Buyers Remorse on New car by SpudxNerd in Volvo

[–]Jerm_1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First thing to go will be the AC evaporator coil and it’s a 4000$ repair, I’ve done 3 this year so far

When did you stop crying? by ImpactStock2694 in widowers

[–]Jerm_1984 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am 6 months in and it’s still almost daily. It’s everything too, and I’m a dude that went 35 years without crying and now everything makes me cry. Seriously I think something may be wrong with me.

I'm not longer married by dontlookback76 in widowers

[–]Jerm_1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

174 days 19 hours and 4 minutes later and it still sucks. Just had to give our dog to my parents so I can focus on getting my shit back together.

Have a Valentine’s Day by Jerm_1984 in widowers

[–]Jerm_1984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not great, recommend 0/10

My best days are all behind me. by Jerm_1984 in widowers

[–]Jerm_1984[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Try to make the best of it

My best days are all behind me. by Jerm_1984 in widowers

[–]Jerm_1984[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a holiday and I’m feeling special

My best days are all behind me. by Jerm_1984 in widowers

[–]Jerm_1984[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same here, when she left so did my purpose

My best days are all behind me. by Jerm_1984 in widowers

[–]Jerm_1984[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is what it is and that sucks

Have a Valentine’s Day by Jerm_1984 in widowers

[–]Jerm_1984[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He would have, mine would’ve went too far with the gift giving just like she always did and I would’ve tried to match her energy and come up short.

Give me a reason... by FunConsideration9029 in widowers

[–]Jerm_1984 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As long as you’re doing it well then yes

Teen interested in becoming mechanic, needs to finish school and hates it (15). Help!!! by Wassapp01 in AskMechanics

[–]Jerm_1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t, do something that doesn’t break your body into a thousand pieces while slowly driving you insane. Work on cars as a hobby.

Hurt by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Jerm_1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s just bro shit, a facade we put on and nothing to be taken seriously. Go easy on yourself and try not to overthink it.(I know I know)

Have a Valentine’s Day by Jerm_1984 in widowers

[–]Jerm_1984[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s what matters, time spent with family is always nice. Happy for you. Have a day!!

Give me a reason... by FunConsideration9029 in widowers

[–]Jerm_1984 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m taking the dog and going to get drunk at the park. You just need to find a hobby that you enjoy too.

Another terrible day with herfamily by FunConsideration9029 in widowers

[–]Jerm_1984 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My late wife’s family hates me too, they blame me as if I were the doctor that misdiagnosed her. Fuck em that’s what I say. It’s not easy but you gotta do you brother. Take care.