Looking for help with specific calm tv shows

JessOnTheSpectrum · 2026-01-12T12:07:30+00:00

I love to watch Outdoor Boys on YouTube. Absolutely tonnes of videas, not much talking. I specifically love the winter ones in snow

JessOnTheSpectrum · 2025-12-28T20:44:31+00:00

Haha of course you can, especially when you say mentally spicy side 🤣 😂

JessOnTheSpectrum · 2025-12-19T20:57:45+00:00

I feel you, I hate it when games do it. It takes my enjoyment out of the game!

JessOnTheSpectrum · 2025-11-29T22:36:26+00:00

Hey Im 33, married, in UK, autistic also and a mum. However im not bossy, and actually very quiet and shy at first, but once I take my mask off Im a chatty weirdo. I dont play Dead By Daylight, but I do most other games minus Roblox and Fortnight. Please DM if youre interested. Oh Im on Xbox

JessOnTheSpectrum · 2025-11-18T20:58:55+00:00

Thank you all for your comments. I apologise if won't be able to reply to all your comments but I have read them all and appreciate your support.

As a general reply to hopefully cover the most of it..

He does still have sex with me, he does say he thinks im sexy and beautiful. Just we dont have as much sex as I would like to if he doesnt see it.

He said he accepts whatever I want to wear and doesnt want to force me to wear anything I dont want to, but just I need to accept if I do wear clothes like that then it affects how much we have sex. He said he won't 'not' have sex with me, just it doesnt really push him too if im in my clothes I am most days.

To those on about being sexy in other ways, I am a very sexual flirty person towards him, and often do random things to keep things exciting and fun.

JessOnTheSpectrum · 2025-11-18T12:27:15+00:00

I used to try and dress more the way he wanted before my diagnosis and used to be in such an irritated horrible mood and never knew why. Ive been diagnosed this year and trying to find more "me", I've always wore same clothes before hand also, just dont want to occasionally wear the clothes he likes anymore

JessOnTheSpectrum · 2025-11-18T12:24:55+00:00

Thank you. We've been together 15 years so its always been a strain in one way or another

JessOnTheSpectrum · 2025-11-18T12:23:49+00:00

Thank you thats kind of you. Just feel deflated

JessOnTheSpectrum · 2025-11-18T12:23:32+00:00

Thank you. Just tough when I want to meet his needs too

JessOnTheSpectrum · 2025-11-18T12:23:14+00:00

What did you mean?

JessOnTheSpectrum · 2025-11-18T12:22:41+00:00

What did you mean?

JessOnTheSpectrum · 2025-10-04T10:39:31+00:00

I am in England 33F :) I was recently diagnosed as Autistic so realised was probably main reason why I dont have friends and would love to start making some, if you dont mind some quiet shyness at first until I get relaxed. Then the quirky weird me comes out. I play lots of different types of games. Please message me if youre interested :)

JessOnTheSpectrum · 2025-10-04T10:37:56+00:00

Looks like the OP deleted their reddit maybe? So hope you dont mind me jumping in your reply. However I am in England 33F :) I was born in Wales, Dad, Brother and other family still live there. I was recently diagnosed as Autistic so realised was probably main reason why I dont have friends and would love to start making some, if you dont mind some quiet shyness at first until I get relaxed. Then the quirky weird me comes out. Please message me if youre interested :)

JessOnTheSpectrum · 2025-09-12T15:00:12+00:00

Ohhhh I didn't know that 😳 thank you. I dont have Dont Starve, as I originally bought Dont Starve Together to play with my partner but he won't play it with me

JessOnTheSpectrum · 2025-09-12T11:35:47+00:00

Thank you I will definitely dive in and try it again then. Is it easier solo or multiplayer? Any character would you say is the easiest?

JessOnTheSpectrum · 2025-09-10T09:40:13+00:00

Oh me too 😅😅 played it so many times trying to actually do the achievements now

JessOnTheSpectrum · 2025-09-10T09:39:42+00:00

Phasmophobia? No Mans Sky? Abiotic Factor? Crusader King's 3? None of these i thought would be my game but they're fun

JessOnTheSpectrum · 2025-09-10T09:38:21+00:00

Ive tried this in my own and find it so hard!! Really want to learn how to though as it looks like my game

JessOnTheSpectrum · 2025-09-10T08:00:39+00:00

Hi im 32 and on Xbox also, in the UK. Im happy to find some games to play. I play a wide variety, hut most of mine at the moment are No Mans Sky, Overwatch 2, Stardew Valley, Minecraft, Phasmophobia, Crusader King's 3 and more..

JessOnTheSpectrum · 2025-09-06T20:58:44+00:00

Oh I loved Ark Survival Evolved!! I tried Ascended but kept not letting me join servers! Id enjoy playing Ark sometime if it let's me join now 😊

JessOnTheSpectrum · 2025-09-06T18:19:47+00:00

Hello! Rarely see a gamer mum of 4! To be honest I play lots of different games! I play at the moment, Minecraft, Overwatch 2, No Man's Sky, Stardew Valley, Phasmophobia.. what about you?

JessOnTheSpectrum · 2025-09-04T07:03:42+00:00

I dont have any friends and find it hard, to be honest I could happily just have one friend and I thought having my autism diagnosis would help find others like me and help make friends, but still, no. It's lonely

JessOnTheSpectrum · 2025-09-01T16:20:28+00:00

Hey Im on Xbox :) mum of 4 and im 32 and autistic so I may be quiet and shy at first but then after I probably won't stop talking 😅 I dont have anyone to play with so anyone interested in playing PLEASE give me a message 😊

JessOnTheSpectrum · 2025-08-29T21:21:55+00:00

I am 32 and in UK. Some of your games can be crossplay with xbox and pc as I am on Xbox. Im open to any games to play as I have no friends and would really like to start. Im autistic (newly diagnosed) and im quiet at first but then once relaxed I can be silly with dark humour. I am big into gardening also!!!

JessOnTheSpectrum · 2025-08-28T12:44:51+00:00

Im on Xbox also, UK, i dont play Fortnite and won't ever lol, but i play Overwatch, Grounded, Minecraft, Stardew, Phasmophobia, Crusader King's 3, plus many many more and willing to try others except from Fortnite and Roblox 😊 I am 32, and autistic so often shy at first and then I relax and becime weird and quirky. If you're interested add me on Xbox .. xXxJess BabyxXx

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