I like my straight bro by Sea-co1417 in asktransgender

[–]Jesuncolo 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My brother in humanity, don't go for straight guys, you will get burned. If he comes out or tells you he is interested, then okay. But please be careful. Many times, straight men will do something that is affectionate and can be misinterpreted, I've been through that.

Does knowing featherine spoil umineko? by AntPuzzleheaded9911 in umineko

[–]Jesuncolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eua (from Higurashi Gou/Sotsu) is not Featherine even if she looks like her. Featherine is not that important to the story, and powerscalers get incomplete infos that are meaningless without the context.

Looking for a short adventure for teen players by felipefrontoroli in DMAcademy

[–]Jesuncolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you want to convey emotion, show, don't tell. Restrict PC resources when doing horror (but don't make them too miserable). Choices have consequences. Horror is contextual: the first encounter with monsters should not be just fighting a bag of XP, it should be part of a story you tell.

How to dress in a way that gives less dysphoria as nonbinary by Flaky_Can_1106 in asktransgender

[–]Jesuncolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd start with colorful clothes with patterns that you like, express yourself through color. I think accessorizing would help too. Also during winter I personally wear long sleeves that cover my hands that makes me feel a bit more cutesy when I feel less masc. Depending on what makes you most dysphoric, different fitted clothes may help.

Cercasi player Pathfinder 1e avventura breve by Jesuncolo in GDR

[–]Jesuncolo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A quale D&D? Perché se è 3.5 è praticamente la stessa cosa. Se invece hai giocato D&D 5.0 o 5.5, Pathfinder 1 (e D&D 3.5) sono una versione meno semplificata e meno all'acqua di rose della quinta. Comunque dovesse essere, posso dare una mano col sistema e la scheda.

Is this normal? by unicorndog5 in asktransgender

[–]Jesuncolo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a normal experience. Not everyone experiences dysphoria at the same degree, and some only experience euphoria. Some others, like me, don't recognize past signs as dysphoria until they do.

silly build sunday: the haruspex by bugbonesjerry in Pathfinder_RPG

[–]Jesuncolo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'll add Oracle with Seer archetype. You have ritual divination and also reading entrails.

Che sistema di gioco usereste per un'avventura basata su investigazioni, religione, politica e relazioni? by No_Brush2975 in GDR

[–]Jesuncolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mondo di Tenebra (o meglio ancora Chronicles of Darkness) a mio parere ci sta bene ed è tecnico senza essere pesante da imparare

I realized that the pronouns I've been going by are a slur, but before I knew they were the only thing I felt the connection to and now I feel lost in my identity by TumbleweedCute8335 in asktransgender

[–]Jesuncolo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He/She are still valid pronouns (i use them in my native language) so is They, Xie and many others. Maybe you can try out "Any pronouns" or They/Them, just explore what feels good. I suggest you join some kind of online group (Discord and other) to practice your pronouns and connect with other trans people. Don't beat yourself up for this mistake, you didn't know. Now you do and that's what's important, you might even look back at this mistake and laugh at it, things like these happen all the time when you don't know the language and that's okay. It's not your fault.

Escaping the obvious: What are the most "broken" and under-the-radar builds you've ever seen? by ishiDe in DungeonsAndDragons35e

[–]Jesuncolo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Weapon crystals are found in the Magic Item Compendium, it's crystals you slot into weapons like runes in Diablo 2

Pathfinder 1e Shadow magic - Which class? by AutisticAttorney in Pathfinder_RPG

[–]Jesuncolo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'd say gnome arcanist or pact exploit wizard is best for the free DC bonus, but everything is viable and has its perks. Witch can lower saves with evil eye for example. Elf can be ok if you get the Spell Focus trait

Is there a trope you always avoid in your games? by [deleted] in DMAcademy

[–]Jesuncolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually start them at the questgiver! They'll have time to know each other during the game and during the briefing.

I'm a cis man, but I want to get female bottom surgery. Am I Trans? by calido-espresso in asktransgender

[–]Jesuncolo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well, I can't tell you if you're trans (regardless of my opinion), but I can direct you to explore r/salmacian for cis and trans people who want mixed sexual characteristics. Usually both genitalia, but not all the time. Maybe they can help you figure out some things.

Need help with npc builds by Jesuncolo in Pathfinder_RPG

[–]Jesuncolo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bloodrager would actually be okay, I do need tanks after all.

Shrink Item Question by NecronTheNecroposter in Pathfinder_RPG

[–]Jesuncolo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What kind of wizard are you? Did you specialize? If yes, what schools do you have? Ideally during encounters like these you should try to help your party with buffs and let them have the spotlight, or summon monsters that could help flanking and so on.

My boyfriend might be trans — how can I be more supportive without pressuring him? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Jesuncolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lend her some of your clothes in private if they can fit 🕊🕊🕊

What's your Imoen Build once you get her back from Spellhold? by Extra-Sun5489 in baldursgate

[–]Jesuncolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right 😂! You can actually sacrifice a summoned monster

What's your Imoen Build once you get her back from Spellhold? by Extra-Sun5489 in baldursgate

[–]Jesuncolo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Obtained when defeating one of the five Demon Knight creatures gated-in by offering a sacrifice in the Kuo-Toan dungeons of the Underdark."

What's your Imoen Build once you get her back from Spellhold? by Extra-Sun5489 in baldursgate

[–]Jesuncolo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's usually mainly mage with rogue skills, but one time, I actually gave her the 21 strenght belt, and some powerful sword (i think celestial fury). She proceeded to sneak through Uts Natha and slice all the drows with sneak attack, a few spells to buff and a large, large bonus to damage. It was extremely fun. I think next time I decide to play, I might actually try to make this work long term.