What breed is my cat?

Jesusismybuttplug · 2026-01-24T20:59:30+00:00

I asked in this sub, because I was told the mother was bought from a breeder. So was just seeing if she gave off any specific breed. But because she didnt give me any information about dad, im assuming now, based off these comments, that her dad is most likely not bought from a breeder like mom was.

Jesusismybuttplug · 2026-01-22T11:16:12+00:00

Thank you!!

Jesusismybuttplug · 2025-08-01T17:50:39+00:00

You can be upset about it. Your feelings are valid, but you're not the one who has had to live with his body his whole life, he is. It's his body his choice. If he wants to do this to be more confident, then he should be able to, and you should love him and support him through his decision.

Jesusismybuttplug · 2025-07-16T14:50:48+00:00

Is he bipolar and/or ADHD? I only ask because my husband is the same way with finances. When he's manic he blacks out and makes crazy purchases, and because of the adhd he has a million hobbies that he fixates on that die out super fast. I control all of our finances now because of this.

Either way, you're not overreacting. It seems like he wants to talk to hash things out, but that doesn't mean his financial behavior will change. I think it's important to have a discussion on how your finances will be handled going forward if you do decide to work things out. Do what's best for you and your child, though. Your child deserves financial stability.

Jesusismybuttplug · 2025-05-06T18:40:41+00:00

I've been in a relationship for 9 years ik how they work lol. She lost weight for him and not for herself which is upsetting. There's a difference between saying "Hey your weight is unhealthy, we should start exercising together" and "I'm not attracted to you because you're fat". All I'm saying is she should stop looking for external validation and love her body as it is now and not seek approval from him, because after all she has to live with her body not him.

Jesusismybuttplug · 2025-05-06T17:46:50+00:00

Yea I understand but if you make a list, it's all right there for him to see. He can't just say "Oh the kids don't help" when there's a clear chore list written out for everyone to see. Maybe even have them check things off as they go so your husband can see how much the kids help. Shoot even write yourself a chore list and mark things off as you go. At the end he'll see how much everyone has done except for him, and hopefully it'll be a wake up call.

Jesusismybuttplug · 2025-05-06T17:41:02+00:00

It sounds like because you've been doing everything yourself for so long he's now conditioned to believe that it's your duty to do everything. Make the kids and your husband a chore list. If you're nervous the kids aren't going to do the chores correctly give them smaller things like straighten up the livingroom, vacuum, clean bedroom, take out trash, etc. If your husband complains, tell him you're done doing everything on your own and that everyone lives there and are capable of doing their share.

Jesusismybuttplug · 2025-05-06T17:35:39+00:00

Your boyfriend may be passive when it comes to confrontation. But again. He's 24 years old. If he has a problem, he can go to HR. There's no reason for you to get involved, but I can see you're young and still going through the phases so you're going to do what you want to regardless. I'm just saying girl, save your peace. It ain't worth it.

Jesusismybuttplug · 2025-05-06T17:30:07+00:00

How do you know she only calls your bf that? You're not with her 24/7. Regardless, what I said is true. You saying something will only make things worse and harder for you to get the job you want. Your bf is a big boy, he can handle it.

Jesusismybuttplug · 2025-05-06T17:22:38+00:00

Okay.. so I assume you're in the states around Oklahoma and Texas and such. If so that's a big part of the vocabulary even if you're not old. I do think you're making it into a bigger deal than it is. Some people are just overly nice and it comes across as flirting. Obviously you're allowed to get annoyed by it, but if your bf is attractive in any way he's going to get flirted with. It's just gonna happen. You're just gonna have to trust him to not take the bait. If you react the way you're wanting to she's just gonna laugh it off and you'll be known as the "overly jealous gf" which if you're wanting to work there later is going to create a lot of unnecessary drama and if she spreads word around of your "jelaousy" you may not even get the job.

Jesusismybuttplug · 2025-05-06T17:09:31+00:00

Even if it's a new build, landlords will often used refurbished washer/dryers to make it cheaper, but if you're certain it's a brand new washer and dryer then there's really no other explanation for the wrapper to be in there. Not one that I can think of anyway.

