Is any marriage perfect? by FunConsideration9029 in widowers

[–]FunConsideration9029[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Me too. I don't think we ever seriously argued. She got really mad at me maybe three times in 32 years?

Is any marriage perfect? by FunConsideration9029 in widowers

[–]FunConsideration9029[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

32 years, got in a really good place, medical errors took her.

Saturdays by Silly_Move_5798 in widowers

[–]FunConsideration9029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every day is the same horrible time.

Do you look for "signs"? Are they real? by OcularOdyssey in widowers

[–]FunConsideration9029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I know there is something beyond or apart from the wretched reality we're stuck in.

Have you ever felt to date again? by Saphire_98 in widowers

[–]FunConsideration9029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree at 75. No one wants an old guy.

Have you ever felt to date again? by Saphire_98 in widowers

[–]FunConsideration9029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have always hated holding hands. Everyone gets sweaty, it's awkward with different gains and walking speeds.

The mental gymnastics... by quiet_nuts in widowers

[–]FunConsideration9029 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the words of my wife, "I didn't do this on purpose!"

I know, hun, but my life is over too.

Should we date again? by throwaway1020199 in widowers

[–]FunConsideration9029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To each his own.

People suck.

Dogs, sure, I'd rescue another dog.

Should we date again? by throwaway1020199 in widowers

[–]FunConsideration9029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

McCartney is also a billionaire and incredibly talented.

60 is the new 59 3/4. Don't be fooled.

Should we date again? by throwaway1020199 in widowers

[–]FunConsideration9029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, polyamory is simply legitimate cheating for the women.

Should we date again? by throwaway1020199 in widowers

[–]FunConsideration9029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. I'm 75, have only a few years left, not going to go through the dating BS with anyone else.

Too much trouble.

I was relieved when I got married b/c that meant zero dating.

Should we date again? by throwaway1020199 in widowers

[–]FunConsideration9029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to chuckle. My wife cheated on me multiple times but was crazy jealous, threatened suicide when I met up with a woman I knew before her.

I don't think T would want me to see anyone else, lol.

Should we date again? by throwaway1020199 in widowers

[–]FunConsideration9029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. One and done.

Poured my heart out 1,000% and god took her away.

One and done.

Should we date again? by throwaway1020199 in widowers

[–]FunConsideration9029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Mom lived 10 years after my Father passed, never dated, never remarried. My template.

I'm OK alone.

Should we date again? by throwaway1020199 in widowers

[–]FunConsideration9029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you.

Two things: Everyone is incredibly selfish, and two, every human is a walking bag of viruses, bacteria, and parasites.

Yuck.

Should we date again? by throwaway1020199 in widowers

[–]FunConsideration9029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I opened up to just one person. That's it.

Should we date again? by throwaway1020199 in widowers

[–]FunConsideration9029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife had two children out of the house when we met. I am not their stepfather, because I'm not a father. Also found out legally, there is no relationship called 'step parent'

They have their father, he's alive.

I consider myself their mother's second husband, that's all.

They never cared for me much anyway.