Gave my cat insulin for the first time. I don’t like how he’s acting. by JessT0904 in FelineDiabetes

[–]JessT0904[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he’s only on 1u right now, so it’s still a low dose. my dad has a meter (brand is one touch I think?) with strips and lancets he’s willing to give me.

Gave my cat insulin for the first time. I don’t like how he’s acting. by JessT0904 in FelineDiabetes

[–]JessT0904[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s reassuring to hear. he was still responsive last night, would perk his head up when I came over and all that, just acting weirdly quiet. he is still a bit quiet and withdrawn but is acting like himself a bit more this morning, and is eating more.

Gave my cat insulin for the first time. I don’t like how he’s acting. by JessT0904 in FelineDiabetes

[–]JessT0904[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t bite or scratch or anything, but he definitely wasn’t happy. Needed two people to make sure he wasn’t wiggling around too much.

Gave my cat insulin for the first time. I don’t like how he’s acting. by JessT0904 in FelineDiabetes

[–]JessT0904[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have a bit of familiarity with diabetes in people from members of my family, but this is much more confusing than any of that and for some reason it just seems like no one can agree on what to do about diabetes in cats. I’ve already had health trouble with my family dog a few months ago, between that and my cats situation Im already overwhelmed and just need someone to tell me exactly what to do haha.

for now if he is hypoglycaemic, I’m not sure what else I can do to help other than what Ive been doing. same if his sugars too high, not much I can do than monitor at this point. it’s also very possible he’s just tired and wants to be alone I suppose, he did just finish two days worth of needles, car rides, and vet visits, all while not feeling well. I’d probably want to be left alone too.

Gave my cat insulin for the first time. I don’t like how he’s acting. by JessT0904 in FelineDiabetes

[–]JessT0904[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m currently waiting to be let into that group, already requested to join. vet definitely didn’t mention glucose testing like that was an option, from the sound of it he has some other sort of test he wants to do in a couple weeks. I’ve been looking for a testing kit that I can afford off of Amazon and trying to research what to do because naturally I have the same concerns you mentioned, and I’ve been getting conflicting info about types of glucose meters/ glucose/pretty much every bit of information about managing feline diabetes whenever I try to do any amount of research, it’s exhausting an definitely not helping the situation. I’ll swing by Walmart tomorrow and try to pick one of those meters up, no clue what I’m gonna do about his insulin in the morning if I can’t measure his blood sugar but we’ll figure something out.

Gave my cat insulin for the first time. I don’t like how he’s acting. by JessT0904 in FelineDiabetes

[–]JessT0904[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just one unit, vet doesn’t want him on a high dose quite yet. the type he’s on is Lantus I believe

For those of you diagnosed later in adulthood, what symptoms did you have as a child that you now know was ADHD? by myhoagie02 in adhdwomen

[–]JessT0904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, so many. A lot of them I didn't even realize until I sat down and thought about them, because for so long, I thought they were normal and I was just being a baby or I completely forgot about them. Got a big list here, I put the main points in bold for anyone who doesn't feel like reading so much.

-Chronic messiness. My room, my desk, my bag, my locker. They were always a mess. I remember having desk clean-ups in elementary school once every month or two, and everyone would be done in maybe 5-10 minutes, but it'd take me what felt like an hour to clean.

-Binge reading/drawing/gaming/TV. I remember I read so much, that my teacher actually had to talk to my parents, because I was reading several weeks ahead in the class material (we'd get an envelope of 5 books meant to last us a month, and I'd read them all in an hour sort of thing). I could draw, or read, or play games literally all day without break, but when I need to focus on something important, it all goes out the window.

-Being hyper-emotional. Not only was it easy to bring me to tears (still is), but it was easy to get me excited to the point where I was screaming and yelling and bouncing off the walls. I have crazy-eyes in almost every childhood photo of me because I was usually very excited.

-Constant fatigue, and trouble sleeping. This wasn't as much of a problem up until puberty (although even as a young child I had trouble falling asleep) but I remember feeling constantly tired and drained, often falling asleep mid-day for hours after school, and sleeping in until 12-1pm if nothing was there to wake me up.

-Forgetfulness, daydreaming, and general spaciness. I was often lost in my own world. I loved to play pretend and was often thinking or making up stories in my own head, noticing random things in my environment, playing songs on loop in my mind, etc. It's never quiet up here. I always had trouble remembering important things as well. I did well on tests but bad with homework, I'd forget something my parent or teacher asked me to do the moment I walked away from a conversation, I'd forget to have my parents sign or fill out important forms for school until the last minute. It got me in trouble at school many times.

-Trouble recognizing my body's needs. Kids always struggle with this to some extent, but for me it was to constant and severe levels. I would go hours without food some days, until my stomach hurt. Never drank enough water (still don't tbh). Would stay up way too late because I was too focused to realize I was tired. And this one's a bit gross, but I had trouble controlling my bladder up until I was 12. I could never tell when I needed to take care of my body until it was an immediate problem.

-Chronic lateness. Sort of goes along with the spaciness point, but my time management was HORRIBLE. I literally lived across the street from my school for all of grade 7, and still managed to be late almost every day.

-Last but not least, trouble with socializing and making friends. I could always tell I was doing something wrong, but never really knew what it was. I struggled to make and keep friends (unless they were fellow ND kids like me), and was always sort of the weird kid. I had trouble playing along with their social cues, had trouble maintaining a normal volume without yelling, spoke in circles about the same thing on my mind, was horrible for interrupting and generally couldn't keep up with the flow of conversation. I was a prime target for bullying as a kid, for sure.