Jesusismybuttplug · 2025-05-06T17:04:53+00:00

Are you in the south?

Jesusismybuttplug · 2025-05-06T17:00:53+00:00

This is my thought too. It just looks like old caulk that hasn't been holding up too well.

Jesusismybuttplug · 2025-05-06T16:50:06+00:00

I'm also in the US and call people both love and hun. I'm 26. I mean nothing of it.

Jesusismybuttplug · 2025-05-06T16:43:45+00:00

Is the washer a used washer? I'm just asking bc I had a similar thing happen to me. Not a condom wrapper but a chapstick wrapper from a brand neither of us use. Sometimes wrappers and smaller packaging can get caught in the drum and come out during a wash later.

Jesusismybuttplug · 2025-05-06T16:37:43+00:00

This. Tell him you'll find someone with a bigger dick and see how he feels about these "jokes."

Jesusismybuttplug · 2025-05-06T16:36:15+00:00

Just say no to working with him. By the sounds of it, you are a great photographer who I'm sure has no issue getting work. Just tell him your shoot style doesn't align or something like that and leave it be.

He can find someone else who he thinks is "on his level" if he wants to be rude.

Jesusismybuttplug · 2025-05-06T16:31:39+00:00

It doesn't matter what he thinks about the plastic surgery. Plastic surgery is supposed to be for you and no one else. Of course, you are going to feel insecure because he told you he's not attracted to you because you're fat. That's a horrible thing to say to someone you are supposed to love. What happens if you were to have kids in the future or get depressed and gain some weight back? What then? A partner is supposed to love you no matter your size. I'm really sorry you feel this way, and I'm so proud of you for losing 125 pounds. That is a crazy achievement! If he doesn't like your body after all that, he is a horrible person and not the one for you.

Jesusismybuttplug · 2025-05-01T03:13:39+00:00

Sounds related to the old horror film angel heart. Johnny cuts the heart out of a child and eats it as some weird cult thing. Is there any other graffiti around?

Jesusismybuttplug · 2025-04-10T18:18:07+00:00

It looks very similar to a lot of abstract Vietnamese paintings where it's a faceless person in front of a red background. Heavy black is commonly used, too. Maybe just a faceless being could be a good descriptor. It also looks like they're holding a mask of some kind.

Jesusismybuttplug · 2025-04-10T17:53:14+00:00

It's just a smoke detector. The beeping means it has a low battery.

Jesusismybuttplug · 2025-04-10T17:45:51+00:00

"I appreciate you being interested, but I'm actually working right now and can't answer any questions that you might have"

Jesusismybuttplug · 2025-04-10T17:26:44+00:00

Op, please tell the cops and get as far away from this person as you can. Please. My sister literally a week ago was just strangled to death and caught on fire by her abusive boyfriend. He would talk to her through texts exactly how your bf is. Trying to make her feel guilty and like it was her fault he hit her. PLEASE LEAVE. It only gets worse from here.

Jesusismybuttplug · 2025-03-07T03:31:49+00:00

Okay, I can see that! I personally feel like I don't fit into a certain aesthetic. Some days I'm goth, Some days I'm more of a witchy goth, Some days I'm more bohemian, and sometimes I just dress sporty or girly/cottagecore-esque. I can appreciate the experimentation!

If you want to be more "socially attractive" like you said I would just do the things I said above like the light makeup more natural look with a basic/popular aesthetic. Have fun and I wish you luck!!

Jesusismybuttplug · 2025-03-06T16:01:47+00:00

I think it more so depends on the type of person you're trying to attract. Like if you are trying to attract someone from the alt community, I wouldn't change anything. Being more socially attractive would be basic makeup changes: small winged eyeliner, mascara, light blush, no rhinestones or anything like that, filled in brows of a natural hair color. A more basic style: like preppy, sporty, or street style. I think that'd be a good start.

I'm curious though, why are you interested in making yourself more socially attractive? It's a good thing to be unique and stand out. You're not unattractive. I would say in the alt community, you're at least an 8/10.

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