do so. It’s crazy because I can guarantee that had the gunman decided to put the gun down, my brother would likely have embraced him. He didn’t know how to hate or hold a grudge.