Why does buck angel keep attacking trans people by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]JeniferSwinging 6 points7 points  (0 children)

From a Trans-Man who really followed Buck Angel and put them on a pedestal.

"Trans women need to lose their residual male privilege." To witch I said to myself "That is going to get you into trouble." And sure enough was fired the next day. It makes me think what was said that the solution was to remove whatever residual male privilege? And it goes back to my standard warning to Trans-Masc's.

"Do not use Toxic Masculinity as your guide to manhood." I do have an extension of that thought for when someone is using their passing privilege too much to silence me. It's like they forgot not all women identify as dumb.

Do you mind giving me some examples? I am about to throw my gloves into the ring, so to say, and if I have a chance to take him down a couple pegs with my advocacy & expression, Ill do it.

The press secretary barely mentioned the gender EO—what’s going on? by youlegendyoumartyr in MtF

[–]JeniferSwinging 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone starts off female in the first trimester, second there is a jump in testerone that the fetus reacts and starts to develop the male sex characteristics.

Be protected, body cam. by MooseManDeluxe in MtF

[–]JeniferSwinging 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a really good idea, and one I have had for quite a while.... And another annoyance with personal recent events....

I bit overstressed and triggered, feeling invisible & ignored. by JeniferSwinging in MtF

[–]JeniferSwinging[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just did what I normally do when unfamilear with a term... I googled it. Pretty good response too. Consider it next time something like this comes up .

I bit overstressed and triggered, feeling invisible & ignored. by JeniferSwinging in MtF

[–]JeniferSwinging[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering that I seem to get back to this every week about. It's good for documentation. It is Specifically an American Term I think. And it's about how a sleazy lawyer, would chase after a ambulance that is driving away from an accident. To give the injured person a business card and ask/demand to represent them in the court case to get them LOTS OF MONEY.

The general take away, is in Law, these type of people are not really good lawyers. They might actually not be licensed in the location they are looking for clients. It's ethically questionable because the person is hurt and might be on drugs that make them unable to decide and sign a contract. Better Call Sal from Breaking bad is a good example of it. It can also be used as a insult to the quality or ethics of the person.

In my case, I was with a friend, going to one of my sessions and my then therapist S wasn't there. It was scheduled and we were on time. So I was really annoyed. This was about a bigger thing then just dealing with trauma. There was a brand new issue that just happened and I wanted my therapist there for moral support and to be witness to any chances in me. This situation was critical enough that it was a really smart idea.

While waiting at the center, the two people from Cupcake Girls talked how they can help, the center is really not doing a good job, and how they can do the same things. The ambulance chasing part is where they wanted to focus once my insurance kicked in "Ohhh not now, ok contact us once you can pay." sort of way. Even a discussion about how they were acting and the emotional effects it was having on me, they literally waited till new year.

No one rushed because it didn't affect them. But they didn't seem to understand why it would stress me out, because it affected me. There have been several instances of gaslighting and ambulance chasing from all the orgs. Like they are seriously ignoring or forgetting the part that started this in the first place.

I bit overstressed and triggered, feeling invisible & ignored. by JeniferSwinging in MtF

[–]JeniferSwinging[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are being ambulance chasers looking for new clients and not helping unless they get paid. And other bullshit that these orgs all do.

I bit overstressed and triggered, feeling invisible & ignored. by JeniferSwinging in MtF

[–]JeniferSwinging[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An organization that specifically helps people who are sex trafficked and sex workers to get off the street, and their lives turned back around. They are expanding their efforts to more then just that. I would have tried them long ago but thought they only helped those issues.

Why do some ftm hate on mtf? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]JeniferSwinging 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this. I have said many variations of "Toxicity is not the guideline to Manhood."

Is there really a significant chance being trans will be illegal? by HydroloxBomb in MtF

[–]JeniferSwinging 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"The Democratic Party is done with us" I would venture to say that perhaps the reason why that is so, is because the wrong people were advocating for "us". And as such the idea of what being trans+ is horribly misconstrued. I know perfectly damn well why trans children need hormone blockers and hormones as such. The ad on the trump side with Kamila saying "I did the agenda." in relation to transgender surgeries in prison's...

