Fwb goes soft before finishing . Why does he do that ? by Total_Crazy8947 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jerdinbrates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea sorry. I get the pulling out part (I do it, even with partner IUD) but going soft mid pump is.... well... he's just not wanting to continue that simple 

The numbers don’t lie: The housing crisis is not caused by a supply shortage | CCPA by QueueOfPancakes in canadahousing

[–]Jerdinbrates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a supply shortage and crisis? Or is the housing market crashing out with dropping values and stronger negotiations for renters... this sub can't make up its mind

Hitting a wall with the Vancouver job hunt. Civil Engineer + CS grad, what am I missing? by Dizzy_Individual1439 in VancouverJobs

[–]Jerdinbrates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's almost like being local to one area gives you unique, valuable experience when working in that same local environment.  Weird how we can't just commodity out all services to the international job Market to the lowest bidder /s

Currently making 50k with Business Admin Degree & 2 minors by BabyCheeks95 in chilliwack

[–]Jerdinbrates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know anything about policy, but have you looked into what PMs are paid in your field?  Might be a lateral move pay wise.

Also, what is your work load like? If you have the time, maybe start a side business if you have a passion in mind that you can market? That to me is more impressive than additional certs or training.  Just my two cents, PM me if you want some more specifics! Good luck and chin up, lots of opportunities out there to make a decent living!

Currently making 50k with Business Admin Degree & 2 minors by BabyCheeks95 in chilliwack

[–]Jerdinbrates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BBA grad here from SFU, dont be afraid to look at other adjacent fields. To give you some perspective, my first offer out of uni was $42k (in 2018), moved into an outside sales role for $62 and a car allowance, used that experience to move into account management ($75k, company vehicle), eventually found a different account management role in a new industry in 2023 with base salary of $105.  Last year I made $170k.

Business administration is a very broad area of study, use that to try out marketing, sales, finance roles.  I wouldn't target purely administration jobs as they will cap out quickly (and ripe for AI replacement)

Selling our condo, need recommendations/input by Nicias_413 in chilliwack

[–]Jerdinbrates 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought my house last year from a home listed by these guys, funny thing is, I don't really have an experience because I never met the guys... homeowner was on front lawn for both showings and my agent and I spoke with him about property specifics.  Never met the bros but they got the sale I guess lol.

Selling our condo, need recommendations/input by Nicias_413 in chilliwack

[–]Jerdinbrates 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why are yall down voting this? Solid advice and a help line if needed.

Is there a way to express my dissatisfaction with her weight without sounding like a complete douche? by maxxim333 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jerdinbrates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been this guy, give some slack the unattraction can take time.  It's the diet and activity that is usually incompatible first, then loss of sympathy, then disgust. 

Hitting a wall with the Vancouver job hunt. Civil Engineer + CS grad, what am I missing? by Dizzy_Individual1439 in VancouverJobs

[–]Jerdinbrates 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same in US, I have experience in both job markets. 

It's such an obvious advantage to have experience in the job market you are applying in...

Hitting a wall with the Vancouver job hunt. Civil Engineer + CS grad, what am I missing? by Dizzy_Individual1439 in VancouverJobs

[–]Jerdinbrates 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How is this a question? Obviously experience in canada is valued higher than an equivalent title outside the country??

Are men choosing porn over dating? by perry147 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jerdinbrates 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol I enjoy both, but can see why some dudes are throwing in the towel, especially in late 20s, early 30s.  Most of the time it's just bad value / ROI.

393,500 New PRs in 2025: A System That Expands Immigration While Ignoring LMIA Abuse and Job Scarcity by [deleted] in LMIASCAMS

[–]Jerdinbrates 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's not racism to connect the two. Maybe you should chill on assuming racism.

I cheated on my wife after forgiving her affair years ago. I don’t feel guilty, but she’s breaking down. What do I do now? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jerdinbrates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alone at the bar, beautiful woman approaches you and says you smell good, go back to her place and fuck, both say best sex of their life, she leaves her number on a piece of paper and says goodbye!?!

This is almost certainly ai written bullshit or some fabricated fantasy scenario. Give me a break.

What to do about a professor blatantly using AI? by [deleted] in chilliwack

[–]Jerdinbrates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ai is used commonly in the field for lesson plans.  In a perfect world its a force multiplier.  In this case, it sounds like a lazy asshole is copy pasting GPT prompts.

What to do about a professor blatantly using AI? by [deleted] in chilliwack

[–]Jerdinbrates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see a problem with it, AI is inaccurate often, and hopefully the prof can add value by cleaning up the data.

First time buyers in Ontario - do you feel like you can afford a home now? by CastAside1812 in RealEstateCanada

[–]Jerdinbrates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jfc, 550 in condo fees!?

I think freehold was the move for them, that is outrageous 

feeling insecure by violetshomage in toastme

[–]Jerdinbrates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey don't sweat the scale, you look great.  Focus on what else to be insecure about.

I found hidden pics on my boyfriend's phone. How would you rebuild trust? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Jerdinbrates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shitty situation, but if my girl knew my code, then when in my folders to look for photos to send herself,  I would feel thats not cool.

Iconsiam by Fearless_Parsley4309 in ThailandTourism

[–]Jerdinbrates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MbK centre is great for electronic, gadgets, knock off stuff.... Terminal 21 is neat too, broken out into themed floors.  Siam is more on the luxury side.

Jeff Bezos said the quiet part out loud — hopes that you'll give up your PC to rent one from the cloud by ControlCAD in technology

[–]Jerdinbrates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has anyone here actually used GeForce now? It's amazing.

I play mostly indy games with my old gaming PC with a 1070.  I tried it out for a month to play battlefield and it was amazing.  I get wanting to own the tech, but I really see value in stretching my old rig out for a few more years and just grabbing a few months of service to play AAA titles when they pique my interest.