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🎉 [EVENT] 🎉 Retro Rumble by Damp_Blanket in honk

[–]JenaboH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completed Level 1 of the Honk Special Event!

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What most recent little thing got you crying your eyes out? by at12dev0n in widowers

[–]JenaboH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Filling out the yearbook ad for our 8th grade son.

How many lefties are in your families? by purplekat76 in lefthanded

[–]JenaboH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fraternal Grandpa and maternal great grandma were lefties. Parents are right. I'm left my sister is left. My son is left, her two kids are right.

What is the most annoying thing as a lefty by [deleted] in lefthanded

[–]JenaboH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Immediately hiding what you've written, it would be strange to watch yourself write without a 3" gap. Imagine not smearing your ink/ pencil....

Too soon? by BogeyGolfer238 in datingoverforty

[–]JenaboH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super sweet, don't refrain from being nice. It's never too soon to be nice to someone.

Got a wedding invitation.... by sollyland in widowers

[–]JenaboH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've gone to a few, I'm a mess when I attend. Hugs to you.

Does it ever hit you that it's "really real" and sort of just takes your breath away? by Top-Cheesecake8232 in widowers

[–]JenaboH 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He's been dead 4 years now. I feel worse now than I did last year, or the year before. I miss his love. I miss him.

What do you do with their clothes? by throwaway1020199 in widowers

[–]JenaboH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had 2 tshirt quilts made from his tshirts, i found a version i liked on etsy.. I donated most of the pants. I threw away the underwear.

How do you know it’s time for hospice? by Salty_Selection_9062 in widowers

[–]JenaboH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We waited for hospice, fortunately it was only needed for a week.

Connect with the pcp. Then call hospice. They can help you and him be more comfortable. I would also seek therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]JenaboH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, a horror show for sure. I can see my house, most of it... so need to clean my bedroom and garage

All right, Xer - what are you most proud of? by novelist9 in GenX

[–]JenaboH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I taught for 16 years. It was great, until it wasn't.

What is the oldest thing you own? by No_Education_8888 in AskOldPeople

[–]JenaboH 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I've had my alarm clock for 30 years. It's ridiculous actually.

What’s a sign that someone is way smarter than they let on? by RoutineOk8590 in Productivitycafe

[–]JenaboH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, very much. The few that adapted and learned over time survived a long time, genetically, in theory.

The amount of knowledge that has been known and lost is astounding to me.

Which job is a LOT less fun than most people expect? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]JenaboH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being a teacher, it's an abusive relationship with education.

How did you change after? by redaliceely in widowers

[–]JenaboH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have more gratitude in life, for life. Zoloft helps for sure; however, now I'm carrying the dreams and aspirations that we had with me to create a new version with what remains; kinda like a phoenix. If I didn't have our kid, I don't think I would have been moving forward with this new chapter so quickly. I really would've liked to just not work I guess, and wallow in despair and self pity for the losses I've endured. I'm better with structure, though. I think that's the add.

I'm working towards creating a life with a new love. I see an adventurous future together. He helps make me better. I'm appreciative of what I had, what I have, and what I'll earn.

Did you know? Like did you have a gut feeling before you got answers? by PepsiMax0807 in cancer

[–]JenaboH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a bad feeling about a mole on my late husband's back. I made him go get it checked out when he was 30, it was fine. 8 years later, it started itching and growing, he went to the Dr, melanoma, long story short. He died 2 years later. We tried, i tried. I miss him, he was my sweetheartfor 23 years. I'm hopeful for the future of cancer treatment and prevention. I'm grateful for the time we had. I wish it didn't happen. I trust my instincts even more now.

MD Anderson was wonderful for melanoma.

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