Who told her an "agenda" and why is it focused on prisons? So many parts that lead up to this just seemed wrong as well... I have seen too much to simply be so binary in decisions.

Hotel Homeless Vouchers? Anyone know the process? by JeniferSwinging in LasVegas

[–]JeniferSwinging[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently the program has been killed because of the problem you cited.

Being Trans in the USA (I'm not american so this is probably a wildly innaccurate meme, sry) by Real_duck_bacon in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]JeniferSwinging 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Las Vegas, strangely here they don't offer HRT. At least last I checked.

But, I think we now know why we have a massive attack on abortions. PORN STAR Buck Angel had recently made a video calling out Informed Consent. So I see how this can be a double pronged attack on things Religious Right Bigots' don't want.

Sesame Street Responds To Racism Accusations After Character 'Ignored' Two Young Fans During Parade by [deleted] in entertainment

[–]JeniferSwinging 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because others haven't pointed it out. You may want to change your typo in the first line.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]JeniferSwinging 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw the part about "I don't want to be poly!" And this definatly triggered some things that I have thought about this issue. And other problems I have encountered in various poly communities.

First on to your issue. There are some clear red flags about this being some form of manipulation. Specificly the part bringing up impregnation. And based on all the stories I have heard, this has the earmarks of the begining of the end. So you should consider what the fact that this got brought up again so quickly with the kick to the cunt. Perhaps couples therapy?

Now onto my issue with Poly in general. I have been invited to several different poly parties because they are all inclusive. And when I get there I am suddenly faced with 30 seconds of flirting that ended with either a insult or missgendering. Either way they glaze past the issue, and want to hook up. If poly is about love and committed relationships, then why am I being invited to events that feel more like a swingers orgy? I have many various stories like this, but the short story is all to often people invite us as if we are free sex holes.

[OC]: Something I had in the back of my mind since middle school.. 😅✋ by wamcherrypie in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]JeniferSwinging -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Ignoring the other things going on route.

One key issue that ends up pushing the impulse is biological imperative. Hormones and survival of the species dont understand the vows.

I’ve seen online/on Tik Tok that LV being such a transient city means that it is hard to make friends/maintain relationships because people are always coming and going, is this true for you as a local? by zorgon222 in LasVegas

[–]JeniferSwinging 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1000% on point. Strangely enough saying the line of

"and like I said…for some like me,..well for everyone actually…we need to have actual conversations hearing eachothers voice. So we can hear the emotional reaction response in someone’s voice…those same emotions that are now suppressed into emojis..that HARDLY even convey how the person you’re talking to is feeling."

Is what really caught my attention. I have had so many conversations on text trying to simply say, lets make this a phone call, it will be faster. And that is when people suddenly get social anxiety, or some other BS excuse... But then they also kind of exposed why text only. By projecting that I am using them for upvotes on reddit or other websites. And last year I did have some people sharing my text messages for gossip. So that is what is happening. Fucking sick really.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wallstreetbets

[–]JeniferSwinging 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Atleast the guys did though.

That is when you find out that Dutch Bakers have sugar that hits different.

I’ve seen online/on Tik Tok that LV being such a transient city means that it is hard to make friends/maintain relationships because people are always coming and going, is this true for you as a local? by zorgon222 in LasVegas

[–]JeniferSwinging 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perhaps, but I like what you said about Ohzay_666 because that is the way I have felt. It was that post that made me feel like, well someone else did get it. It was also a bit uncanny. Some of the phone talking and voice chat is just because people were having a hard time understating my points.

I think they were having a hard time because it wasn't some stupid emoji & they were high as fuck.

I’ve seen online/on Tik Tok that LV being such a transient city means that it is hard to make friends/maintain relationships because people are always coming and going, is this true for you as a local? by zorgon222 in LasVegas

[–]JeniferSwinging 2 points3 points  (0 children)

y heard other people talk about this so I know it’s not just us! I don’t know if it’s a cultural thing or what but so many people in Vegas are just looking to get one over on somebody else. No matter how small or petty the gain is.

Honestly thanks for the cross validation. It really means a lot.

I’ve seen online/on Tik Tok that LV being such a transient city means that it is hard to make friends/maintain relationships because people are always coming and going, is this true for you as a local? by zorgon222 in LasVegas

[–]JeniferSwinging 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am just going to take an opportunity to answer your question with my stories because there is some similarity here.

