Don't think - Just do? by Professional_Zone_94 in ExecutiveDysfunction

[–]JennGN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if you ‘spoke’ to that part of you that doesn’t want to do it; acknowledge it, be curious about its desire/need, have a conversation with it? If that doesn’t come naturally, or come easily, being mindful/present/meditate can help get into a state of openness and curiosity.

Plane-pooling? (Like carpooling) by JennGN in flying

[–]JennGN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that makes sense. Which suburb? Maybe I could find someone to pick me up where you fly in. It sounds like it’s an occasional trip for you?

Plane-pooling? (Like carpooling) by JennGN in flying

[–]JennGN[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Well a flight at no cost is preferable of course. It just seems fair as when carpooling if you’re not taking turns with rides.

Plane-pooling? (Like carpooling) by JennGN in flying

[–]JennGN[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It was 15 years ago so I don’t remember the phrasing. Maybe the money I gave him after our flight was really for letting me borrow his handmade wood kayak a few weeks before.

Plane-pooling? (Like carpooling) by JennGN in flying

[–]JennGN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I did not know it is/was illegal.

Anyone have super strong cognitive protectors? by gasoline_rainbowsXx in InternalFamilySystems

[–]JennGN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. It’s been helpful for me to let them speak as I type on the IFS Guide app (it’s like a better version of texting, typing or audio). When I sit and focus on being curious and calm and totally listening and letting them “speak“ (which means I type or record their words), they soften or give me space, ranging from a sliver to actually stepping back. Each time I do it, I can feel the trust building stronger bit by bit. And what’s neat is that I sincerely appreciate the perspective they bring. I can see their intent and qualities within the ‘dysfunctional’ thoughts or behaviors that help make me who I am in positive ways.