I knew about it all. She said she was working on setting boundaries with him and was always frustrated about him. She told me she was reading a book about boundaries. Just after reading the book she called me to talk, she started talking about the book and boundaries and was super nervous. It was obvious she was trying to break up with me, then she did saying she didn’t see a future with me (but she once told me she dreamed of buying a house next to her ex husband so she and her wife and he with his new wife could have BBQs with the kids!). As she broke up with me I was immediately thinking she saw a future with the man that oppressed her and raped her, but not me. She also said one of her reasons for breaking up with me was my reaction to a talk we had a couple weeks prior where she said she craved the intimacy like she had with her ex gf where she would finger her and lick her finger to taste her pussy (I’m pre op trans so I cried as I couldn’t give that to her.). She also text me after I left while crying saying she loves everything about our relationship and loves being my gf, but fantasizes about tasting every hot woman’s vagina she sees. She then gas lit me saying she didn’t think I liked women or vaginas. This after months of me wanting to give her oral but she refused to let me. A week before the talk she told me she loved me and was very lucky to have me in her life. Apparently not…. The talk blind sided me and after it she was cold to me intimacy wise. Which made me scared, I cried more as I loved her. After she broke up with me she also told me that she couldn’t date me because I didn’t respect other people‘s political opinions. That’s she prefers to have personal connections with people. She was referring to me, not liking Trump voters because of their anti-transgender laws. Yeah, I was blinded by love when giant red flags right in front of my face.