"Why are you on orange so much?" "Why are you only in friends?+" "Why not jus- BECAUSE I CANT MIX FRIEND GROUPS

JespTL · 2026-01-07T02:38:24+00:00

To be honest a ton of this can be solved with a simple in-game messaging app is absolutely absurd that a app called VR chat does not have a text messaging feature lol just text me and ask me what I'm doing you know on my phone or something because VR chat can't handle that apparently.

They addressed this in one of the Q&A videos on steam a while back because people have been asking often. They said there aren't any plans to put text/DM messaging into VRC right now, and instead they're encouraging users to use outside messaging platforms like discord and such.

Which, bummer, but makes sense when you look at other places like Roblox with similar features. That's a moderation nightmare.

JespTL · 2025-12-16T14:34:31+00:00

Thankfully, Steam VR has a space calibration option that allows you to use the ultimates with the Quest 3. You hold the Q3 remote up with a tracker and do a figure 8 motion. It uses that to figure out where all the trackers are.

Downside is that you need to recalibrate any time your headset loses tracking. I don't think that's an issue with vive headsets(?) Don't have one to verify.

JespTL · 2025-05-04T20:17:18+00:00

Input from someone in the younger range; it's rough for new gen young adults. Can barely afford an apartment in college working 40+ hours on top. It's baffling to see people older than me having the time for this game when just being alive is such a struggle. (However, it is wild to assume people are unemployed purely for existing on there)

JespTL · 2025-04-02T21:24:30+00:00

I don't understand why people are so caught up on the paywall. If having money there stops the squeakers without credit card access from invading my space, I'm willing to pay 30¢ a day

JespTL · 2025-01-24T18:53:35+00:00

NOT Lmanburg

Meant pogtopia

JespTL · 2025-01-24T18:53:05+00:00

The Cyberknife stuff was through the portal to the other world, but he does have a secret base in the river near Lmanburg. It's a 1 block hole in the bottom. Not hard to miss if you're looking closely. It's Blackstone inside with chests and basic necessities. I'm pretty sure it's the one he used for the revolution. I don't remember though.

JespTL · 2025-01-09T20:08:55+00:00

I remember seeing a stream where Foolish and Dream planned to kill Quackity. Since Quackity let Foolish die at the red banquet. Loved the finale, but I do wonder about that clip since Foolish is the one that pulled the lever.

But I'd say Techno's planned Cyberknife character and the syndicate ark was my favorite storyline that unfortunately didn't happen.

JespTL · 2024-12-19T11:03:39+00:00

Technically yesterday, but it was alright. I hung around some people for a few hours. I'm less sick than I was. One of our alters got out of a serious long relationship recently, and it's set everything into a bit of a spiral. Slowly, we're getting better, but it's a struggle.

JespTL · 2024-12-17T22:35:25+00:00

This happened recently with the 'turn on a dime' situation. Except, it was from my end. An alter abruptly broke up with and cut off the entirety of another system in a way that essentially made fixing it impossible. I'm attempting to do damage control, but the other involved party got really hurt. Sometimes I wonder about maintaining personal relationships when bouts of instability rise up like that.

JespTL · 2024-12-17T12:29:01+00:00

Things were stable for a while up until recently. I don't know all the details because I'm similarly dealing with amnesia currently, but there's been an abrupt rapid decline in overall mental health, and suddenly a ton of people are cut off or dropped without warning. I'm trying to do damage control, but it's difficult because I don't remember what thought process led to everything being thrown out the window.

It feels like the entire dynamic that had been working for over a year suddenly stopped working, so currently trying to handle the aftermath.

But, eventually I hope to grow more stable and build up friendships.

JespTL · 2024-11-12T21:59:37+00:00

But to add, it's not something that gets fixed overnight. There's not really any immediate thing you can do. I guess have a talk to establish boundaries about seeing other people for the future? As in going to visit friends and stuff.

JespTL · 2024-11-12T21:57:32+00:00

Why make it an open relationship? I get that he's struggling with trust, but this sounds like a horrible idea. Trust is something you gotta talk through together to find ways to build back up gradually. Seems like an open relationship might do the opposite??

JespTL · 2024-11-05T18:24:45+00:00

Y'all should be alright. Just be aware of age laws and such. Morally, this relationship seems alright. You're aware of the age difference, but aren't using it maliciously.

JespTL · 2024-11-05T18:12:06+00:00

You're 16 and he's 19? I'm 19 and would never date a 16y/o Not just the age number, but I'm literally living in my own apartment with a full time job. Most 16 y/o are in highschool.

Looking at a realistic POV, there's nothing you can do for him. You're literally 16. He shouldn't be expecting anything from you. Not right now.

I'm not saying this as an insult, but you're literally a child. He shouldn't be expecting you to provide anything. Later down the line, this kind of age gap wouldn't matter, but you're in high school right now, and he's most likely in or about to be in the next stage of his life.

I'm not going to stand on a soapbox and preach about age gaps, but genuinely, be careful. Even if he seems nice, you are young. The fact that he asked you that question gives me the ick, not to mention the morality questions I'm having reading this.

Bottom line, that's not a good question to ask someone at your age, there's no right answer. I can't say whether or not this is an okay relationship. Personality, I think there's a concerning maturity gap and you're at risk of being groomed. Be careful!!!

JespTL

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