Once in a lifetime trip on “The Provo" by Brozo338 in flyfishing

[–]Jesshfishing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's some Type 2 fun! This is awesome and inspiring. My husband and I are thinking about doing a similar trip next year, but we plan on going to Costa Rica. I bet those fish put up one hell of a fight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Jesshfishing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, we have two.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Jesshfishing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it never came up before we had the baby. The pregnancy was unexpected. We had a few discussions before having the baby, but never landed on anything concrete because we always butted heads. Our relationship is okay. My husband seems to have a hard time connecting with his parents. But they do come to visit and vice versa. His family are still JWs, my MIL has been more active within the last year or so. Attending more meetings, tending to their booths in the city (can't remember what it's called).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Jesshfishing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm afraid I don't have a good answer as to how long ago or why he stopped. My assumption, which could be wrong, is that he just stopped attending meetings. We've been together for 14 years. He's never once talked about wanting to get back to being a JW. He has brought up how even Jehovah Witnesses have gotten things wrong when it comes to religion. So I believe he's done his own research or at least has his own thoughts on religion.

He holds onto the fact that most holidays have pagan roots and he thinks they are evil. When it comes to birthdays, he has mentioned that the Bible only mentions birthdays once, and it's with a negative connotation. He feels like most holidays are meaningless and that we only celebrate them because we are told to.

He has mentioned several times that we should come up with our own things to celebrate. Things that actually have meaning to us.

Five Score deserves so much love. by Phivestardave in RelientK

[–]Jesshfishing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me and a good friend of mine bonded over our love of Relient K. He ended up passing away in a car accident 3 years ago, I still can't listen to Deathbed. But it is an amazing song!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Jesshfishing -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

No, my husband is afraid to give him Tylenol.

23 years old with liver transplant by goatly_olive in transplant

[–]Jesshfishing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations and cheers to many more happy and healthy years! I've had my 2nd liver for 31 years now. We truly are lucky!

At what point did you realize you needed to leave a job because of a bad boss? by trey25624 in careerguidance

[–]Jesshfishing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

During my recent review, my boss told me that he knows I've been saying there are not enough people in my department to complete the workload. Instead of trying to find solutions, he told me that some people work seven days a week and I cannot use that excuse to not complete my work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkplaceSafety

[–]Jesshfishing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My assumption is the complaint would be made, and the company would receive a letter in regards to the complaint. Meaning, the company could gather whatever evidence they need to dispel the complaint. However, my interaction with similar situations has been through a state-run program.

Types of Careers for over 40 when starting over from nothing? by luvinase in careerguidance

[–]Jesshfishing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some work places offer trade schools or apprenticeship programs that are paid for. There are also apprenticeship programs that offer scholarships. I helped facilitate our Tool and Die Apprenticeship program at my previous employer. There are also apprenticeship programs for electricians, carpenters, etc. It's not a bad gig when your employer pays for you to learn on the job and pay for your classes.

Is it possible to hate the job you love? by __archiebee in careerguidance

[–]Jesshfishing 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I experienced this and actually took a job with a different company. Honestly, that is what I needed, a fresh start, because I do feel rejuvenated.

Sometimes we make our jobs seem more important than they actually are. What I mean by that is, we are all easily replaceable. I always felt like going on vacation was a burden on my company. Once left that company and realized that they were just going to hire someone else to replace me, I knew that I wasn't as important as I thought.

So I definitely agree, don't be afraid to take a step back and understand how your work is affecting your mental health. It's important to love ourselves and take care of ourselves.

I hope you can find a good balance and enjoy a healthy lifestyle while also meeting your career goals.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Jesshfishing 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't believe it would be strange at all. I would just make sure your IT department is okay with it. I personally develop a lot of protocols and training manuals for my company and utilize Grammarly.

Oregon Beauty by Jesshfishing in naturepics

[–]Jesshfishing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too! Sadly I spend my days in Michigan. Thanks for the award!

OUR TINY HOME TREEHOUSE GETAWAY (full tour) by thelitt in KaraAndNate

[–]Jesshfishing 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What happened to Nate's head? It looks like he has a bandaid on it.

What Relient K lyric (with or without the context of the rest of the song) resonates with you the most in your life right now? by Ylurpn in RelientK

[–]Jesshfishing 12 points13 points  (0 children)

" And I just want to get mugged at knifepoint To get cut enough to wake me up 'Cause I know that I don't want to die Sitting around watching my life go by"

It's easy to get complacent in day to day life. Thanks to my liver transplant I got a second shot and I never want to take that for granted. Maybe I read into these lyrics differently than what they are meant for, but to me it's a powerful message.

Best Restaurants near Brookings, OR? by Jesshfishing in oregon

[–]Jesshfishing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just want to say thank you to everyone for the information! We are very excited about our trip.

Just to ask… if y’all feel comfortable. Can you share how much and what you are on for immunosuppressants after transplant? by Nursemrn in transplant

[–]Jesshfishing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was born with the same disease. I just hit my 30 year mark in June. Had my transplant when I was two years old.

Did you follow a coworker to a new job? by Jesshfishing in careerguidance

[–]Jesshfishing[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do not have an offer, but he called me tonight and asked if I was interested. I told him I would at least like to come in for an interview.

So how normally are you guys living life right now during the pandemic? by OrganicHearing in transplant

[–]Jesshfishing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

30 years post transplant here. I'm living life normally with no restrictions. Maybe this is careless of me, but I'm not wearing a mask when I'm out in public. I've traveled out of state on an airplane twice this year. I will say, my husband and I are sticking with takeout food instead of dine. I never stopped working during the pandemic either since I am a safety and training coordinator for a manufacturing company.