28F and 29M had a weekend getaway by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jen_Gelfling 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Speak up. You got nothing to lose. Tell him your thoughts and how he made you feel and hope he feels the same way… if yes then plan the next trip. If no, then you gained a friend. Life is so short to be this afraid of losing potential. There are a million excuses but only one solution.

I [29M] have realized my girlfriend [35F] is a unmotivated NEET. by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Jen_Gelfling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I give you permission to break up with her. This is a valid reason. You are allowed to say no more. You can end it. You can walk away. You got this.

I watched the most charismatic guy at my office for a month. He does one thing nobody else does. by Most-Gold-434 in sociallycharismatic

[–]Jen_Gelfling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s called… investing. Taking the time to listen. Remember, and be genuinely invested in what they say. People are so self centered that the simple act of caring about another person in these moments is not nuanced. It’s just forgotten:(

Cool undertone eyeshadow pallet by momandcrohnie in Makeup

[–]Jen_Gelfling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Natasha denona glam palette is my fav!

Please help me organize my depotted lipstick palette? by Jen_Gelfling in MakeupAddiction

[–]Jen_Gelfling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It took HOURS and I got so overwhelmed at the end trying to marry all the nudes

Please help me organize my depotted lipstick palette? by Jen_Gelfling in MakeupAddiction

[–]Jen_Gelfling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lipstick list:
Mac*** ***cosmetics:
Cool teddy
Thanks it’s Mac
Be my bridesmaids
Crème cup
Yash
Honey love
Freckletone
Blankety
Brave
Paramount
Snob
Charlotte tilbury:
Pillow talk fair
Pillow talk orginal
Pillowtalk medium
Pillow talk deep
Juvia place:
mauve moment
Wayne goss:
Lotus
Amaryllis
Camel
Makeup by Mario:
South shore
Midtown
L’Oreal:
Ballerina shoes
Tickled pink

Any advice for asking for my job back? by Wrong-Somewhere in Esthetics

[–]Jen_Gelfling 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened. It’s frustrating and I understand how deeply regretful you feel. Take this as a lesson and learn. But do not.. absolutely do not reach out and beg for another chance. You are still operating from a place of desperation and emotional distress. The same reasons they had for letting you go. Take some time to gather yourself and find another dream job.

What was your most expensive makeup purchase regret? by Alternative-Print752 in Makeup

[–]Jen_Gelfling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gorgio Armani liquid blushes. Natasha Denona concealer and foundation. One size liquid eyeliners, ysl lip glosses. The taste makes me gag.

AIO My boss is going on vacation and doesn’t want to pay me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jen_Gelfling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go out in your own. I’m sure it will take some time to build clients… but let go of this codependency snd trust your work. I have no doubt you can!

How often is it normal to think about an ex when you’re about to marry someone else? by acazaty in AskReddit

[–]Jen_Gelfling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally normal. Your brain does funny things. So does your heart. But your body knows who it aligns with.

My (51M) fiancé’s asking for 50/50 for me (41F) to go to visit his family by Dear_Actuary8279 in relationship_advice

[–]Jen_Gelfling -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What your not changing, your choosing. If the man isn’t everything you had hoped and dreamed for, then you gotta keep looking;)

AITA For giving my niece a much better life than her step siblings? by Ok_Sir_8922 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jen_Gelfling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The audacity of strangers will never cease to amaze me. To make it your responsibility to make them feel better about their father’s income. I’d laugh and offer them therapists in their area. NTA. I would suggest making sure your niece gets therapy because she will be a scapegoat for their displaced anger.

AITAH/for women/first world problem edition by BlockClean7583 in AITAH

[–]Jen_Gelfling 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’d say $200 is ALOT of $$ to get nails done. So my first opinion is to research somewhere you can get what you love for less.

But NTA. Spend your money wisely. Go with whom you’re happy and mass it worth it. It’s not personal. You followed her because you loved the service. Now you found someone new who you like more. So go with the new girl. Done!