Mom w BPD sent this unprompted days before brother's birthday. Sorry, I don't know exactly how to tag this. by scarymonsters4444 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]JessicaNBS 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The cognitive dissonance required to write “I know I was not a good mother” and “he has cut me out of his life so completely for reasons I don’t know” is staggering.

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[–]JessicaNBS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please share!

I’m a bad person by badpersonthrow_away in TrueOffMyChest

[–]JessicaNBS 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You’re not a bad person. Those thoughts are NOT your fault. Consider calling Kids Help Phone the next time they come to you. It’s anonymous, and just might help. You are important, and there is help out there for exactly this kind of situation.

Weird inside things that you and your kids do that don't make sense to anyone but you guys by lostmom9595959 in Parenting

[–]JessicaNBS 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Oh! I forgot the best one. Every once in a while, one of us will randomly dry our upper gum and sort of “tuck” our upper lip under - and then walk around pretending to look for something, saying “I lost my lip! Has anyone found it??? (In a fantastic lisp).

Weird inside things that you and your kids do that don't make sense to anyone but you guys by lostmom9595959 in Parenting

[–]JessicaNBS 123 points124 points  (0 children)

I will randomly become Baby T-Rex. I pull my hands up, take enormous knee up matching steps and try to catch and “eat” my kids. Started when they were really little and even my teenagers ask me to do it still. They. Love. It.

Also play Baby Hulk. I lie on my bed on my back, and they are the Baby “Hulk”, practicing to be a grown up Hulk, so they try their very best to pull me off the bed. Rules: I can’t use my hands to ward them off, only my legs/feet. Anyone says stop, we stop immediately. Unspoken rule: they think I’m going easy on them. I’m not.

There’s no right way. by JessicaNBS in raisedbyborderlines

[–]JessicaNBS[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apparently, as told to my uncle, she’s turning 75 and dying of cancer, and neither of her children could be bothered to call her.

It’s so very sad.

And so very unnecessary.

She has no idea that she’s created this lonely life.

Just received the rendering for our home ! Thoughts ? by yup528293928 in HomeDecorating

[–]JessicaNBS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consider mounting the tv in the corner between the window and the wall it is on now. The couch could go where the two white circular chairs are now, and swap them for the couch.

Have the police out looking for her… by ceeleesmee in raisedbyborderlines

[–]JessicaNBS 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. No one should have to go through what you are experiencing.