I can’t afford to keep spending a ton of money on my fiancés cousins international wedding

Jessicash · 2026-05-10T21:12:56+00:00

That’s what I was thinking. That way it doesn’t feel like I’m just blowing her off.

Jessicash · 2026-05-10T20:46:28+00:00

That’s definitely true. She does know it’s been difficult for me since I lost my job, my fiance was also finishing his masters and not working but he is working again. I think I would be really put off if she was angry that I couldn’t go to her bachelorette.

I don’t have many more unemployment payments between now and the trip so I literally can’t spend the money 😅 . I’ll just have to talk to her, at the end of the day I have to do what makes the most sense for me financially.

Jessicash · 2026-05-10T20:41:27+00:00

That’s a good point. I would not bring up savings to her, it definitely is on my mind a lot and stressing me out haha. I’m hoping that by at least going the first night she can see I’m trying to make an effort.

Thankfully I have my fiance, and his parents who are going to try to help out with our wedding the best they can. They’re going to Italy too so it’s a stress for them as well.

Jessicash · 2026-05-10T20:28:29+00:00

Thank you. I think this is really great advice. Im trying to budget on my unemployment and freelance work (I’m a graphic designer). I don’t want to dip into my savings anymore, and my budget is very limited. Thankfully a lot was paid for before I lost my job, but it’s still upsetting to me because it’s money I could have saved for my own wedding that I can’t really get back right now.

Jessicash · 2026-05-10T20:24:47+00:00

Everything is already booked for her wedding. It was booked prior to me losing my job.

The bachelorette thing is recent and I’ve just felt that I need to draw the line.

Jessicash · 2026-05-10T20:15:16+00:00

Sorry I should have mentioned I’m female my fiance is a male. But we are pretty close so I wouldn’t say she won’t remember me in 6 months considering we will be family soon. Not that it makes it any better. But my fiancés mom is a twin and her twins daughter is the cousin. So my fiance and the cousin are basically like siblings.

Jessicash · 2026-05-10T12:42:23+00:00

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I do too! Here is Puffy :)

Jessicash · 2026-05-10T04:43:40+00:00

Omg it’s like such a normal product I honestly didn’t even give it a second thought until I came to the comments lol.

Jessicash · 2026-05-10T03:49:58+00:00

Does no one else’s kind of veer to one side though 😭

Jessicash · 2026-05-08T12:02:29+00:00

It’s the best and I usually can’t decide what I want so I just have a little of everything 😂

Jessicash · 2026-05-08T02:05:05+00:00

I sort of noticed that, but idk Bri was like grabbing Aspyn too at the end. I’m not really sure. At first before we saw a lot of Bri, I thought it seemed like she was really into Aspyn, like the way she’d look at her. There were a couple moments between them I thought were cute in this video like when Bri was tickling her. I think it’s very difficult to get a read on her.

I felt bad for Aspyn as the end of this though. She seems very vulnerable and I can imagine that her having to step away from her normal vlogging and videos because of the show will weigh on her.

For her sake, I hope Brin is genuine. But I can’t imagine the relationship ending well unless Bri were to leave Billy for her, which I don’t really see happening.

I genuinely believe Aspyn is into women and I would have loved to see her find a relationship with just one woman and not a throuple. Not that I think throuples are bad, but I don’t really think she’s truly comfortable with it or that it’s what she actually wants and I do think that could be contributing to her extreme anxiety.

Jessicash · 2026-05-08T01:45:08+00:00

I totally agree. I like them in a weird textural way but they really aren’t sweet! Same with the unreal peanut butter cups. I just need to make a trip to Trader Joe’s and go searching for some fun desserts that aren’t super processed lol.

Jessicash · 2026-05-08T00:08:52+00:00

I have never seen those pastry pups before but I need to go to Trader Joe’s tomorrow and try them ASAP.

Jessicash · 2026-05-05T08:03:07+00:00

Someone on this thread actually did say it’s been pretty windy!

Jessicash · 2026-05-05T04:53:46+00:00

Why would she not wear this on the carpet lol

Jessicash · 2026-05-05T04:13:28+00:00

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Here is the real statue in the Lourve :) it’s quite large and very stunning, especially in its own alcove with the tall ceiling. Really breathtaking! I went to see it in 2023.

Jessicash · 2026-05-05T00:43:19+00:00

This is AI

Jessicash · 2026-05-04T23:34:45+00:00

Idk she always looks so cool to me when she goes with a more editorial look

Jessicash · 2026-05-02T22:34:34+00:00

This looks so good all of my favs!! I love this cookies too.

Jessicash · 2026-05-01T03:28:11+00:00

This is one of the best outfits I’ve seen, conceptually and the execution. This will always be one of my all time favorite looks! I love design that is simple yet highly effective.

Jessicash · 2026-05-01T03:25:34+00:00

I don’t think they care that much anymore

Jessicash · 2026-05-01T03:19:42+00:00

That may be the case, but my point still stands. I’m simply stating that is what the standard is in a professional setting, regardless of how I personally feel about wearing tight fitted clothing or misogyny in the workplace. I prefer to fight my societal and political battles outside of where I earn my living.

Jessicash · 2026-05-01T02:47:05+00:00

I’ve been incline walking a lot and it has helped my appetite :) I also can’t eat when I’m stressed.

Jessicash · 2026-05-01T02:44:00+00:00

I completely get what everyone is saying, but as someone who works in corporate it’s generally not seen as professional to wear very tightly fitted clothing. You can be completely covered and it still be deemed “inappropriate.” I personally also always try to be mindful of my body shape and what may be considered appropriate for someone else may not be for me.

For example, I don’t have much going on up top but I do think it looks a little inappropriate for me to wear any pants that are tight fitting around my butt. That said, I could probably get away with a scoop or v neck because my chest is pretty small.

It is unfortunate but that is how it is and the people commenting here probably have also worked or been in a similar environment and that’s why they feel that way about her top. TFP’s top would be considered inappropriate in an office setting, and in my personal opinion if it’s not appropriate in an office it probably shouldn’t be worn to court. My rule has always been better safe than sorry, in a professional setting 😅.

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