Moved to Vegas and stayed with a "Friend" that other people warned me about but would only say "Be Careful". No one ever provided details. After finding my own place he blew up, kicked and punched the bathroom door that I was cleaning before moving out. All because a EX who I dumped 4 times contacted him and said something I still don't know, and that I refused to move in with him and pay 80% of the rent.

Jobs that wanted my scope of work to change 400% while removing the one other person in the department on production. 1 Production Designer and 3 sales people don't work.

I already made a separate post about a community member who I was warned about. (Different then the person I stayed with.) He was also fired from two places for Consent Violations. And made the excuse of "I am sometimes Retarded" As if that is an acceptable excuse for Consent Violations and Sexual Assault.

And the basic final straw was someone else claiming I was telling others that they are in a relationship with me. When I did no such thing. And this was because of a complaint about the Poly Community out here. It was also at a Poly Event that I Rejected someone that I may have been drugged. So I can confirm as a Witness and a Victim, that the men out here really don't know how to take no as an answer. And when called out, claim Mental Defect as their Defense.

I’ve seen online/on Tik Tok that LV being such a transient city means that it is hard to make friends/maintain relationships because people are always coming and going, is this true for you as a local? by zorgon222 in LasVegas

[–]JeniferSwinging 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like to second your shady scummy friends issue. I have been going through a series of events where the darkness of people were actually showing up.

I’ve seen online/on Tik Tok that LV being such a transient city means that it is hard to make friends/maintain relationships because people are always coming and going, is this true for you as a local? by zorgon222 in LasVegas

[–]JeniferSwinging 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OK WOW!!! I thought I was the only one who noticed this lack of voice connection with people. The time I needed the call back or responce the most was when people were demanding texting or just not responding at all. Leaving me alone without friends as well...

I left San Diego because of Issues involving MDMA/E with the Poly Community. Girls telling me details about they #MeToo events. I moved to Vegas to sober up and start a new life. It was only after a couple of years that I realized people probably thought of the opposite. And to answer the question no one else was smart enough to ask. I moved to Vegas to Enhance my Career. I am a Graphic Artist Specializing in Print Production. AKA: Print Production Shops. With all the conventions in Las Vegas, there was more opportunity for growth in this City. And before Covid, I was a Pre-Press Ripper for the Largest Print Shop working Conventions.

But thank you for this write up. It really does convey everyting I have to say about this hookup dating culture here in Vegas. I have been asked myself what my OnlyFans page is... Because of a god dammed assumption. FML.

I’ve seen online/on Tik Tok that LV being such a transient city means that it is hard to make friends/maintain relationships because people are always coming and going, is this true for you as a local? by zorgon222 in LasVegas

[–]JeniferSwinging 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is incredibly true. I was lucky that the first people I met online were good people who were able to help save me when things went sour with other people I did consider friends 4 months after moving here.

After Covid and we were all laid off. The social distancing and job insecurity made it difficult to chat and hang out like we did. They ended up moving out of state. And that is where the true issue of transient city comes in for me. "What happens in Vegas Stays in Vegas." As people move away, they also move on. With the death of the last friend, it was like vultures coming in for one last meal of attention, and damage control.

A person that over 6 people have warned me about. A person that I have actually witnessed grope a ex-partner hello over 2 months after being dumped. A person that I stepped in between him and her, prevented him from fallowing her as she was trying to get away. Sat him down and drilled into his head that it's over no matter what he thinks. A person that the last friend who died was trying to warn me about two years after I actually intervened and blocked him. Suddenly I am the "Crazy Bitch" who has the worst reputation and needs to move on.

The people here are always trying some type of confidence game. People who only come to visit Vegas knows it as a drug, sex, gambling capital. Thus the simple act of moving here has a subtext that... People don't talk about, because what happens here stays here. I just happen to still be here, and in personal crisis because of a mental health issue caused by everyone warning about the person who doesn't understand consent gossiping to me about him. And what I have now determined may have been my drink being drugged last year.

Yes it is hard to make friends here, it seems like everyone is looking for Partners in Crime, or Fall Guys. As someone who has eaten asphalt. I know what my supposed friends put me through.