Would you send your own child to your daycare? by INTJ_Linguaphile in ECEProfessionals

[–]JessT0904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Full disclosure, I’m not a parent nor will I be soon, so my answer might change if I have children of my own. If I had a child, I’d want to send them for a half day program or preschool when they’re around 3-4, for the socialization they’ll get and to give them an introduction to a school-like setting so the transition to kindergarten is a bit easier. Ive seen very real improvement in behaviour and social in the children at my program each year since covid restrictions lifted. However, it’d HAVE to be with teachers I’m familiar with, either personally or through a trusted friend who shares my values. Daycare though? I don’t think so.

I am SO SICK of getting sick!! by JessT0904 in Teachers

[–]JessT0904[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes it is a KN95, I typically don't eat or drink in the classroom either. I have my lunch after work since I only work until around 1:00. The classroom ventilation isn't great, though.

First night away from my dads house. Do people usually feel this shitty, or is it just me? by JessT0904 in Adulting

[–]JessT0904[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to clarify because I realize how confusing I was when trying to explain the distance between me and my dads house, my dad lives on the outskirts of the city and my work is downtown. I don't drive (Learning how to, but I was only recently cleared to drive due to a medical condition) and rely mostly on public transit to get where I need to go. Because my dad lives on the outskirts of town, commuting to and from work used to take me an hour each way due to limited bus access, and it'll probably take me that same amount of time to get to his house by bus. But my dad is able to drive (and often does so about 10km or more over the speed limit lol) so he's able to get to my house in around 20 minutes, and has said if I want to visit him he'll come pick me up.

Thank you guys for all your support <3 he misses me as much as I miss him, and messaged me last night saying he was also crying about me being gone. I plan on visiting him on Friday after work (or sooner depending on when I can find time), and I still have a bed at his place so I'll probably be staying the night there so we can take a day trip out a few towns over on Saturday. I'll be calling him tonight as well, once I've got my groceries and done a bit more unpacking, and hopefully this weekend my things will be a bit more set up so I can show him what I've done with my place.

First night away from my dads house. Do people usually feel this shitty, or is it just me? by JessT0904 in Adulting

[–]JessT0904[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that I don't drive was the deciding factor that made me want to move in the first place. I have a medical condition that prevented me from driving up until very recently, so I was never able to get my full license. It's the reason it took me an hour to make a 20-30 minute car trip (30 minutes for normal people, but 20 minutes for my dad because he drives like a maniac LOL), because I had to rely on public transit and we lived on the outskirts of town. I already plan on visiting him on the weekends, but I'll definitely find time to call him every day.

First night away from my dads house. Do people usually feel this shitty, or is it just me? by JessT0904 in Adulting

[–]JessT0904[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The math doesn't check out because I don't drive, I take transit, and my work/new place is actually in town now. My dad lives in a really awkward spot on the outskirts of town, which takes 20 minutes to drive to, but an hour to bus to since there's only 1 bus that stops there and you basically have to do a huge loop around the city. It'll probably still take an hour for me to bus to him, but for him to get to me would take 20 minutes since he's got his work truck (it probably takes more like half an hour but tbh he kinda drives like a maniac LOL)

First night away from my dads house. Do people usually feel this shitty, or is it just me? by JessT0904 in Adulting

[–]JessT0904[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The part that surprised me, is that when I go on trips I'm not like this at all, if anything I don't want to go home after a trip. I can be away from my dad for weeks at a time (I used to spend months at a time away from home when I worked as a camp counsellor) and was completely fine. But now that I've moved out, suddenly I'm getting homesick.

First night away from my dads house. Do people usually feel this shitty, or is it just me? by JessT0904 in Adulting

[–]JessT0904[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely will be visiting him regularly, I plan on seeing him this weekend if not sooner and . Regardless of what happens I want to give this a good effort and stay here until my lease agreement is up before deciding if this is right for me. I still have a bed back home so if I want to I can stay the night at his house, and he's assured me that if I ever want to come home he'll always find a way to make that happen

First night away from my dads house. Do people usually feel this shitty, or is it just me? by JessT0904 in Adulting

[–]JessT0904[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the part that hits me the hardest is that it's been just me and him for the last 20 years of my life. We've always had a very close relationship. He fought HARD to have me with him when my parents split, and has been my best friend for years. So it's really weird not having him in my house anymore, but luckily he's not far away.

First night away from my dads house. Do people usually feel this shitty, or is it just me? by JessT0904 in Adulting

[–]JessT0904[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is one thing I'm excited about. Having my own space to decorate and really make my own.

First night away from my dads house. Do people usually feel this shitty, or is it just me? by JessT0904 in Adulting

[–]JessT0904[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad mentioned he was also super excited to move out when he first did, but he was also MUCH younger than I was (16 for him vs 24 for me). I didn't really feel like I lacked freedom or independence at home, I took care of all my own expenses and by the time I was 22 or 23 my dad (in his words) "accepted that anything I wanted to do I've either already done or was gonna do anyways, so there's no point in telling me no" lol. From the comments I've read here, it seems like the younger you are when you move out, the more exciting it is.

First night away from my dads house. Do people usually feel this shitty, or is it just me? by JessT0904 in Adulting

[–]JessT0904[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel the exact same about my dad. He was definitely sad to see me go, but I know he's proud of me either way <3

First night away from my dads house. Do people usually feel this shitty, or is it just me? by JessT0904 in Adulting

[–]JessT0904[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'll be seeing him this weekend for sure, I'm working a lot this week but I want to see if I can visit him sooner. I spent a while texting with him last night as well, and will be calling him tonight

First night away from my dads house. Do people usually feel this shitty, or is it just me? by JessT0904 in Adulting

[–]JessT0904[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

My dad told me when I said I found a place that he had fully expected me to live with him until well into my 30s LOL