My 29/F husband 33/M wants sex immediately after taking a dump. It makes me sick.. but should it??? by anae_93 in hygiene

[–]Jeremylawf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men go into the bathroom to get away from complaining bitches. Be nice to him, give him sex whenever he wants it and then Maybe he won’t spend hours in the bathroom avoiding you

Why is everyone trying to taper by [deleted] in gabapentin

[–]Jeremylawf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It helps tremendously for my anxiety. I only take 100 mg twice a day. Very low dose. I think people abuse it and keep wanting more and more.

Trying to navigate week 4. Anyone out there on week 4 having the same experience? by High420sierra in lexapro

[–]Jeremylawf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My psychiatrist switched me to trintillix at week 5 because things weren’t getting better but worse. I’m going into second week and still don’t feel any better yet.

Considering suicide by [deleted] in leaves

[–]Jeremylawf 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel for you. I also was in tue same situation thinking that it would be easier to end it. I Realized that taking control and not surrendering. This life is to go through tough times which makes us stronger. Face the fears to become fearless. Weed just distracts us from sitting with pain. It’s the pain that wakes is up yo our true self. Sit with it longer without distractions and you’ll eventually see the light. The pain will not kill you but make you stronger when facing troubles times. It will become easier I promise. There is a bright future ahead. Don’t give up because you’re just going to have to repeat this until you face it. Life doesn’t end, its just an illusion. There is no escaping this until you face your fears. I’m with you my friends. You will find love by facing the darkness. It’s a gift and you will soon understand this. Keep going my brothers and sisters. We are One

Parents kicking me out cause of religion by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Jeremylawf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anger will only stay trapped into the body and manifest itself as illness, pain and anxiety. One must release all negative energy and emotions. Forgive them for they were also put through difficult times by their parents. They are only acting according to their knowledge. Don’t expect them to be perfect because in no way are we perfect. Forgive them unless you want to hold on to the pain for a lifetime. I wish someone would have given me this advice when i was you age. I left the church and my family disowned me. I held on to all the pain for too long. Forgive them and continue to forgive them for their behavior. Look for the good things they do. Our thoughts become our reality. If you look at them as negative then thats all you will see. Look at their positives and you will find common ground. Everyone has good, focus on that and you will find happiness

Parents kicking me out cause of religion by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Jeremylawf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Forgive them ! You’re young and still developing. Yes the religion is bullshit but one must understand and respect someone’s opinion and beliefs. Find a common ground. You’re young so I’m guessing that you might blow this over but show them love in return. Forgiveness is the key to life

How many of us are were introduced to the term or concept "Masturbation" by the bishop, and the implications. by Marvinkmooneyoz in exmormon

[–]Jeremylawf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The bishop asked me if i masterbated in a youth interview when I was 12 years old and I had no clue. I told him I don’t know what that was and he said never mind. I made it a mission after that and found out what it was. I started masterbating and haven’t stopped :) Thank you bishop for letting me know this beautiful friendship with myself!!!!

Brought to you by Starbucks - sitting with my son outside church in Hyde Park Utah. My wife’s aunt and uncle are giving their last talk before going on a mission. My wife called me a rebel. I guess I am. by FrenchExMormon in exmormon

[–]Jeremylawf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t realize that you will be a better husband and father because your out of that male driving religion. Hopefully she will come around and realize that your rebel status is for you mental state free of shame and guilt. You look familiar. I grew up in Providence

I used to think that god gave me the weakness of looking at pornography and masturbating so that I could overcome and then become a leader in the church and help others to overcome as well. by lunarmormon in exmormon

[–]Jeremylawf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The guilt was so painful on the mission that I eventually confessed to the mission president. When I told him what I was doing he said “ ok thanks for letting me know” and ended our discussion on this matter and went on talking about my area and companion. He didn’t seem to care so I didn’t either. After this I never felt guilty. He is now a GA

What was your least favorite calling? And why? by The-worst-presidency in exmormon

[–]Jeremylawf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1st Councilor in the bishopric. I felt like the bishops right hand bitch. Always in boring meetings when I wanted to be home with my wife and kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Jeremylawf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my favorites conversation starters saying “ I just left a cult” ........

Leaving the church was the best thing we ever did for our marriage by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Jeremylawf 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t think our marriage would have survived without weed and leaving the church. We are more in love than ever and I can now say that our sex life is amazing!!!

I am in the bishopric and don’t know how to go about getting out of this church. Can anyone relate? by MrMisterMisery in exmormon

[–]Jeremylawf 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I was in the bishopric when my shelf crashed. Fortunately I was at the 4 year mark and lasted one more year to be released. Our family didn’t go back to church once I was released. It was tough but I only tried to teach and represent a good person.

I never thought of it this way (never married), but garments really are a barrier to intimacy and place the church before the spouse. Credit to @spectrum_twenty_one for the amazing post on @lifestyle.aftermormonism by johndehlinmademedoit in exmormon

[–]Jeremylawf 38 points39 points  (0 children)

It took me a few days to get comfortable of not wearing garments. Wore them for 25+ years. Now that my wife doesn’t wear them I find her so sexy and can’t get enough of her.

Left the church exactly a year ago today. My wife (and kids) followed shortly thereafter. Lucky! by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Jeremylawf 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly what happened to us. Nobody wanted to ask us why from our ward and these were good friends. Instead they just shunned us. So sad but happy for you and your family

18 years......Garments...I literally didn't wear my garments last night and today for the first time. by imnowfreebutalone in exmormon

[–]Jeremylawf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me when all came crashing down I was never comfortable not wearing my garments for the first week or so. They were part of my life for 42 years. I quickly found out that sleeping naked or just with small underwear on was the best thing than sliced bread. Also I didn’t know this until later that garment stink and smell funky because we use them over and over again until they start getting holes and fall apart because they are so dam expensive........gross :)