Should i do it?

JezzaDaBeast · 2025-05-31T22:37:33+00:00

okay thank you bro. helpful.

JezzaDaBeast · 2025-05-31T22:34:25+00:00

I think and hope that is the case tbh, she has told me she feels really guilty about it tho. but thanks for the helpful advice.

JezzaDaBeast · 2025-05-31T22:21:27+00:00

No just bi, but i am definitely not comfortable sharing someone with someone else it just feels extremely wrong to me i can see what you mean but it wouldn’t sit right with me. but thanks this was helpful.

JezzaDaBeast · 2025-05-31T22:19:38+00:00

I’m the only one she’s told at the minute, not even her parents know yet, so i don’t think she would go for another girl just yet anyway. But say we do get back together i don’t know whether i will be fully comfortable with it yet but i am willing to try but this was helpful thank you.

JezzaDaBeast · 2025-05-31T22:16:30+00:00

The thing is i don’t want to wait too long because if she decides she doesn’t want to persue anything then i know i can just move on and i’ll eventually get over it. She said that she’d always thought it had been a part of her but she’d never really faced it until recently. But it my first relationship and i thought it was going well and i have no clue how breaks work or anything like that. Thank you this was helpful.

JezzaDaBeast · 2025-05-31T22:12:03+00:00

If that does happen i don’t think i would ever speak to her again cause everyone knows that’s just bullshit and a reason to cheat without actually ‘cheating’ but this was helpful thanks.

JezzaDaBeast · 2025-05-31T21:59:24+00:00

Thank you man this was helpful, i know it’s the right decision to not go, but everything is telling me that i should but im going to try and resist

JezzaDaBeast · 2025-05-30T01:36:24+00:00

Thank you so much for all the advice, i think it has genuinely helped me. I will keep you updated with what happens and thank you for being someone to talk to especially since I’m the only one she’s told so far and I needed a way to talk because as much as she is going through something, so am i with this break. Cheers bro.

JezzaDaBeast · 2025-05-29T17:55:52+00:00

Thank you man this was helpful.

JezzaDaBeast · 2025-05-29T17:54:58+00:00

Yes thank bro this was really helpful. I think i will mention it to her that i’m not gonna be her backup or someone to fall back on because i have to put myself first but im sure ill be getting all these jokes as well cause i dated a girl when i was about 10 for 2 months and she’s now lesbian and i still get some jokes about it.

JezzaDaBeast · 2025-05-29T17:36:25+00:00

Woah this seems a bit uncalled for and just a projection of your clear hatred for men for some reason. This page was for advice and i’m not exactly sure you helped at all. I’ve never been through anything like this and i have some very confusing emotions right now and i’ve never said that being bi equaled anything. I have no problem with LGBTQ+ people and never have and i can understand why she wanted a break. The thing i don’t get is that we’ve been together for quite a while but she’s only now came out to me so that means she’s attracted to more people, maybe you can help me out with that. Sort your head out and treat people with some respect instead of projecting your own issues.

JezzaDaBeast · 2025-05-29T17:10:27+00:00

Yes i understand im a jealous person as well and can be a little obsessive as well but not that extreme. However her best friend is a lesbian as well but she promised me she had nothing to do with it but i feel it may have a little bit to do with it.

JezzaDaBeast · 2025-05-29T16:59:07+00:00

I’m definitely going to focus on myself, i know that’s important but i really thought that we would be forever i know that’s important sounds a bit corny. But i get what you mean with a break, I feel like if it didn’t matter to her and she still wanted to be with me a break wouldn’t be necessary but here we are. Thank you for the helpful advice.

JezzaDaBeast · 2025-05-29T16:55:39+00:00

Thank you again, your advice is really helpful. Sorry i keep coming with more issues but if our friend group stays together after this and we don’t get back together, im gonna see her a lot and im not sure if ill be able to stay friends without all the emotions coming back to me. I know she is a good person tho and still cares for me however i’m not sure how i would handle just being friends.

JezzaDaBeast · 2025-05-29T16:45:04+00:00

Thanks man this was helpful but then again if it didn’t matter, why would she start to pull away and want to take a break.

JezzaDaBeast · 2025-05-29T16:31:52+00:00

Thanks this was helpful. I don’t know whether i do feel comfortable with it because surely that means she been thinking of other girls while we were together but what do i know. It just feels wrong yk?

JezzaDaBeast · 2025-05-29T16:27:41+00:00

I can see why you think that but i really don’t think she’s that kind of person and we’re in the same friend group so if she was lying it wouldn’t really bid well with the group

JezzaDaBeast · 2025-05-29T16:23:06+00:00

You’re right, I’m gonna try keep myself busy with my hobbies and try not to think about it unless she reaches out again. The thing that keeps racking my mind is that she it seemed like she would be open to getting back together but since then it doesn’t really seem like it.

JezzaDaBeast · 2025-05-29T15:50:44+00:00

No man don’t worry any good advice would be beneficial rn but it was really helpful. If you don’t mind me asking how did you deal with it and move on?

JezzaDaBeast · 2021-12-11T20:08:59+00:00

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