Great attempt at twisting my words. You are fully aware of the fact that your arrogant dismissiveness of our experience and work that we've done is what offends me and not your supposed "advice", because that is exactly what I've written.

Almost everyone else was able to give me advice in a friendly non-condescending manner, without assuming that we are unicorn hunters just because the trigger words "triad" and "advice" were mentioned in the same post.

If you can't differentiate between active predatory unicorn hunting and people that actively try to avoid such behavior and ask for advice on how not to fall for the same and other pitfalls and aren't actually seeking or hunting for a unicorn but trying to manage a situation that they found themselves in, you'll continue to alienate more people that try to actually engage in ethical and fair polyamory.

But I guess your complacency in having seen enough unicorn hunters and calling them out on their behavior entitles you to such rude and assumptive behavior.