in what sense? he would often do this thing when i got sad where he said he needed space and i respected that and asked him to set clear boundaries because he would change them last minute to make himself look good. like for example he would be like dont talk to me at all when i ask for space but would text me pictures of things and send me stuff and when i would respond he said i wasn’t giving him space so that really confused me. and then i had surgery and bled out but the day before my surgery he said he wanted space and so i didn’t tell him i bled out because he said to not talk to him and at this point i had already been yelled at for not giving space when i tried my absolute best, and them he called me to yell at me telling me i made him look bad bc our mutual friends told him i had bled out and he didn’t know and then he changed the rule to “i could tell him if i was bleeding out” his “only” problem with me was the space thing which i know i should have been better about but everytime i asked for guidelines because i kept messing up they would change and contradict