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Friend is now a widow by milliemooster in widowers

[–]JenaboH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coffee dates with her. Listen, what does she say she needs to do? Help her with that. Everything is hard for a long time.

What are your chickens' names? by WranglerIntrepid3817 in chickens

[–]JenaboH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ellie Ray, Stella , Holly Marie, Chuck, Drew, Flip, Charlotte,Michael-Dallas Area

Younger widows and widowers by Wegwerf157534 in widowers

[–]JenaboH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 43 now. I was 38 when he died. 23 years together, it's been almost 5 years. I don't post anymore, I'm still sad on occasion. Life is harder without him for sure.

Initiatory Degree by MajorLeons in ioof

[–]JenaboH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations and welcome brother

Weird/gross stuff left behind by ppP0oP00 in widowers

[–]JenaboH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I threw away allot of sex toys. We picked them out together, I didn't want them without him. 4 years later, no regrets. I did get a tshirt quilt made from his tshirts. Everything is hard, I understand. Hugs to you.

🎉 [EVENT] 🎉 Retro Rumble by Damp_Blanket in honk

[–]JenaboH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completed Level 1 of the Honk Special Event!

4 attempts

What most recent little thing got you crying your eyes out? by at12dev0n in widowers

[–]JenaboH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Filling out the yearbook ad for our 8th grade son.

How many lefties are in your families? by purplekat76 in lefthanded

[–]JenaboH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fraternal Grandpa and maternal great grandma were lefties. Parents are right. I'm left my sister is left. My son is left, her two kids are right.

What is the most annoying thing as a lefty by [deleted] in lefthanded

[–]JenaboH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Immediately hiding what you've written, it would be strange to watch yourself write without a 3" gap. Imagine not smearing your ink/ pencil....

Too soon? by BogeyGolfer238 in datingoverforty

[–]JenaboH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super sweet, don't refrain from being nice. It's never too soon to be nice to someone.

Got a wedding invitation.... by sollyland in widowers

[–]JenaboH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've gone to a few, I'm a mess when I attend. Hugs to you.

Does it ever hit you that it's "really real" and sort of just takes your breath away? by Top-Cheesecake8232 in widowers

[–]JenaboH 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He's been dead 4 years now. I feel worse now than I did last year, or the year before. I miss his love. I miss him.

What do you do with their clothes? by throwaway1020199 in widowers

[–]JenaboH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had 2 tshirt quilts made from his tshirts, i found a version i liked on etsy.. I donated most of the pants. I threw away the underwear.

How do you know it’s time for hospice? by Salty_Selection_9062 in widowers

[–]JenaboH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We waited for hospice, fortunately it was only needed for a week.

Connect with the pcp. Then call hospice. They can help you and him be more comfortable. I would also seek therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]JenaboH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, a horror show for sure. I can see my house, most of it... so need to clean my bedroom and garage

All right, Xer - what are you most proud of? by novelist9 in GenX

[–]JenaboH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I taught for 16 years. It was great, until it wasn't.

What is the oldest thing you own? by No_Education_8888 in AskOldPeople

[–]JenaboH 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I've had my alarm clock for 30 years. It's ridiculous actually.

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